I'll try to cut the long story as short as possible.

There is no insight to this. You didn't explain in details.

I think he is still trying to copy and paste the story..

Shegzy8:
There is no insight to this. You didn't explain in details.

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Colb461:
I think he is still trying to copy and paste the story..

on the contrary i don't do what u actually typed. Networks at creeks can be terrible.

2. I tried negotiating with my gf on the sch to start her up with. While on land i went to 3 diff schs to get her admitted. 1 out of the 3 schs is a british intl sch with fee btw 80 and 90k for a start. The other 2 ranges frm 30 to 40k. She made her pick with d british cz of my child's complexn (albino) nd i tried to xplain hw 80k + for a kindagatn bt she startd sayn things she shouldn't say. I went ahead to enrol d child bt told ha dt d feeding will b on d guardian (her sis)

Ok.don't mean to get you angry bro

feaz:
on the contrary i don't do what u actually typed. Networks at creeks can be terrible.

3. My mum has never seen d child but wants to. I told her to take the child to go see my mum at port which is few km frm where d child stays bt she refused. My mum nw shows remorse as she's seen my seriousne7 wt her but she's making things worse for me ...my mum was in Lagos for a meeting and wanted using the opportunity to pay her family a visit. I called her to direct my mum to where she stays but she refused.

feaz:
on the contrary i don't do what u actually typed. Networks at creeks can be terrible.

ogbeni creek network doesnt prevent your writing from being clear, why not take time and type it well so that somebody will read

I dont understand what you are writing oh

Her attitudes has really made me question so many things one of which is if the child is actually mine ... People say she's my look-alike bt i'm nt albino neither is any one 4rm my fam. This issue is rilli disturbn n frustrating dt atimes i get tempted to use my rifle on myself n so many wrong thoughts...she's nt even acting like a mother, kips posting pix revealn sm vital parts. If i talk she doesnt take heed. I wnt my child to cm stay wit me 4 sm while since due to d nature of my wrk restricting my movements bt she wont let it happen. pls ur advices ar needed. Pardon my spellings nd short wordz.

THANK U ALL!

Colb461:
Ok.don't mean to get you angry bro

not angry bro

midnighter:


ogbeni creek network doesnt prevent your writing from being clear, why not take time and type it well so that somebody will read

I dont understand what you are writing oh

i've nw made it clearer

If men could learn not to "offload" their penis and unleash it on a woman's battleground, keeping it in their boxers before marriage while trying hard to study the kind of girl they want to marry so they won't fall into the trap of women, the lives of many men would be better and many depressed men today wouldn't suffer depression.

indeed, calamities befell past and present generations of men because of women. only if we can control our "Jack Daniels".

Well my own advice is, it seems to some degree that the paternity of that child is questionable. If you can afford it, please try to do DNA test. that's one.

secondly, with all sincerity I don't advise you marry that lady at all. In fact, if I had you as a younger brother or son, all in my capacity will be done to prevent you from marrying her. Please don't let the fact that she has a child for u (of the child is yours) make you feel compelled to marry her. That was a mistake and bloody mistake at that. Do not make that push you to make a bloodier mistake by marrying that lady that could be dream or destiny destroyer in your life. And do not let the charms of women prevent you from thinking straight and right. You are not married yet, you are already depressed. So what about if you marry?

So if it's proven that the child is yours, endeavour to always pay child support. But as for marrisge, please I'm begging you, NEVER do it with that lady.

Then after that, try to look for a good woman, employ all reasonable measures to study her to check if you are fine with her character and while doing that, make sure you put your urges on hold and never have sex with her.

If you've found a lady you are fine with, then marry her and fvck her all you want. It's very simple. Most men must fvck and nobody is saying you should not fvck. even God is not against fvck. But keep it confines of marriage and you'll be alright God willing.

So that's my advice for you.

Thank u so much bruv. I really find ur advise very helpful nd will follow as directed.

Good thing the child is already of age.. get a DNA test done sharply!! Then you can navigate to your next decision easily.

But don’t think of marrying that lady.