Please can someone advice me on how to control my temper and quick to reactions, my fiancé is complaining seriously about that and I promised and assured him that I will change.

Kindly advice me on how to go about it to enable me keep to my promise. I love him

In every situation, count silently to 10 before reacting.
It works for me

D ony solution is 2 become deaf and dumb.

no1madman:

D ony solution is 2 become deaf and dumb.

deaf and dumb

whenever we have a fight, i like expressing myself he says i talk too much, does it mean in that case i shd be d n d

pray about then seek counselling

Tell us exactly what you do when you are angry. Are you verbally or physically abusive?

Try 2 keep ur cool or u'll lose him.

Give yourself few days to respond you will find out that you you will be more calmer and enjoy each other

Outstrip:

Tell us exactly what you do when you are angry. Are you verbally or physically abusive?

I don’t always find it funny when I call him he won’t take his calls,

Am a kind of person that if hurt I verbally express myself and after some minutes I forget all that has happened no matter what it is, I find it easy to forgive.

He said he is worried and disturbed that I react over nothing, I don’t like it when he doesn’t take my calls, or respond to my text messages, or be mute when chatting. With the excuse that ‘’am very busy’’ I will endure it but if it happened again I become mad.

At times if I call and the number is off, I will be angry the next thing I will go and send mail, he will call and explain that he saw my text/missed call then I have sent the mail and pour out my heart, when he read the mail he won’t find it funny.

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What you have is Trust Issues not anger issues.
Deal with that first and see how free you gonna be

candyshore:

pray about then seek counselling

I usually tell God that any character in me that will make my husband to regret taking my hand in marriage, He should expose it and make me to deal with it before time.

Am also happy he opened up and told me my weakness than pretending as if all is well.

I will definitely work on myself

Your answer explains why I asked the question. I think you might just be a little too emotional for him. I am not saying you should not express yourself but the answer you gave totally centers around trust or maybe just being too emotionally needy. How about try calling him and he does not respond and you wait till her gets home from work and see why he did not respond all day. Also if it is not an emergency why call or expect a response right away to a text message. My husband responds when I text so i cannot say that he is right for not responding. I just get the feeling that you expect him to drop everything and respond. He is not your secretary he is your husband. You are on the right path though. Don't stop communicating just find a better way to. Don't send emails or text when you are angry. He will respond better that way

I think you are just insecure.

How old are you?