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| The Professional Virgin by fekuti: 7:24am On May 25, 2007 |
The professional virgin, are you one? Plenty girls make a sanctity out of the fact that they're "saving" themselves until marriage. There is nothing obscure about saving sex for marriage, but it's a different issue entirely to encounter someone who sees sex as a commodity to be bartered for a f-ucking wedding ring. I'll advise you men to leave these kind babes alone. They're looking for guys so special that you'll never live up to their clouded delusions. |
| Re: The Professional Virgin by fekuti: 7:50am On May 25, 2007 |
if sex with you is worth the wait till marriage. What miracles do you perform in bed that make you worth the wait? Many girls won't openly admit to liking sex for fear of castigation. They enjoy feeling morally superior to the desp. guys that chase after 'em. "oh sex, it doesn't cross my mind, that's just something guys do--unlike us holy women." |
| Re: The Professional Virgin by McDoe(m): 9:19am On May 25, 2007 |
It is better to experience it before the nuptial nut/day. Sex is fun, moral views notwithstanding. |
| Re: The Professional Virgin by afolayangs(m): 9:34am On May 25, 2007 |
The worse aspect of it is that most of them in this cartegory gets disvirgin cheap or from guys they do not like. BUt i do not advise sex b4 marriage but if some should see a guy that is serious with you and demand for sex while not give him the chase cos body no b wood. Some guys too are hit and go after disvirgin a girl that is the end of the whole thing but i always advise ladies to go into relationship with guys like at least 2 yrs to marriage or guys that are probably higher than them in terms of educational qualification so that by the time they will plan to get married the guy must have settle than before the lady graduates from school. On the final note let have sex with the lady we plan to get marry to and lady too should try and stick to one man. Its a personal decision of a thing |
| Re: The Professional Virgin by moHot(f): 2:19pm On Jul 07, 2008 |
i think a lady that strive to keep herself for her husband in this new age should be adored. If you are not a virgin please try to appreciate virgins cos it's really worth it. |
| Re: The Professional Virgin by Godalone(m): 5:54pm On Jul 07, 2008 |
moHot:You are right. |
| Re: The Professional Virgin by syren: 8:10pm On Jul 07, 2008 |
fekuti: Everyones entitled to live their lives the way they want. Don't complain  |
| Re: The Professional Virgin by tomokungbe(m): 12:30am On Jul 08, 2008 |
moHot:   I feel there are different types of virgins. Most of them around are just lucky to have that status because the opportunity neva come.SALUTE to those who have decided to be one not for the fear of being dumped after loosing it but for what is right morally. |
| Re: The Professional Virgin by Gabry(f): 8:00am On Jul 08, 2008 |
I think some of us Virgins are just Virgins cause we are not ready to do it but does not mean that we dont want to do it anytime soon. I think it depends on our readiness to do it. Its hard to explain but thats how I feel.  |
| Re: The Professional Virgin by topup: 1:23am On Jul 17, 2008 |
Fekuti, Well you haven't met me then. I believe sex should be kept until after marriage because one of two things, 1 - Until I have found a loopol in the Bible that says it's okay to do it when you feel like it, I'll keep to that. 2 - I don't want to have multiple partners and see I am single yet I have had 3 ex boyfriends, that means that if I had had sex with them I would have had 3 different sexual partners. I would never tell a guy that I would never have sex with him unless he married me because first of all I know that sex is a very natural thing and who knows one night of hormones and a committed and trustworthy boyfriend/fiance can cause you to throw caution to the wind (all you need is one night!) I never knew guys saw women who didn't want to have sex before marriage as bartering sex for a 'f-ucking wedding ring'. I always thought there could be mockery in these women, since the 'real world' operates on sex. I never knew, I thought most people agreed to disagree and would move on. If any woman wants to force a man to marry her by using sex, then that is messed up, because your husband would not be respecting the whole point of marriage. It doesn't say 'til the sex gets lame do us apart'. I told my ex no sex before marriage because I was very confused what I honestly believed (there's what the Bible says and what my mind is telling me logically), but because all my life I had believed that it was 'a terrible thing' I wanted to protect myself until I was sure. I wanted the guy to know he better not be in the relationship for sex (but you know some still stay to get sex despite your honesty and being upfront about it). I also didn't want him to think that I was being a tease OR that I wasn't attracted to him OR that I was contradicting what the whole relationship was about. Sex is so casual these days that even me being a christian and him being a christian, I still had to tell him, 'ya know I'm one of those christians who actually tries to abide by what the Bible says about sex' Don't hate, deliberate! |
| Re: The Professional Virgin by casper(m): 1:52am On Jul 17, 2008 |
I have not posted on NL for a long time but this is an issue i just got a revelation on from a seminar we did in my church. first of all, sex was made by By God for recreation and procreating, but guess wat the catch on that is "AFTER MARRIAGE" another point is that sex is a spiritual soul tie between the couples, that is why when you are being prayed for by your parents to find a wife or a husband they pray for you to find your "SOUL MATE" not bed mate. the one i found out that baffled me the most was the fact that anybody you have sex with, you both get "Soul tied" and do you know that man consists of 3 parts spirit, when u are born again this get renewed Soul, controls your emotions and thinking, basically freewill body, decays after you die. so now if your soul controls your everyday life and emotions, then tieing it up with another person or persons means that their emotions and freewill countrols your life also likewise you controling theirs.  scary right?it might not seem logical, but it is true that is why the devil and his advocates never stop curropting the world with sexual fantasies and stuff. check any advert on american tv, it is always linked with sex or perversion. go to the club, girls get drunk and all they want to do is have sex because liquor is demonic and most or some of the girls are devil sent, so as loong as your souls are tied the devil has INDIRECT and subtle control over you life. (not to anybody in particular). so the more sex partners you have the lesser you control your OWN LIFE and destiny!!! TRUE TALK!!!! THINK IT BEFORE YOU STICK IT!! 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: The Professional Virgin by spoilt(f): 2:38am On Jul 17, 2008 |
One hymen has been known to equal one bora car .  Or so one virgin bragged to us some months ago. i dont blame the original poster. |
| Re: The Professional Virgin by spoilt(f): 2:39am On Jul 17, 2008 |
but seriously these virginity threads are all played out. |
| Re: The Professional Virgin by jpphilips(m): 2:39pm On Jul 17, 2008 |
[b]@ casper d fact dat u re a christian, is it ur choice or by viture of circumstances of birth? if so, then u cud ave been a moslem or pagan as the case may be. if u hide behind christianity to make ur point, then obiously, uve not been liberated socially cos religion is just spiritual dimensions subjected to ur own personal observances in other words ''sentiments'' mind u dat some things christians refer to as eternal condemnation can as well be salvation for other religion. liberate ur self!!!!!!! personally, i dont do things because dey re right neither do i do the wrong things rather i do my things based on absolute necessity, let me guess, why u stick to christian values is simply becos u want to make heaven right!? i also guess dat y u want to make heaven is because christianity preaches eternal happiness for ur soul right? if all these be so, then; d bottom line is UR HAPPINESS then i ask? do u think dat if i should consider eternal happiness, dat i will not consider EARTHLY hapiness as well? of wot joy will it bring me dat on my honeymoon i realise my spouse is circumsized? dont u know it will paint a caligraphy of agony in my marriage the rest of my life? i still ask ,wot if i find out after marriage dat the born again girlfriend of mine had a past dat marred her chances of conception simply because she has confessed to d almighty and her sins forgiven capping it with old things have passed away, then i remain fatherless becos i want to be sanctimonious in the line of someone else's misdemeanor,where lies the happiness? and for the ladies; i still ask; of wot joy does it bring to you dat on ur honeymoon u realise dat ur ''for worse'' is a 2 inch prick not only does it threaten ur sexual satisfaction as ordained by God in marriage but also reduces ur chances of conception by 20%, does it still smell anythin like happiness or sorrow? so can my pastor justify my sacrificing my earthly happiness for eternal happiness? tell me how re u going to conquer these facts if ur sanctimoniosity wont even let u take a look let alone experience. my dear, if ur facts greately depends on the what the bible says, i will advice u tried the koran or perhaps the budhist stick u never can tell, u might learn something. so pis off with your sentiments and embrace ''REALITY'' [/b] |
| Re: The Professional Virgin by smooooooth: 2:46pm On Jul 17, 2008 |
anyone still a virgin, is not by choice, its just that they are yet to meet ''the bad boy'' lucky if he dosent come b4 marriage. but on a more serious note, though its worth the wait, it is really out of fashion, most guys dnt go all out looking to marry a virgin, but if one comes luckily,then its cool. |
| Re: The Professional Virgin by Nobody: 2:49pm On Jul 17, 2008 |
| clouded delusions? ok. I believe sex is meant for the wedding night, don't see the point in losing it before |
| Re: The Professional Virgin by Gamine(f): 3:18pm On Jul 17, 2008 |
All this kain threads sef!!! my finger don dey tire to post ooh!!!!  |
| Re: The Professional Virgin by Mustay(m): 3:49pm On Jul 17, 2008 |
Virginity sef don become career. Mody, oya transfer this thread |
| Re: The Professional Virgin by jpphilips(m): 4:25pm On Jul 17, 2008 |
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| Re: The Professional Virgin by topup: 5:37pm On Jul 17, 2008 |
LOL just because you choose to wait until marriage to have sex, doesn't mean you are ignorant. If the guy being circumcized or not bothered me that much I wouldn't just hope he was/wasn't, I'd ask, because you're not engaging in sex doesn't mean you must stay away from all things sexual. I personally will choose to ask questions and explore my 'future husband' in other ways so that I know what I'm in for, I'll ask how many partners beforehand, and you can always tell if someone's going to be terrible in bed, there are very few people who are terrible in bed, and in most cases it can be corrected with just time and practice. It's not as black and white as people are making it out to seem. |
| Re: The Professional Virgin by dadsgal(f): 3:33pm On Jul 18, 2008 |
ohhhhhh,i am really impressed by what [topup]has just said. so many people think that virginity is an old fashion thing,i dont really read my bible often but when am on my system,i go to the bible site to search for things that i really wanna no.i beleive and i no that VIRGINS,are still very much respected in this our 21st century.am happy because i no the truth and the truth will always set me free.our teenagers are really the no 1 corrupt people in this our generation.i am also a teeenager and anytime i try to convince them that this sex of a thing doesnt worth iot at all,they begin to insult and save negative things.am very happy and my dad is very proud because he no that no amount of guys that come to see,that as far as am still the baby of the house that he knows,am still with mu VIRGINITY. am not saying that i am 100% virgin because we all have disvirgined ourselves through our THOUGHTS,WORDS OR LOGICALLY. so i say to all young and beautiful,intelligent,hard working,faithful andb god fearing nigerian girls,please learn to keep yourself and abstain from SEX. |
| Re: The Professional Virgin by H2O2: 10:04am On Dec 21, 2009 |
some deep stuff here. Professional Virgin  ? |
| Re: The Professional Virgin by iice(f): 3:39pm On Dec 21, 2009 |
fekuti: Rofl. . .i laff at those ones jare. Anyway, like i said somewhere. . .it's for sale  |
| Re: The Professional Virgin by candylips(m): 4:22pm On Dec 21, 2009 |
fekuti: if this is your conclusion on this matter then i think you most be very lazy in the brain |
| Re: The Professional Virgin by Nobody: 4:26pm On Dec 21, 2009 |
Na today yansh dey back,so you never a virgin with oily pussssy.Virgin indeed |
| Re: The Professional Virgin by TOPE20001(f): 4:27pm On Dec 21, 2009 |
H2O2: Nna why did u resurrect this thread  |
| Re: The Professional Virgin by candylips(m): 4:28pm On Dec 21, 2009 |
TOPE2000!: can you speak french please i dont understand the above  |
| Re: The Professional Virgin by H2O2: 6:14pm On Dec 21, 2009 |
TOPE2000!:Nne na who's online ressurect am, no be me. |
| Re: The Professional Virgin by TOPE20001(f): 6:17pm On Dec 21, 2009 |
candylips: hehe, i dnt know to speak french but u fit teach me H2O2: lol, na ur name i see |
| Re: The Professional Virgin by H2O2: 6:21pm On Dec 21, 2009 |
Tope, let us do chinese in bed nau. I am a professional virgin looking for love. |
| Re: The Professional Virgin by ayosmiles(m): 10:21am On Apr 30, 2011 |
i think d issue of virginity is overated. id rather marry a pretty, intellygent nonvirgin wit gud attitude than an ugly, daft virgin. there is nothing wrong in havin sex but u av to know why u r doin it nd do it for d right reason |
| Re: The Professional Virgin by Nekai(f): 4:11pm On Apr 30, 2011 |
casper:  |
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