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Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by Dasgoro: 9:21am On Dec 03, 2019 |
If your criteria are not God-inspired you are heading for a brick wall.. Only the maker of hearts knows the two that best fit. Seek, and stay in His guidance. 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by drezzyx(m): 9:22am On Dec 03, 2019 |
My dear your time will come ,moreover you are still young. But I will only say give them a chance but avoid fvckboys as you call it... 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by Beverlyjean(f): 9:22am On Dec 03, 2019 |
Harlequeen: What happened between u and ur ex?? Did u end the relationship ,or did he end it?... all I'm saying is that u guys should hv fought to mk it work... Sex is so cheap these days that it will b very hard to find a commited guy ooo.... They are lots of facts that contributes to men being unserious these days unlike the past.... Eg economy , finance , social media , cheap sex , upbringing ... Try to figure out if u can get bk to ur ex 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by don4real18(m): 9:23am On Dec 03, 2019 |
Perhaps, the reason why men with the standard you have set hasn't approached you is because you are not up to theirs. Simple 15 Likes |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by askjohnprosper: 9:23am On Dec 03, 2019 |
Well, I'm here. I'm not established nor truly the business type. But I think I'm ambitious. 2nd degree and late 30s. I like your boldness and sincerity. Morality is key to coexistence and making the world a better place. Religiousness is good but mostly abused and people hide under it. Have you read the book "can there be morality without religion?" S. S. Eberiye. I think you are a good person and will surely get one to compliment you. John-Prosper Nwankwo (Port Harcourt) |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by praz001(m): 9:23am On Dec 03, 2019 |
Sometimes we don't really need advice from anyone because we know what is right.... One who really need advice wouldn't try justifying his/her action.... Ist... Drop your ego ( doesn't mean you should let anything run over your dictate you) just shift ground a little... Then try more. You can only come across a real match without relenting but can never be 100% match for you... Even twins have different character.. Adara ma kusibikan o si..... 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by Lonelypacifist6: 9:23am On Dec 03, 2019 |
anonimi:Little does she know that she'll meet Fvck boys and cyber criminals in lekki 8 Likes |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by Ibkay32(m): 9:23am On Dec 03, 2019 |
i think we do share things in common, DM me your number lets talk.. |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by optimus106(m): 9:23am On Dec 03, 2019 |
'You grew up under an ambitious father' No vex ooo Plzzzz Who is your father today 1 Like
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Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by OmoOshodi(m): 9:23am On Dec 03, 2019 |
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Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by loosecanon50(m): 9:25am On Dec 03, 2019 |
Check your mail hun |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by Samuels90: 9:28am On Dec 03, 2019 |
I just hope you will reciprocate this to the guy as well.. I like your standards, it's a good one. I just feel you a little bit picky/choosy... Look for a man with a good heart, credentials and ambitions don't save marriages again. It is better to b with a hustler with a good heart than a career person who is a monster. Wish u well, Peace 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by smogia: 9:29am On Dec 03, 2019 |
Beosten:god bless you bro,mind u nobody is God, u cant decide the future for him,as you know a rich man can be poor tomorrow, such as a poor man also, but always be prayerful the best wld come, dont list criterials,god knows how he does his things dont think for him. 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by OmoOshodi(m): 9:29am On Dec 03, 2019 |
Beverlyjean:Aunty wetin na...that one don chop and clean mouth....by this time next year she for dn commit multiple of same mistakes...that's how female life was designed to be......happily ever after for both men and women is in the hand of God...the supremost 2 Likes |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by chronique(m): 9:29am On Dec 03, 2019 |
Harlequeen: Finding the right partner is a very herculean task so be prepared for it. However, don't overdo things. I used to be very selective when I was younger but now, I've learnt to adjust. Just the way you are setting standards, that's how men of quality are setting standards and at the end of the day, we all find ourselves chasing after people who are chasing after other people who are chasing after others. Basically you need to list out four/five very important things you need in a man and once you get that, work around the rest and turn a blind eye to the other areas where he falls short. Some people are very well to do with all those polished appearance and all that but character is nothing to write home about. You have to ask yourself if it's worth it eventually. Personally, I'd not date someone who is doing biz like me but would want someone who is a career person irrespective of how little she earns. I don't care how much money the biz person is making cos I'm not interested. There are certain things that made me take that stand. I know you're still young and have enough time ahead of you but understand something : "the pool of quality men in all ramifications" is dwindling by the day and same goes for women. Sometimes, we all need to bend backwards a little bit to achieve what we want. Life is not cast in stone. 6 Likes |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by ipain: 9:29am On Dec 03, 2019 |
Chanchit:bros no mind dem. Na so one talk to me like say I no be human being, like say I no reach her standard. Meanwhile, na she no reach my standard. But baba God bless me 2 weeks after that incidence... In a massive way. What many of them do not know is that life will not always be rosy. That man they wish to marry for financial reason may have a lot of other toxic attitudes that money can't solve... Oh, some of them have died in such relationships cos of the money attached. That is good. They fail to understand that money can finish. I know a brother who was working at top oil company and had about 3 houses. Dude lost his job when Buhari came on board... Also these kind of men are in small pool and just as she is wishing to get such a man, she should be ready to compete with hundreds of such man. My sister was lucky to get such but not all of her friends could... Ones that got married earlier than her can't even match what she has. These kind of men think differently and they can smell a gold digger from 100 miles away. They don't know what it takes to accumulate such wealth and they think the mind of a man that comes with that kind of wealth can easily be faked love for. Jokers. 10 Likes |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by pryme(m): 9:30am On Dec 03, 2019 |
Harlequeen: Don't change the narrative my dear, from your post you made it known you will be a blessing to the man, in other world you will become the light in the man's dark world. You forget you are not even a blessing, if you were you would not open this thread. Has it occurred to you that the kind of man you are looking for is a man that is already blessed? Has it occurred to you that these kind of men may not even need you, that you need them more? Ofcos not, a highly intelligent girl like you with so much education won't need scraps that can't even afford to leave the country. I mean humble girls demand that her man relocate to another country because that is part of her specs, is she arrogant for thinking a man the that will marry her will live a blessing filled life because she is without flaws? No. Heck am sure you are angel that crash landed in the market, cos you never for once said you are a human being that also have their own baggage, You must be very humble indeed. Go back and read your initial post with all your "requirements" write them down somewhere so you won't forget, cos you will need to revisit that post 5 years later. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by peacettw: 9:30am On Dec 03, 2019 |
This is funny. I think it is safe to say that most women thought this way in their twenties. But life can be tricky. You may end up with the exact opposite of what you have listed out. And if you do find the one, you may not even be attracted to him. The one may even be a woman. Like I said earlier, life can be tricky and you may call this weird but I do believe that there are forces out there, watching out solely for what we greatly aspire for, in order to f* it up just for their own amusement. Be careful what you wish for. Best to keep an open mind and appeal to those forces (which many identify as the devil) to leave you the hell alone. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by Timileyin1234(m): 9:31am On Dec 03, 2019 |
dapo456:U want to mingle with a feminist. I pity ur life, with all criteria this geh put up there, she can’t find 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by Nobody: 9:31am On Dec 03, 2019 |
ojun50: Or would be shot down with husbandless pregnancy. That is guaranteed, for these kinds of entitled women with their heads in the clouds. 3 Likes |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by priestcharm(m): 9:31am On Dec 03, 2019 |
Hum. All I can read is you've raised the bar too high Babe. What most people consider as necessary in relationship are just the unnecessary things. Mind you, most guys might as well be putting you to test. What ladies don't realize is guys with what you need or desire also have their own expectation and you may not even measure up. So my advice Be open to as many guys as possible. Be Friends and don't rush into getting into a relationship. When you meet the right person, you will know but disregard all your ticked features your man must have. THE most important is for him to be ambitious to becoming somebody in life 2 Likes |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by OmoOshodi(m): 9:31am On Dec 03, 2019 |
optimus106:Otedola |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by Nobody: 9:32am On Dec 03, 2019 |
KEEP LOOKING. MY KIND IS HARD TO FIND. THE GOOD GUYS ARE WORKING. ON WEEKENDS WE ARE TOO TIRED TO GO OUT. BUT ONCE IN A WHILE, WE DO THESE... WEDDINGS, SPORTS, CHARITY WALK, CHURCH EVENTS, BIRTHDAYS, PICNICS, NATURE RESORTS, THE BEACH. Harlequeen: 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by OmoOshodi(m): 9:32am On Dec 03, 2019 |
Hedonini:she should go and ask Aunty linda IkejI . etc 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by Harlequeen: 9:33am On Dec 03, 2019 |
JayPeeOham:she is just slightly concerned that i am not married at 25 or seeing anybody for now, but she wants me to choose a good partner first of all. She tells me to do what i can and be smart about it.And she wants me to manhunt in the house of the lord. 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by Offpoint: 9:33am On Dec 03, 2019 |
Ladylite:I don't know if you drink gulder, I'm delivering 5 trailer of cold gulder to you this morning. |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by Nobody: 9:34am On Dec 03, 2019 |
If you raise a standard, then be sure you match same standard. You want a man with a car, good apartment, gainfully employed etc.... Do you have a car? Do you pay your own bills? Do you have an apartment to yourself?? The pu..s!y market is saturated now and only good pssies with good head gets a great spoil! ....start by upgrading yourself with your own money....(it’s a lot of work trying to upgrade with a man’s money)... I’m not talking Instagram-kinda upgrade... then every other thang will fall into place! 14 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by Avast(m): 9:34am On Dec 03, 2019 |
Beosten: You are a real man 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by Facidio: 9:34am On Dec 03, 2019 |
U don't have any problem, you are your own problem. You just need someone that is rich..... That's all. All these ur standards revolve around money. |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by Harlequeen: 9:35am On Dec 03, 2019 |
Timileyin1234:what is unattainable in my criteria? won't you achieve all these things at a time in your life. |
Re: I Don't Know What My Problem Is With Men And Dating by guzze01: 9:35am On Dec 03, 2019 |
I think I like your post, you need to be applauded. But I would like to give you a piece of advice from experience and reality. am a man and am neither interested in any form of relationship nor infidelity as I am a married man with a kid. if you wouldn't mind, you can add me up on WhatsApp. |
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