Marriage demands a lot of sacrifices. It requires us to sometimes compromise on some of our favorite habits and appearances to ensure a happy relationship. That is not to say that your partner should completely change their physical looks to make you happy. No. The only assurance for a blissful marriage is when your partner accepts you for what you are, and how you look. Get a partner that appreciates your physical traits without demanding you to change even a bit of it.

Appreciate the little changes
However, there are some of our habits that we’ve had to let go of to keep our marriages afloat. I remember during our early days in marriage when my wife could notice even the slightest change in my physical appearance. I would get to the house in the evening, and the first thing she would notice was by trimmed hair or beards. It was such concerns and paying attention to every little detail in each of us that set a strong foundation for our marriage.

For instance, last week, she had gone to the salon and got one of those adorable Haircuts for black women. It is one of those haircuts that makes a woman stand out from the crowd and turns on any man. I had failed to notice the hairstyle, despite all her efforts to look attractive before me. I felt dejected, but it was also a chance to revive our habits of appreciating the little sacrifices we make to have our marriage stable, and happy.

Spend some quality time together
We’re living in a very demanding world. There are emails to be replied to, deadlines to be met, and meetings to attend. We return to the house when we are drained. It means there is little or no time spent together, away from phones and TV.

Finding time to be together, away from any distraction, is one of the best ways to keep your marriage and partner happy. Never ignore this, find that time.

Surprise your partner once in a while
If your wife is always asking for a night out or wants some gift, grab the opportunity to surprise her. While at work, send her a message she should get herself ready for an evening out. Take her to one of her favorite joints and immerse yourselves into the soothing music as you relive your marriage years.

Reflect on some of the reasons why your marriage has worked
Every day, a friend, a cousin, or even a brother gets a divorce. It is not like some would have wanted to divorce, but it is always a last resort for a hostile marriage. If you have been married for longer than you can remember, maybe it’s about time you looked back at what has kept your marriage working.

Sit with your partner and bring back memories of happy times and laugh about them. Similarly, relive those awkward moments and how you get over them. You will be surprised at how much you can learn, and how happy you two can become.

Get to bed together
In our early days of marriage, we could go to bed together, and wake up at the same time in the morning. It was one of the ways to build affection. It’s been seven years now. Although we don’t do it much, we still find time to remind ourselves to retire to bed together as we cuddle and kiss.

It is just a way to let your partner know you steel value them and want them more.

The small romantic gestures we all ignore
Once in a while, walk into a mall, look for some flowers and carry them home. Don’t wait for Valentine’s Day to do this. Give her the lovely flowers to remind her you still love and care for her. It goes a long way in making both of you happy.

Stop the nagging
If you are the kind of wife that is always complaining, you better find a way to stop it. Nobody wants a bothersome and irritating wife or husband. You can find a better way to remind your partner to do something without nagging.

It is essential to know:
We can’t be happy always. There will be hard times. However, how we handle the difficult moments will be very vital for our marriage. More importantly, know that marriage is not about how your spouse makes you happy. It is about how you make her and yourself happy.

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But that going to bed together would be a little hard especially when you have some office task to complete which need urgent completion and can't wait till the next day.



understanding matters!

Noted !

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