I'm a 25.8 year old nerd who doesn't belong in his current habitat, but lacks the confidence to find a new one.

awwwwwwww what you chucking about oh! " "

I want to see how people will respond o.

i'm the second person to respond , try going to a place where everyone lacks confidence

Everyone needs a place to belong to. Just that most peeps loose their identity in trying to find it

@ mrpataki
i love wat u've said

search  inside ur heart well , and think of where you might feel comfortable .somewhere lively or boring

I belong to Muuki's room!

@Seun
Man u av a big problem oooo.CONFIDENCE abaa na d thingy be tht if u dnt av tht, [b]^{u berra find it}[/b]then wht ever we all say is countless cos u aint got d confido 2 do it.Wht u feel is a phase of everymans life, d only diff. is how u handle it.Where u r ryt now is d grace of God so enjoy it why it last cos Sorrow may last for a long time but surely JOY come's in d morning and morning is not wht has an AM next to it but its when u are able to handle ur situation n get out of it U GET D DRIFT?

Seun,

Don't let anything discourage you, you will be surprised that even most businesses here in the western countries are not doing much better than you are doing. As a matter of fact you are doing very well. Just a little push in marketting you'll be surprised how high you'll soar with this company you have built.

Seun, you are too young to be having a midlife crisis.  Maybe you are stuck in rut a change of scenary is always good.  you say you dont feel like you belong in you current habitat, and you have cold feet in finding a new one.  Well its never easy to leave the known, that is where our comfort zone is.  My advice, think about it some more, pray deeply about it, and make sure you have enough saved up.   (i.e moving expense, mantaince. etc).  
Also maybe a good road trip will do you good, I know naija doesnt have the best roads, so in our case travel 2weeks of pure exporation and see what you come up with.

@Seun

You need to find people you have things in common with and roll with them, share ideas etc. Also, this may come as a surprise, but a right girlfriend sometimes helps in balancing things out.

haywhy:


I belong to Muuki's room!

Oga haywhy, I didn't know you have a thing for miss Muki o. lol

stay right where u are dont go nowhere

u r doing good with ur present situation already

enjoy

@ Reverend Father Haywhy

Be careful wat you say about Mukina

You have all spoken well 

@Seun

This is what u want right,, but i think u belong to this habitat

Oga I beg siddon for Nairaland.Cos that's where you belong.

@ haywhy

@ Gnature nor mind am

@marlet

@seun found the place yet?

@ Mukina

I need a nurturing habitat where I can be rewarded for being myself.

Everybody wants the same! Your natural habitat is earth! Making it rewarding for being yourself is up to you!

Seun:
I need a nurturing habitat where I can be rewarded for being myself.

Guess you have found it.

I would have suggest you create your type of habitat but I won't say it not possible... but instead why don't you try adapt and still be the nerd u are, of course am sure the habitat u need is that kind that no one will be a threat to your nerdy lifestyle.

OR

In one word you are only scared of someday soon, someone might erupt from a hole to supercede u

This topic means Seun is now 34 years old.

Well...you are now a successful business man so you qualify.


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