| She Cheated On Me Emotionally by chinachukwu(m): 2:28pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
I will try to brief the issue here for help.
It has been sweet since i started dating my (4years) girlfriend. We faced so many challenges on the line which i forgave her and still moved on.
Recently for over (4) months, it has not been going smoothly between us, she exchanges words with me, her EGO increased so much that it was unbearable for me, she hardly to talk me on WhatsApp, when i try to explain her faults she will tackle me and say that i always find fault in her and so much more. I had to summon her to my school to settle things though she said she doesn't have money for Tfare i had to send her some money to come because it was too much to endure. She came in October and we settled our differences, she left for her school while i was in my own school.
Two weeks after she left my school, she started acting strange again and worst than the previous problem. This time she only calls ones (1min), She will log out on me on WhatsApp without telling me that she's about to leave, and a lot of things she did that made me so uncomfortable. This is the girl that always calls me 3-4 times a day and i do call her, the sudden drop on how much we call each other got me worried that I had to endure/neglect her but due to the love i had for her, I will still call her attention and explain things to her and tell her how relationship runs, also that lack of communication kills a relationship and all my advice/warnings to her never stopped anything. (She's 21).
I concluded that i won't tell her to visit me in school that whatever she wanna do let her do it, someday she said to me that she would like to visit me which i obliged because i needed to know what was wrong all those time she was in school. My mind was to monitor her phone calls and chat to know if i would see anything fishy, mind you, I don't go through her phones but her actions, when she was in her school, made me to..
So i took her phone and told her to unlock the phone that i wanted to take some movies so she unlocked it (fingerprint) and i insisted that she should tell me the code so i shouldn't worry her to unlock the phone when locked again and she told me the code, I quickly went to her text messages and saw messages she sent to a guy she saved her name with “Frances boo” I opened the message and saw some sensitive words like “I am so worried about you” why didn't you pick my calls” “I love you” etc I got angry and quickly rushed to her WhatsApp to see her chat with the guy, I opened the WhatsApp and it was locked and can only be unlocked with fingerprint, I thought of what to do and i wouldn't want to call her attention to use her fingerprint so a thought came to my mind to add my own fingerprint since i know the password. I did that and accessed the WhatsApp and searched for the “Frances boo”, I saw there chat and a lot of sensitive message, “that she didn't sleep well because he didn't call” “that she can't wait to go out with him after their exam" “she misses him, that he was looking so handsome” “that they look like couple on the picture they snapped" a lot of sensitive messages and i checked the call log she always call this guy (outgoing calls) most times before calling me.
Meanwhile when all these were happening she had a problem with her roommate in school which I said to her that i won't get myself involved again because the last time i did she later blamed me and said what got me angry but i later listened to her concerning the problem with her roommate, So as i was checking her chat with the guy “Frances boo” i saw that she equally told him the same issues and the guy gave him his own advice. After finding all these things i called her and started asking her questions about the guy which she said that the guy is just her( best friend) in school that he's their 001 in dept.
I said to her that i don't believe her that she should pack her clothes and leave my house that moment that myself is also leaving, she pleaded me not to leave which i relaxed not to leave because i don't like to travel with bitter mind... So throughout that day, I didn't talk to her and didn't buy her own meals from that moment until i left school. She begged throughout that night that she is sorry, that nothing happened between them, that it was just a chat, Meanwhile when all those chats were going on she was chatting roughly with me.
She has been begging and sending text messages for me to forgive her.
I can't trust this girl anymore and had it been i never found out it would lead to sex and she will never tell me. I equally find out that she borrowed the guy “france boo” her shoe to wear during their final paper.
She has sworn to me that nothing sexual happened between them, that the guy never touched her boobs/ ass that she's ready to swear to any ORACLE to prove it or to take an OATH, those words weakened me and i was thinking of forgiving her but it's difficult because she always wants me to believe that there is nothing like that, that she's not like other lose girl, she has said so many things to me to believe/ trust her that she didn't keep! Like i warned her about going on a date with other guys or seeking a free lift from guys she doesn't know when it's not late to where she is going, all this she violated it and i still forgave her and a lot more And so scared that if eventually, i forgive her she will UP her game next time. And this girl is the one i wish to marry.
Please what do i do in this situation, I am baffled and sorry for the blunders � 
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| Re: She Cheated On Me Emotionally by Galaxyroyp(m): 2:39pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
First, are you guys in a committed relationship or you assumed that?
Note: Regarding her age (21), most of the girls at this stage don't know what they want, so they like exploring. And that has some good sides to it. No one wishes to marry the wrong guy (or girl). 4 Likes |
| Re: She Cheated On Me Emotionally by Chapter1vs6(m): 2:44pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
chinachukwu:
I will try to brief the issue here for help.
It has been sweet since i started dating my (4years) girlfriend. We faced so many challenges on the line which i forgave her and still moved on.
Recently for over (4) months, it has not been going smoothly between us, she exchanges words with me, her EGO increased so much that it was unbearable for me, she hardly to talk me on WhatsApp, when i try to explain her faults she will tackle me and say that i always find fault in her and so much more. I had to summon her to my school to settle things though she said she doesn't have money for Tfare i had to send her some money to come because it was too much to endure. She came in October and we settled our differences, she left for her school while i was in my own school.
Two weeks after she left my school, she started acting strange again and worst than the previous problem. This time she only calls ones (1min), She will log out on me on WhatsApp without telling me that she's about to leave, and a lot of things she did that made me so uncomfortable. This is the girl that always calls me 3-4 times a day and i do call her, the sudden drop on how much we call each other got me worried that I had to endure/neglect her but due to the love i had for her, I will still call her attention and explain things to her and tell her how relationship runs, also that lack of communication kills a relationship and all my advice/warnings to her never stopped anything. (She's 21).
I concluded that i won't tell her to visit me in school that whatever she wanna do let her do it, someday she said to me that she would like to visit me which i obliged because i needed to know what was wrong all those time she was in school. My mind was to monitor her phone calls and chat to know if i would see anything fishy, mind you, I don't go through her phones but her actions, when she was in her school, made me to..
So i took her phone and told her to unlock the phone that i wanted to take some movies so she unlocked it (fingerprint) and i insisted that she should tell me the code so i shouldn't worry her to unlock the phone when locked again and she told me the code, I quickly went to her text messages and saw messages she sent to a guy she saved her name with “Frances boo” I opened the message and saw some sensitive words like “I am so worried about you” why didn't you pick my calls” “I love you” etc I got angry and quickly rushed to her WhatsApp to see her chat with the guy, I opened the WhatsApp and it was locked and can only be unlocked with fingerprint, I thought of what to do and i wouldn't want to call her attention to use her fingerprint so a thought came to my mind to add my own fingerprint since i know the password. I did that and accessed the WhatsApp and searched for the “Frances boo”, I saw there chat and a lot of sensitive message, “that she didn't sleep well because he didn't call” “that she can't wait to go out with him after their exam" “she misses him, that he was looking so handsome” “that they look like couple on the picture they snapped" a lot of sensitive messages and i checked the call log she always call this guy (outgoing calls) most times before calling me.
Meanwhile when all these were happening she had a problem with her roommate in school which I said to her that i won't get myself involved again because the last time i did she later blamed me and said what got me angry but i later listened to her concerning the problem with her roommate, So as i was checking her chat with the guy “Frances boo” i saw that she equally told him the same issues and the guy gave him his own advice. After finding all these things i called her and started asking her questions about the guy which she said that the guy is just her( best friend) in school that he's their 001 in dept.
I said to her that i don't believe her that she should pack her clothes and leave my house that moment that myself is also leaving, she pleaded me not to leave which i relaxed not to leave because i don't like to travel with bitter mind... So throughout that day, I didn't talk to her and didn't buy her own meals from that moment until i left school. She begged throughout that night that she is sorry, that nothing happened between them, that it was just a chat, Meanwhile when all those chats were going on she was chatting roughly with me.
She has been begging and sending text messages for me to forgive her.
I can't trust this girl anymore and had it been i never found out it would lead to sex and she will never tell me. I equally find out that she borrowed the guy “france boo” her shoe to wear during their final paper.
She has sworn to me that nothing sexual happened between them, that the guy never touched her boobs/ ass that she's ready to swear to any ORACLE to prove it or to take an OATH, those words weakened me and i was thinking of forgiving her but it's difficult because she always wants me to believe that there is nothing like that, that she's not like other lose girl, she has said so many things to me to believe/ trust her that she didn't keep! Like i warned her about going on a date with other guys or seeking a free lift from guys she doesn't know when it's not late to where she is going, all this she violated it and i still forgave her and a lot more And so scared that if eventually, i forgive her she will UP her game next time. And this girl is the one i wish to marry.
Please what do i do in this situation, I am baffled and sorry for the blunders �
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| Re: She Cheated On Me Emotionally by Nobody: 2:48pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
u said she's 21 so u should expect girls at that age of 21 or below how they act.if u are around her age bracket i would suggest u just take it as one of those things and also hang out with other girls as well.but if u are much older and u want a committed relationship then oga i suggest u look for a girl older than her and stop wasting ur time with her and giving urself unnecessary stress. |
| Re: She Cheated On Me Emotionally by Nobody: 2:56pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
Let me advice you as a big brother, focus on your books. You don't know anything about women not to talk of marriage. Make friends with girls casually and get to know how they are. What is most important for anybody especially a man is to live a good life and have the ability to pay his bills. Women will come at the right time and they'll come in troops.
Why are you monitoring a 21 year old? She is just a kid. Allow her interact with boys and get to know how men reason. Stop that nonsense talk about marriage. She owes you nothing. If I had someone to tell me what I'm telling you now, I'd probably be 10 times better than I am already. 22 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: She Cheated On Me Emotionally by IamPlato(m): 2:57pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
Love Is In The Air  |
| Re: She Cheated On Me Emotionally by Nobody: 2:58pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
The signs are clear Señor. You have seen them now, try to fix it (which obviously you have tried) or walk away.
Because you may still face the same issues in marriage and the only difference then will be that walking away might not be an option.
So you be the judge. |
| Re: She Cheated On Me Emotionally by sonofanarchy(m): 3:08pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
Bro forget her and Face your book or you might live to regret it.. speaking from experience 2 Likes |
| Re: She Cheated On Me Emotionally by Nobody: 4:09pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
'Hoeing Phase'.... 78% loading
OP, she will soon go astray. Start mourning in advance, you're about to lose her and there's no remedy.
21years wey just wan start to dey explore. You need to stop feeling insecure and face reality. |
| Re: She Cheated On Me Emotionally by Nobody: 4:23pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
OP,when you are ready to summarize you let me know. don't take this habit to 2020. |
| Re: She Cheated On Me Emotionally by bdchange(m): 4:25pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
At this age group they want to explore life and taste the other side even if you package towers of gold, it will still never be enough for her. Either you are ready to accept more bullshits from her or you just go settle for more matured ones. The ball is in your court, but that she won't do it again, is what I can't guarantee you. |
| Re: She Cheated On Me Emotionally by CAPSLOCKED: 4:26pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
YOU WILL KEEP SHEDDING TEARS FOR THIS PERSON WHO IS CURRENTLY IN THE STAGE OF MAXIMUM "MARCO-POLO" EXPLORATION.
YOU WILL BE CONFUSED AND DISORGANIZED FROM THINKING DAY-IN DAY-OUT ABOUT THIS PERSON WHOSE ONLY WORRIES ARE HOW TO BOOST THE NUMBER OF HER FACEBOOK FRIENDS AND RECEIVE MORE LIKES AND ATTENTION.
THERE'S NO COMMITMENT WITH YOU IN THE GOSPELS OF HER HOE-LY BOOK.
AT 21, SHE'S HOT CAKE, DON'T YOU KNOW? 
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| Re: She Cheated On Me Emotionally by Nobody: 4:32pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
From the chats sef you your own wahalla dey Which one is we are not on the same level kwa  a good woman listens to her husband yen yen yen 1 Like |
| Re: She Cheated On Me Emotionally by Firstorderwizard(m): 5:10pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
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| Re: She Cheated On Me Emotionally by Spman: 5:15pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
The same thing happening to me now and this was the same girl that even requested for my number and the first time she heard my voice on phone she was like oh she love my voice that was how she feel in love but now she is acting strange to even visit me she will said she can't..
Well I have tried my best so I have given her space when her sense is back she can call me..
.. See just give her space, don't disturb her again |
| Re: She Cheated On Me Emotionally by Russo35(m): 5:52pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
Don't stress yourself or bother yourself.. Just hang out more with other girls, enjoy your freedom.. Ignore her totally. I also recommend you enroll in a gym to keep yourself busyost times (sweat out the bad energy)  ... Let her see that "With or Without Her" you will be fine! |
| Re: She Cheated On Me Emotionally by gbeseun(m): 5:54pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
sonofanarchy:
Bro forget her and Face your book or you might live to regret it.. speaking from experience Good advice. Better face your book,ladies will be beating themselves over you if you arw better in life otherwise |
| Re: She Cheated On Me Emotionally by oodua1stson: 6:03pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
She told you they did not have sex? Omo see brother... . |
| Re: She Cheated On Me Emotionally by Prec1ous(m): 6:06pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
Birds are meant to fly, she is one and will definitely fly away.
When a woman begins to show rudeness, this is the final chapter of whatever you guys ever shared.
She is growing contempt and disdain for you. Let her go. Feel the hurt now. Because even if you overcome this, she is still leaving.
Take heart! |
| Re: She Cheated On Me Emotionally by Nobody: 6:13pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
I think you should gjve her one more chance and if she messes up again then you trash her asss for good. If she comes back again asking for another chance then you remind her how she said she never deserved you but you gave her another chance. She won't dare ask for another chance again unless your hands are cut off to give her a brain reseting slap |
| Re: She Cheated On Me Emotionally by Nobody: 6:24pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
virgoquin:
From the chats sef you your own wahalla dey
Which one is we are not on the same level kwa a good woman listens to her husband yen yen yen As in ehn what nonsense? You sound controlling, I already suspected that before you confirmed it with the screenshot. And why are you even 'summoning' her to your school, are you her father? See, check yourself too. 1 Like |
| Re: She Cheated On Me Emotionally by Neurotika: 6:39pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
If you're around the same age bracket as her, you'll die young dabbling into any serious relationship with girls that age. She's exploring, you should too. |
| Re: She Cheated On Me Emotionally by Macgyver1: 6:41pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
Bruh, that babe dumped you a long time ago. You shouldn't have let her know you read those chats. |
| Re: She Cheated On Me Emotionally by Clinghton: 6:44pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
I think this relationship would be a distraction to you, finish school make money and start a relationship. |
| Re: She Cheated On Me Emotionally by SaintHilary(m): 6:47pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
All I can say is...
DON'T LET THIS STUPIDITY FOLLOW YOU TO 2020
Ciao |
| Re: She Cheated On Me Emotionally by DonEd(m): 7:01pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
Love hurts...
If u decide to give ur all to a person, it's taken for granted.
Truth hurts...
She got bored cos of ur insecurity. |
| Re: She Cheated On Me Emotionally by sonofanarchy(m): 7:28pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
gbeseun:
Good advice.
Better face your book,ladies will be beating themselves over you if you arw better in life otherwise mine was devastating |
| Re: She Cheated On Me Emotionally by Trimque2k1(m): 7:48pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
chinachukwu:
I will try to brief the issue here for help.
It has been sweet since i started dating my (4years) girlfriend. We faced so many challenges on the line which i forgave her and still moved on.
Recently for over (4) months, it has not been going smoothly between us, she exchanges words with me, her EGO increased so much that it was unbearable for me, she hardly to talk me on WhatsApp, when i try to explain her faults she will tackle me and say that i always find fault in her and so much more. I had to summon her to my school to settle things though she said she doesn't have money for Tfare i had to send her some money to come because it was too much to endure. She came in October and we settled our differences, she left for her school while i was in my own school.
Two weeks after she left my school, she started acting strange again and worst than the previous problem. This time she only calls ones (1min), She will log out on me on WhatsApp without telling me that she's about to leave, and a lot of things she did that made me so uncomfortable. This is the girl that always calls me 3-4 times a day and i do call her, the sudden drop on how much we call each other got me worried that I had to endure/neglect her but due to the love i had for her, I will still call her attention and explain things to her and tell her how relationship runs, also that lack of communication kills a relationship and all my advice/warnings to her never stopped anything. (She's 21).
I concluded that i won't tell her to visit me in school that whatever she wanna do let her do it, someday she said to me that she would like to visit me which i obliged because i needed to know what was wrong all those time she was in school. My mind was to monitor her phone calls and chat to know if i would see anything fishy, mind you, I don't go through her phones but her actions, when she was in her school, made me to..
So i took her phone and told her to unlock the phone that i wanted to take some movies so she unlocked it (fingerprint) and i insisted that she should tell me the code so i shouldn't worry her to unlock the phone when locked again and she told me the code, I quickly went to her text messages and saw messages she sent to a guy she saved her name with “Frances boo” I opened the message and saw some sensitive words like “I am so worried about you” why didn't you pick my calls” “I love you” etc I got angry and quickly rushed to her WhatsApp to see her chat with the guy, I opened the WhatsApp and it was locked and can only be unlocked with fingerprint, I thought of what to do and i wouldn't want to call her attention to use her fingerprint so a thought came to my mind to add my own fingerprint since i know the password. I did that and accessed the WhatsApp and searched for the “Frances boo”, I saw there chat and a lot of sensitive message, “that she didn't sleep well because he didn't call” “that she can't wait to go out with him after their exam" “she misses him, that he was looking so handsome” “that they look like couple on the picture they snapped" a lot of sensitive messages and i checked the call log she always call this guy (outgoing calls) most times before calling me.
Meanwhile when all these were happening she had a problem with her roommate in school which I said to her that i won't get myself involved again because the last time i did she later blamed me and said what got me angry but i later listened to her concerning the problem with her roommate, So as i was checking her chat with the guy “Frances boo” i saw that she equally told him the same issues and the guy gave him his own advice. After finding all these things i called her and started asking her questions about the guy which she said that the guy is just her( best friend) in school that he's their 001 in dept.
I said to her that i don't believe her that she should pack her clothes and leave my house that moment that myself is also leaving, she pleaded me not to leave which i relaxed not to leave because i don't like to travel with bitter mind... So throughout that day, I didn't talk to her and didn't buy her own meals from that moment until i left school. She begged throughout that night that she is sorry, that nothing happened between them, that it was just a chat, Meanwhile when all those chats were going on she was chatting roughly with me.
She has been begging and sending text messages for me to forgive her.
I can't trust this girl anymore and had it been i never found out it would lead to sex and she will never tell me. I equally find out that she borrowed the guy “france boo” her shoe to wear during their final paper.
She has sworn to me that nothing sexual happened between them, that the guy never touched her boobs/ ass that she's ready to swear to any ORACLE to prove it or to take an OATH, those words weakened me and i was thinking of forgiving her but it's difficult because she always wants me to believe that there is nothing like that, that she's not like other lose girl, she has said so many things to me to believe/ trust her that she didn't keep! Like i warned her about going on a date with other guys or seeking a free lift from guys she doesn't know when it's not late to where she is going, all this she violated it and i still forgave her and a lot more And so scared that if eventually, i forgive her she will UP her game next time. And this girl is the one i wish to marry.
Please what do i do in this situation, I am baffled and sorry for the blunders �
Lol...21 of age abi then ready for more and more heartbreak, girls of that age are usually very careless and dumb in handling relationships. My own then always make best friends with her toaster las las one chop apples leave leaf for Adam come say na Adam join eve chop am |
| Re: She Cheated On Me Emotionally by Usmanzy(m): 7:58pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
Op forget abt her and face ur book |
| Re: She Cheated On Me Emotionally by Nobody: 9:35pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
chinachukwu:
I will try to brief the issue here for help.
It has been sweet since i started dating my (4years) girlfriend. We faced so many challenges on the line which i forgave her and still moved on.
Recently for over (4) months, it has not been going smoothly between us, she exchanges words with me, her EGO increased so much that it was unbearable for me, she hardly to talk me on WhatsApp, when i try to explain her faults she will tackle me and say that i always find fault in her and so much more. I had to summon her to my school to settle things though she said she doesn't have money for Tfare i had to send her some money to come because it was too much to endure. She came in October and we settled our differences, she left for her school while i was in my own school.
Two weeks after she left my school, she started acting strange again and worst than the previous problem. This time she only calls ones (1min), She will log out on me on WhatsApp without telling me that she's about to leave, and a lot of things she did that made me so uncomfortable. This is the girl that always calls me 3-4 times a day and i do call her, the sudden drop on how much we call each other got me worried that I had to endure/neglect her but due to the love i had for her, I will still call her attention and explain things to her and tell her how relationship runs, also that lack of communication kills a relationship and all my advice/warnings to her never stopped anything. (She's 21).
I concluded that i won't tell her to visit me in school that whatever she wanna do let her do it, someday she said to me that she would like to visit me which i obliged because i needed to know what was wrong all those time she was in school. My mind was to monitor her phone calls and chat to know if i would see anything fishy, mind you, I don't go through her phones but her actions, when she was in her school, made me to..
So i took her phone and told her to unlock the phone that i wanted to take some movies so she unlocked it (fingerprint) and i insisted that she should tell me the code so i shouldn't worry her to unlock the phone when locked again and she told me the code, I quickly went to her text messages and saw messages she sent to a guy she saved her name with “Frances boo” I opened the message and saw some sensitive words like “I am so worried about you” why didn't you pick my calls” “I love you” etc I got angry and quickly rushed to her WhatsApp to see her chat with the guy, I opened the WhatsApp and it was locked and can only be unlocked with fingerprint, I thought of what to do and i wouldn't want to call her attention to use her fingerprint so a thought came to my mind to add my own fingerprint since i know the password. I did that and accessed the WhatsApp and searched for the “Frances boo”, I saw there chat and a lot of sensitive message, “that she didn't sleep well because he didn't call” “that she can't wait to go out with him after their exam" “she misses him, that he was looking so handsome” “that they look like couple on the picture they snapped" a lot of sensitive messages and i checked the call log she always call this guy (outgoing calls) most times before calling me.
Meanwhile when all these were happening she had a problem with her roommate in school which I said to her that i won't get myself involved again because the last time i did she later blamed me and said what got me angry but i later listened to her concerning the problem with her roommate, So as i was checking her chat with the guy “Frances boo” i saw that she equally told him the same issues and the guy gave him his own advice. After finding all these things i called her and started asking her questions about the guy which she said that the guy is just her( best friend) in school that he's their 001 in dept.
I said to her that i don't believe her that she should pack her clothes and leave my house that moment that myself is also leaving, she pleaded me not to leave which i relaxed not to leave because i don't like to travel with bitter mind... So throughout that day, I didn't talk to her and didn't buy her own meals from that moment until i left school. She begged throughout that night that she is sorry, that nothing happened between them, that it was just a chat, Meanwhile when all those chats were going on she was chatting roughly with me.
She has been begging and sending text messages for me to forgive her.
I can't trust this girl anymore and had it been i never found out it would lead to sex and she will never tell me. I equally find out that she borrowed the guy “france boo” her shoe to wear during their final paper.
She has sworn to me that nothing sexual happened between them, that the guy never touched her boobs/ ass that she's ready to swear to any ORACLE to prove it or to take an OATH, those words weakened me and i was thinking of forgiving her but it's difficult because she always wants me to believe that there is nothing like that, that she's not like other lose girl, she has said so many things to me to believe/ trust her that she didn't keep! Like i warned her about going on a date with other guys or seeking a free lift from guys she doesn't know when it's not late to where she is going, all this she violated it and i still forgave her and a lot more And so scared that if eventually, i forgive her she will UP her game next time. And this girl is the one i wish to marry.
Please what do i do in this situation, I am baffled and sorry for the blunders �
so this is brief ? 1 Like |
| Re: She Cheated On Me Emotionally by Littlemix(f): 8:25am On Dec 17, 2019 |
The said guy is just a bestie.. Norms with girls.. No strings attached She just want to have the guy as a flirting friend.. Deep down she loves you dearly... Trust me... She loves you chinachukwu:
I will try to brief the issue here for help.
It has been sweet since i started dating my (4years) girlfriend. We faced so many challenges on the line which i forgave her and still moved on.
Recently for over (4) months, it has not been going smoothly between us, she exchanges words with me, her EGO increased so much that it was unbearable for me, she hardly to talk me on WhatsApp, when i try to explain her faults she will tackle me and say that i always find fault in her and so much more. I had to summon her to my school to settle things though she said she doesn't have money for Tfare i had to send her some money to come because it was too much to endure. She came in October and we settled our differences, she left for her school while i was in my own school.
Two weeks after she left my school, she started acting strange again and worst than the previous problem. This time she only calls ones (1min), She will log out on me on WhatsApp without telling me that she's about to leave, and a lot of things she did that made me so uncomfortable. This is the girl that always calls me 3-4 times a day and i do call her, the sudden drop on how much we call each other got me worried that I had to endure/neglect her but due to the love i had for her, I will still call her attention and explain things to her and tell her how relationship runs, also that lack of communication kills a relationship and all my advice/warnings to her never stopped anything. (She's 21).
I concluded that i won't tell her to visit me in school that whatever she wanna do let her do it, someday she said to me that she would like to visit me which i obliged because i needed to know what was wrong all those time she was in school. My mind was to monitor her phone calls and chat to know if i would see anything fishy, mind you, I don't go through her phones but her actions, when she was in her school, made me to..
So i took her phone and told her to unlock the phone that i wanted to take some movies so she unlocked it (fingerprint) and i insisted that she should tell me the code so i shouldn't worry her to unlock the phone when locked again and she told me the code, I quickly went to her text messages and saw messages she sent to a guy she saved her name with “Frances boo” I opened the message and saw some sensitive words like “I am so worried about you” why didn't you pick my calls” “I love you” etc I got angry and quickly rushed to her WhatsApp to see her chat with the guy, I opened the WhatsApp and it was locked and can only be unlocked with fingerprint, I thought of what to do and i wouldn't want to call her attention to use her fingerprint so a thought came to my mind to add my own fingerprint since i know the password. I did that and accessed the WhatsApp and searched for the “Frances boo”, I saw there chat and a lot of sensitive message, “that she didn't sleep well because he didn't call” “that she can't wait to go out with him after their exam" “she misses him, that he was looking so handsome” “that they look like couple on the picture they snapped" a lot of sensitive messages and i checked the call log she always call this guy (outgoing calls) most times before calling me.
Meanwhile when all these were happening she had a problem with her roommate in school which I said to her that i won't get myself involved again because the last time i did she later blamed me and said what got me angry but i later listened to her concerning the problem with her roommate, So as i was checking her chat with the guy “Frances boo” i saw that she equally told him the same issues and the guy gave him his own advice. After finding all these things i called her and started asking her questions about the guy which she said that the guy is just her( best friend) in school that he's their 001 in dept.
I said to her that i don't believe her that she should pack her clothes and leave my house that moment that myself is also leaving, she pleaded me not to leave which i relaxed not to leave because i don't like to travel with bitter mind... So throughout that day, I didn't talk to her and didn't buy her own meals from that moment until i left school. She begged throughout that night that she is sorry, that nothing happened between them, that it was just a chat, Meanwhile when all those chats were going on she was chatting roughly with me.
She has been begging and sending text messages for me to forgive her.
I can't trust this girl anymore and had it been i never found out it would lead to sex and she will never tell me. I equally find out that she borrowed the guy “france boo” her shoe to wear during their final paper.
She has sworn to me that nothing sexual happened between them, that the guy never touched her boobs/ ass that she's ready to swear to any ORACLE to prove it or to take an OATH, those words weakened me and i was thinking of forgiving her but it's difficult because she always wants me to believe that there is nothing like that, that she's not like other lose girl, she has said so many things to me to believe/ trust her that she didn't keep! Like i warned her about going on a date with other guys or seeking a free lift from guys she doesn't know when it's not late to where she is going, all this she violated it and i still forgave her and a lot more And so scared that if eventually, i forgive her she will UP her game next time. And this girl is the one i wish to marry.
Please what do i do in this situation, I am baffled and sorry for the blunders �
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| Re: She Cheated On Me Emotionally by Littlemix(f): 8:26am On Dec 17, 2019 |
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