plz help me! i know it for sure that my girl is cheating on me, but there is one thing and that is i can't stop loving her still,and everyday i find myself dyeing for this girl's love, though she is cheating on me, please help me what should/could/must i do??

What kind of thing is this now?? You're still loving and dying for her love?? My guy why now eehn??


Who sees blindness with their eyes and still choose to be blind??

I know you're in love, and i know how strong the power of love can be, believe me I do but dearie there should be a boundary now.

How can you in broad day light, with your two eyes wide open give someone the "ticket" to break your heart?? Haba

The truth is that, you're looking at the truth in front of you, you've even confessed it yourself, you're aware of your stupid role in the drama

My telling you to show the girl the door will be a waste of my hand-energy Cos you already know that that's the only "good advice" someone who really cares for you can give to you.

I don't live with you, so at the end of the day, no matter how many languages i use to tell you to walk the cheating excuse for a woman to the door, and shut it behind her and and never look back, , , ,  at the end of the day, you'll still do that which pleases your soul

But i still decided to spell it out for you, its your lucky day, now please don't make me regret saying those words, please.

If the girl cared any for you, she wouldn't continously cheat on you, knowing what bad effect it could have on you. That in my dictionary isn't love, its "manipulation of love" and i do not condone that . . but what can i do??

No one is above mistakes, but she's deliberately hurting you

you dont have to say that cute ass ,i guess u know who is this.

oreofemi:

you don't have to say that cute ass ,i guess u know who is this.

And NO, i don't know "who is this", i just told him what i would have told/tell my dearest friend.
If he didnt see anything wrong with it, believe me he wouldn't have been here in the first place

But you on the other hand could have told us what you think too instead of "assuming i know "who is this"?? My guess?? you want him to stick to the "cheating girlfriend", right??


Well @ poster, you've heard now, abi??

I do not have the solution to this. guess some people's love is blind after all.

"My Girl is cheatin me ,,,,,,"

Hey, matey, if you know she doing it and still call her your girl well I'm happy to tell you it is no more cheating. You find yourself loving her more? She is only fulfilling your desires. If you love her for cheating on you then she is doing you a favour by cheating.

So be happy. Build your relationship and your whole life based on this very very important fact - Your girl is doing everything possible to make sure your expectations are met and you are complaining. shio !

Ahn ahn, what else do you want? Abi, you want the absolutely absurd expectation that if somebody is 'your girl' she should stay loyal to you, pah stupidness !
Please, where is this your girl let me know so me sef can contribute to your happiness.

Love may be blind but it is not deaf and dumb.

The guy knows what he is doing and I am not

going to be the one to tell him not to live his fantasy.

Go ahead and fantasize her making love to some other

guys since that is the only way you can have a hard on.

ijogbon:

Please, where is this your girl let me know so me sef can contribute to your happiness.

Why nah?? Why do you want to add to his sorrows hapiness LMCAO

@cute-ass
Can you believe the guy? This is the kind of guy I like as a 'friend' he will make Himself, his babe and me very very happy and 'in love'. 

iice:

_*sighs* This love is blind, deaf and dumb, i really don't get oooo.

iice you see am? me too wonder

ijogbon:

@cute-ass
Can you believe the guy? This is the kind of guy I like as a 'friend' he will make Himself, his babe and me very very happy and 'in love'.

My dear, you never see anything. As i was even posting to him, I didnt know where to start nor where to stop, I was boiling with anger at his detriment.

But then, like my people have been trying to emphasis, "love" os no longer only blind, its totally "paralysed" from head to toe

cute-ass, ijog, et al

una no go kill wif lafter 4 hia oh!!, hahaha

@poster
U know, u heard what these good ppl of NL have said. if she cheating, and u know she aint gonna stop or stop for e, or she aint willing to invest in you emotionally, then it's best u let her go, for BOTH your sakes, otherwise she will feel restrained by your OVER-love, and u will harbour anger towards her for no reason, y'all had better go ur separate ways, let her share herself with the world, and u mend ur heart and look for someone who will appreciate it WHOLLY

Be focused in life

bantos:

@ poster before me

Have u ever bin in love? i don't think so.
i'm in love and i know how it feels
LOVE IS BLIND.

Ol'boy LOVE don dey wear contacts now O! Na MYOPIA dey worry am before.

I even take offense sef when you say Love is blind, what? blindness is now an analogy for stupidity? So Blind ppl are stupid, stupid ppl are blind, blind ppl are in love, ppl in love are blind, ppl in love are stupid or[b],,,,,_{I don confuse mysef abeg help} [/b]

LOVE IS BLIND and people make foolish decision because of it. .

this love na something else


I call it your love an obsession

thanks cute ass, just wonder, the kinda angel you are!

mumu - odenson - what kind of love?

PHEESAYOUR:

thanks cute ass, just wonder, the kind of angel you are!

You're wecome hun (didn't know i helped though )

Chei! Bros love died so many years ago. Wake up from ya mumu state you will understand that so long as you are not married to a girl, Damn she go Bleep na! Why do you want to kill ya self. Cmon wake up and live on.

Holdin my tongue

@IBDAT
hahaha, and keep holding your tongue hun, because i know how u feel about this issue

@ijogbon
no mind people, hahahahaha, say love don dey wia contacts, kai, na for here i go hear all kain wahala

@banton
hahaha YES i have been in love, and when i was jilted, that sh*t hurt, in fact i felt like life's a bitch and mine just had puppies.
But then i also learnt, i no go kill myself 4 love oh, especially if the other person aint appreciating it.,.i'll take the choice to mend a broken heart(and get over it sooner) over staying in a relationship where i am still nursing the broken heart with no hope of getting over it anytime soon, because everything/everyday re-opens the wound and makes it hurt deeper (because things start seming like despite ur efforts nothing u do is good enough), infact don't go asking/telling me whether i have been in love, because u don't know the half of it!!

_{(i think i better stop, i can feel a ranting/venting session coming on!!)}

Mumu at it's peak, mo sorry fun e gan o

Bros no need to talk much concerning this issue. Don't complain again. Pretend as if u don't even notice what she is doing. Just look 4 another good girl and keep her as your point one. And for the flirt remove ur mind were she dey, just take her as a bed (sex) mate and never have any single regards for her. It is always good to handle such girls like rag. I hv been in this ur shoes b/4 but guy believe me, as soon as u get going with another girl. You will find it easy to forget that useless girl and also develope the heart to handle her with no regards. Infact, you can even give all ur guys the tips to use and also have their own share of that her useless cunt. Bleep her like a prostitute anytime she comes to you. Only remember to were your CD anytime she comes your way. NO MATTER HOW BEAUTIFUL A GIRL IS, AS FAR AS SHE CHEATS ON U. SHE IS THE UGLIEST GIRL IN THE WHOLE WORLD. I hate guys complaining over issues like this. When we have numerous girls out there. The flag is meant for men to carry. So be a man and pay her back with her own coin. Cheers.

:-x ;d

Don K, don give you expo,stop being a mugu, finito

Don K, don give you expo,stop being a mugu, finito