There is girl I like & having been trying to get close to her in d last two weeks.She is a graduate who finished serving last year & don't ve a job yet.

Though,am yet to tell her my intention for her as am still observing her for a serious relationship,but it is also likely that she has an inkling of my interest in her.

So,while we were 2gether with my female cousin thru whom I met her at a recreational centre,we had d opportunity to be sitted without my cousin cousin.

As we were discussing,she made two points that is making me have a rethink due to my past toxic experiences.

First,she said if she will ve to date a guy,that will lead to marriage,it must be a guy who is willing & capable to take care of her.That d guy must not be stingy & that it must not be a guy who will seem to have d money but not willing to spend it on her as she wants,but must know that there is money & see that d money is being spent.

Second,she said it is when d man spends on his woman to her satisfaction,that is when d man can be guaranteed of d woman's loyalty.That it is when a woman lacks her needs,that d woman will be disloyal to her man.

Then I I told that most of our 9ja babes are just greedy & never satisfied with whatever their man spends on them,that sometimes they even demand for what d man can't afford like expensive iphones,clothes,human hair & all that.

Then she replied me,saying that b'4 she goes into a relationship with any guy which every other woman shld also do is to discuss her standard,class & needs with d man & if she realizes that d man can't take care of her adequately,she won't accept him.

My response to her response was silence,while I was thinking why she shld reason that way.

While all of us want comfort,shld a man"s pocket size & ability to provide a woman's insatiable wants be d aim of having a serious relationship or love & companionship?

Does it mean that if d man goes broke & unable to provide,that is a license for d woman to cheat for her needs?

Though d babe talks nicely & she is pretty as well but am confused if I shld go ahead or back out?

I need ur advice pls.

FTC

Someone should pls help a brother in need 3091796454 Omotuyole esther bola First bank
Even if it's 5h It's something Thanks

she thinks she's the prize. lol. whereas, u as the man should be the prize.

pls stop wasting resources on these gold-diggers that are not ready to work.

She don dey tell u na,u no go hear....na so one mugu don go spend him last 3m to organize party for him mysterious babe...na him dey cry out....read ur second stanza again.

such woman should be feared and left alone. they are are simply ungrateful undercover oloshos who will always go for the highest bidder. even if you give her all she desires, some dude who have a bit more than you (to offer her) will easily woo her away from you.

such babe have NO standards, money will turn them into what they really are.... OLOSHOS!

***spit on floor***

MrBrownJay1:
such woman should be feared and left alone. they are are simply ungrateful undercover oloshos who will always go for the highest bidder. even if you give her all she desires, some dude who have a bit more than you (to offer her) will easily woo her away from you.

such babe have NO standards, money will turn them into what they really are.... OLOSHOS!

***spit on floor***

Hmm

Nature should have made it three genders from the beginning, the male, the female and the other one.


Constant and consistent pairing between males and the other gender would probably help change this daft orientation within some females


Now,we'll have to live with this

pascalexmond:
There is girl I like & having been trying to get close to her in d last two weeks.She is a graduate who finished serving last year & don't ve a job yet.

Though,am yet to tell her my intention for her as am still observing her for a serious relationship,but it is also likely that she has an inkling of my interest in her.

So,while we were 2gether with my female cousin thru whom I met her at a recreational centre,we had d opportunity to be sitted without my cousin cousin.

As we were discussing,she made two points that is making me have a rethink due to my past toxic experiences.

First,she said if she will ve to date a guy,that will lead to marriage,it must be a guy who is willing & capable to take care of her.That d guy must not be stingy & that it must not be a guy who will seem to have d money but not willing to spend it on her as she wants,but must know that there is money & see that d money is being spent.

Second,she said it is when d man spends on his woman to her satisfaction,that is when d man can be guaranteed of d woman's loyalty.That it is when a woman lacks her needs,that d woman will be disloyal to her man.

Then I I told that most of our 9ja babes are just greedy & never satisfied with whatever their man spends on them,that sometimes they even demand for what d man can't afford like expensive iphones,clothes,human hair & all that.

Then she replied me,saying that b'4 she goes into a relationship with any guy which every other woman shld also do is to discuss her standard,class & needs with d man & if she realizes that d man can't take care of her adequately,she won't accept him.

My response to her response was silence,while I was thinking why she shld reason that way.

While all of us want comfort,shld a man"s pocket size & ability to provide a woman's insatiable wants be d aim of having a serious relationship or love & companionship?

Does it mean that if d man goes broke & unable to provide,that is a license for d woman to cheat for her needs?

Though d babe talks nicely & she is pretty as well but am confused if I shld go ahead or back out?

I need ur advice pls.

Leave her and search for another lady

She was transparent enough to tell you how she wants it and if you can afford it then go for her

;

Heroclitus:
Nature should have made it three genders from the beginning, the male, the female and the other one.


Constant and consistent pairing between males and the other gender would probably help change this daft orientation within some females


Now,we'll have to live with this

I don't know what other advice you are looking for unless you are a troll opening a female-bashing thread just for the fun if it.

She has told you her mind.

If it isn't compatible with yours jump and pass.

You don't need to open a thread on Nairaland for something as commonsensical as that.

Look for a female that shares your values. Can't be that hard now, right?

FrLukas:
I don't know what other advice you are looking for unless you are a troll opening a female-bashing thread just for the fun if it.

She has told you her mind.

If it isn't compatible with yours jump and pass.

You don't need to open a thread on Nairaland for something as commonsensical as that.

Look for a female that shares your values. Can't be that hard now, right?

.

you should have asked her assuming you have the money and you go broke would she stay, then her answer would let you know your next step

MrBrownJay1:
such woman should be feared and left alone. they are are simply ungrateful undercover oloshos who will always go for the highest bidder. even if you give her all she desires, some dude who have a bit more than you (to offer her) will easily woo her away from you.

such babe have NO standards, money will turn them into what they really are.... OLOSHOS!

***spit on floor***

Olori ebi

Nairaland family adviser

For you to decide.

I don't know why guys love wasting their time on all these jobless oloshos if you no dey work I no go marry you, period? If you like fine pass angel that one concern you