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when i was a child i was very bold....i could face anything or anyone without fear even though am smaller....
but as i grew up,gradually i realized i was no longer bold but fearfull...i could no longer speak in public or gathering....i became very self conscious....always looking at the mirror....and the funny thing is i'm very handsome....i have seen ugly guys speaking with lots of boldness without fear in a gathering,but if its my turn to speak i can almost hear my heart beat.....with different thoughts running through my mind like...what if they don't like what i say,do i look good today,i'm i properly dressed....
the thing is i am afraid of everything.....and this is affecting my life....at 25 i don't have a gf even though i receive lots of green lights from babe....i really don't know what to say or how to go about it....always afraid to approach a girl....and i hate been the center of attraction...this is really affecting my life....i have missed a lot of opportunity due to this fear...

pls i need your opinion am i OK or is it spiritual....
Thanks

Critical

[quote a uthor=popsy2 post=85529004]Critical[/quote] yea

We're in the same boat.

It's called Social Anxiety Disorder;a mental disorder.

ojaysam25:
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when i was a child i was very bold....i could face anything or anyone without fear even though am smaller....
but as i grew up,gradually i realized i was no longer bold but fearfull...i could no longer speak in public or gathering....i became very self conscious....always looking at the mirror....and the funny thing is i'm very handsome....i have seen ugly guys speaking with lots of boldness without fear in a gathering,but if its my turn to speak i can almost hear my heart beat.....with different thoughts running through my mind like...what if they don't like what i say,do i look good today,i'm i properly dressed....
the thing is i am afraid of everything.....and this is affecting my life....at 25 i don't have a gf even though i receive lots of green lights from babe....i really don't know what to say or how to go about it....always afraid to approach a girl....and i hate been the center of attraction...this is really affecting my life....i have missed a lot of opportunity due to this fear...

pls i need your opinion am i OK or is it spiritual....
Thanks

you ain't alone on this

JoyAda1234:
It's called Social Anxiety Disorder;a mental disorder.

so whats the solution...

ojaysam25:
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when i was a child i was very bold....i could face anything or anyone without fear even though am smaller....
but as i grew up,gradually i realized i was no longer bold but fearfull...i could no longer speak in public or gathering....i became very self conscious....always looking at the mirror....and the funny thing is i'm very handsome....i have seen ugly guys speaking with lots of boldness without fear in a gathering,but if its my turn to speak i can almost hear my heart beat.....with different thoughts running through my mind like...what if they don't like what i say,do i look good today,i'm i properly dressed....
the thing is i am afraid of everything.....and this is affecting my life....at 25 i don't have a gf even though i receive lots of green lights from babe....i really don't know what to say or how to go about it....always afraid to approach a girl....and i hate been the center of attraction...this is really affecting my life....i have missed a lot of opportunity due to this fear...

pls i need your opinion am i OK or is it spiritual....
Thanks

Cool you know it's a spirit

And since it is

Send it out in prayers

And word study

Do little of evangelism and see your self bold again

It will be replaced.. With a spirit of power of love and a sound mind

pneumaticos:

Cool you know it's a spirit
And since it is
Send it out in prayers
And word study
Do little of evangelism and see your self bold again
It will be replaced.. With a spirit of power of love and a sound mind

thanks

Your problem: man servant (this is broad).
The key secret and solution: go and tarry with God for many days.

Come back with a great testimony.

Wolgrace:
Your problem: man servant (this is broad).
The key secret and solution: go and tarry with God for many days.

Come back with a great testimony.

how can one tarry with God...i don't get it..

Stay away from society, family, and friends for some time by going to higher mountain or wilderness or camp prayer ground or deliverance class. You have many days to tarry with God. Encounters awaits you.

Come back with testimony.

ojaysam25:


how can one tarry with God...i don't get it..