There is this lady we have being keeping tab on each other and i would say the girl is lovely. she calls me everyday and even sends me card even when i didnt even ask.
i like her personality but i have a problem she is too slim for my liking to an extent i find it difficult walking with her in the day time, we only see in the night.
when i saw a picture of her, she took 2 years ago she was extremely beautiful with flesh to add up if you know what i mean.
i do stylishly ask her why she is so thin but what she tells me is that, she doesnt like food that even her parents have told to try and add up weight.
please you guys should help me, i like this lady but it seems her thinness is driving me away from her.
what should i do

take her to fast food often. buy her ice cream, chocolate and suya whenever u guys meet at night.

we have our own serious issues to tackle this new year. peace.

When you date an immature guy this is what you get

How is that a problem when it can be changed? lemme know when you are ready

give me the babe number since you no need her

Lol.. ..wahala dey o. You dont like her. you only like the things she does for you otherwise you won't even notice how slim she is.

I tell you why.

I dont like short men but when I met my ex, he was short but I never noticed cos the love ehn... Nor be here. But he kept telling me, j, I'm short, and I'll be like you're not and truly i never saw him as short. Though there was a day we were standing together, I observed it but because I had fallen deeply in love, it didn't bother me.
So if you love her, that won't bother you.

Jewessgratitude:
Lol.. ..wahala dey o. You dont like her. you only like the things she does for you otherwise you won't even notice how slim she is.

I tell you why.

I dont like short men but when I met my ex, he was short but I never noticed cos the love ehn... Nor be here. But he kept telling me, j, I'm short, and I'll be like you're not and truly i never saw him as short. Though there was a day we were standing together, I observed it but because I had fallen deeply in love, it didn't bother me.
So if you love her, that won't bother you.

thanks jare your comment is the only sensible thing have seen here

Why is there doubt in your mind?

People should stop managing their partners. If her shape is a deal breaker, don’t manage her.

One day you will see one fine chick with big confusing yansh that will be giving you green light. That’s when you will start acting like a crack head to your babe. Anything she does will be irritating you. Why? Cos you settled for her when you knew you could not get past the idea that she’s too slender for your liking.

Go for what you really want from day one!

Choose now. Is physique an important factor or not?

Obviously she's sick. Do you need us to tell you that? Book that HIV/aids test for the both of you.

ubunja:
Obviously she's sick. Do you need us to tell you that?
Book that HIV/aids test for the both of you.

she did that recently and it came out negative

Do you intend marrying her? Most women add up after marriage and child birth. She might be thin now like you said but I bet you, after marriage and child birth she will definitely fill up nicely.

ogabentley:
she did that recently and it came out negative

then shift to other diseases. Friend, people don't just lose weight like that. Something ain't right. Maybe heart problems etc. I ain't a doctor. But research on diseases and conditions that affect weight, especially in women her age. Good luck.

Thegeneralqueen:
When you date an immature guy this is what you get

common ,we all have our specs, love doesn't cover everything,the same way u luke tall dark men,is the same way I love thick fair women ,so why this shitty comment .

LINTUNE:
common ,we all have our specs, love doesn't cover everything,the same way u luke tall dark men,is the same way I love thick fair women ,so why this shitty comment .

dont mind that frustrated human being