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Does It Mean I Should Accept My Girlfriend Back? by Nobody: 7:22am On Jan 11, 2020
Good day everyone

My girlfriend and I started dating in June 2017. At that time I didn't have a girlfriend at all.

Before I prepositioned her, I did my research to know that she wasn't in a relationship and she helped me resolve that she isn't seeing another man.

However, She aggreed to date me and assured me that she would remain faithful until we actually breakup.

We do have some minor problems occasionally but we resolve it before 3 days elapses.

Around October 2019, I noticed that a guy normally visits her in her shop (she charges people's phone and batteries). I asked her but she told me that the guy only came to charge his phone and that she doesn't know the guy.

Fast forward to November 2019, I visited her shop without informing her that I would, unfortunately that same guy was holding her and she was resisting him when I came in.

I shook the guys hand and hers before leaving. I was angry with her but I just left. So, later in the day....
Re: Does It Mean I Should Accept My Girlfriend Back? by daddytime(m): 7:25am On Jan 11, 2020
" The guy loves charging her phone very well".

You don't have original charger.

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Re: Does It Mean I Should Accept My Girlfriend Back? by Nobody: 7:30am On Jan 11, 2020
daddytime:
" The guy loves charging her phone very well".

You don't have original charger.
Maybe he has only "pin mouth" charger

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Re: Does It Mean I Should Accept My Girlfriend Back? by daddytime(m): 7:33am On Jan 11, 2020
Shibaraba:

Maybe he has only "pin mouth" charger

In fact, you sabi am

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Re: Does It Mean I Should Accept My Girlfriend Back? by Oluromantic: 7:35am On Jan 11, 2020
daddytime:
" The guy loves charging her phone very well".

You don't have original charger.

Charger of two years have tried. Maybe the charger have blow. Or maybe the charging port is shaking

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Re: Does It Mean I Should Accept My Girlfriend Back? by Nobody: 7:35am On Jan 11, 2020
...So, later in the day I told her that I know that she is seeing that guy and I cannot continue like that.

She started pleading that she was resisting the guy but the guy has been disturbing her for a long time. She said that she doesn't have any feelings for the guy.

I said to her: "so, you don't have a feeling for him but you allowed him hold you in your shop because he disturbed you alot. Does that mean that when any man disturbs you a lot, you will give in to his prepositioning?"

She started begging that she will ask the guy not to come to her shop again and that she will stop talking to him.

I said okay because I was actually getting plenty sex from her and that I love her so much.

Fast forward to yesterday 10th January, 2020, I visited her shop and collected her phone. I checked her whatsapp and found out that she was talking to that guy. She was even telling him words like: "I miss you so much. I am Hot, come to my shop please..." Literally, they were chatting and I can see that they were dating. I also checked her phone to see that she saved the guy's name as prince but my name was saved with a girls name (though something happened earlier that made her use a girl's name to save mine but she hasn't changed it after about 2 months...)

I didn't tell her about the WhatsApp chat she had with the guy but I told her about cheating and also asked her about that guy.

She claimed to have forgotten the guys name whereas, she was still talking to him on. When I was going, I opened her whatsapp and showed her the chats, I told her that I have read everything and I now know that she was cheating on me.

So, when I got home in the evening...

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Re: Does It Mean I Should Accept My Girlfriend Back? by Ustec: 7:36am On Jan 11, 2020
Shibaraba:

Maybe he has only "pin mouth" charger
So you're saying the other guy has that original big mouth charger?
No wonder she couldn't resist him.

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Re: Does It Mean I Should Accept My Girlfriend Back? by Pubichairs(m): 7:37am On Jan 11, 2020
Basically u are practicing lesbianism..how could u even think of dating ur fellow woman..

Wot am I even saying..

Weak men everywhere these days, who can't man up to take a bold step

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Re: Does It Mean I Should Accept My Girlfriend Back? by Oluromantic: 7:43am On Jan 11, 2020
Thewriter2018:
I told that I have read everything and I now know that she was cheating on me.
Na there you Bleep up o. You should have just screenshot the chats and the name and transfer it to your phone. After some days maybe when she comes to your place, you'll do same again to get updated. While that is going on, you won't even show any annoyance, you'll just keep flowing.. you'll be bleeping your own, he will be bleeping his own.. she's not a wife material and besides you said you like her for the sex she gives you. After all, two different chargers can charge one phone, then you'll be looking for another babe alongside. Anytime she wants to bring up drama, you'll just show her the updated chats with all her cheats..that you knew but was just playing along. Simple!

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Re: Does It Mean I Should Accept My Girlfriend Back? by daddytime(m): 7:47am On Jan 11, 2020
Oluromantic:

Charger of two years have tried. Maybe the charger have blow. Or maybe the charging port is shaking

The guy used a bigger charging pin to destroy the small charging port...�

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Re: Does It Mean I Should Accept My Girlfriend Back? by Nobody: 7:50am On Jan 11, 2020
She called me and was pleading and pleading that she doesn't mean anything she said to the guy.

I do not trust her again and I told her that I do not care what she does with her life. In fact I broke the relationship. She begged for over 4 hours but still I told her to give herself some time to decide whhat she wants.

She loves me and is ready to do anything I said. I mean anything I say.
I can tell her to help me with some cash and she wouldn't hesitate regardless of the amount provided that she can afford it.

She gives me sex including blowjobbs and Anal sex too. She takes a lot of risk just to see me like sneaking out of her Father's house aorund 10pm just to see me and satisfy my sexual urge.

She promised that she hasn't had sex with the guy and I can boldly concur because there is no place to do it. She works in a market and there is no place to meet with a guy and have sex with him there. She cannot also meet rhe guy at night because the guy stays far. She cannot also viait the guy because her parent does not allow her to go out except to her shop. She cannot also corner to the guy's house after her work because she is always timed.

I actually make her cumm when we have sex. I suck her cat so much that she orgasms and squirts.

She calls me all the time and tries to please me all the time.

She has promised me that she will not talk to the guy again but if by any chance I see her cheating I shouldn't hesitate to spread her nude pictures because I have her nudes in my phone (the ones she snapped and sent to me.)

Please, should I continue with her though I do not trust her again and I never even did.

What should I do?
Re: Does It Mean I Should Accept My Girlfriend Back? by wiseone28: 7:53am On Jan 11, 2020
Thewriter2018:
...So, later in the day I told her that I know that she is seeing that guy and I cannot continue like that.

She started pleading that she was resisting the guy but the guy has been disturbing her for a long time. She said that she doesn't have any feelings for the guy.

I said to her: "so, you don't have a feeling for him but you allowed him hold you in your shop because he disturbed you alot. Does that mean that when any man disturbs you a lot, you will give in to his prepositioning?"

She started begging that she will ask the guy not to come to her shop again and that she will stop talking to him.

I said okay because I was actually getting plenty sex from her and that I love her so much.

Fast forward to yesterday 10th January, 2020, I visited her shop and collected her phone. I checked her whatsapp and found out that she was talking to that guy. She was even telling him words like: "I miss you so much. I am Hot, come to my shop please..." Literally, they were chatting and I can see that they were dating. I also checked her phone to see that she saved the guy's name as prince but my name was saved with a girls name (though something happened earlier that made her use a girl's name to save mine but she hasn't changed it after about 2 months...)

I didn't tell her about the WhatsApp chat she had with the guy but I told her about cheating and also asked her about that guy.

She claimed to have forgotten the guys name whereas, she was still talking to him on. When I was going, I opened her whatsapp and showed her the chats, I told that I have read everything and I now know that she was cheating on me.

So, when I got home in the evening...
What do you need again?

You have been getting your own share.

You should know you can't have a girl to yourself alone as long as you are not married to her.

Leave girls matter alone before you get HBP

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Re: Does It Mean I Should Accept My Girlfriend Back? by Oluromantic: 7:56am On Jan 11, 2020
This guy mumu o. Is she your first love abi why u come turn mumu like this? I understand it may not be easy to let go of a girl that unconditionally gives you awesome sex. But now u don learn say nothing good lasts forever. From ur last write up, I see that the girl is still a very useful sex machine for you, you're still in control but you need to remove ur mind from this mumu dilly-dallying emotions weh u attach to d matter. Keep being in control, keep bleeping her but give her her space. Look out for another girl instead..girls plenty weh dey find dickk. This one na big time heartbreak bomb she go do you if u no cement your mind now

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Re: Does It Mean I Should Accept My Girlfriend Back? by wiseone28: 8:03am On Jan 11, 2020
Thewriter2018:
She called me and was pleading and pleading that she doesn't mean anything she said to the guy.

I do not trust her again and I told her that I do not care what she does with her life. In fact I broke the relationship. She begged for over 4 hours but still I told her to give herself some time to decide whhat she wants.

She loves me and is ready to do anything I said. I mean anything I say.
I can tell her to help me with some cash and she wouldn't hesitate regardless of the amount provided that she can afford it.

She gives me sex including blowjobbs and Anal sex too. She takes a lot of risk just to see me like sneaking out of her Father's house aorund 10pm just to see me and satisfy my sexual urge.

She promised that she hasn't had sex with the guy and I can boldly concur because there is no place to do it. She works in a market and there is no place to meet with a guy and have sex with him there. She cannot also meet rhe guy at night because the guy stays far. She cannot also viait the guy because her parent does not allow her to go out except to her shop. She cannot also corner to the guy's house after her work because she is always timed.

I actually make her cumm when we have sex. I suck her cat so much that she orgasms and squirts.

She calls me all the time and tries to please me all the time.

She has promised me that she will not talk to the guy again but if by any chance I see her cheating I shouldn't hesitate to spread her nude pictures because I have her nudes in my phone (the ones she snapped and sent to me.)

Please, should I continue with her though I do not trust her again and I never even did.

What should I do?
Hope you marry her with all this nonsense you have been doing...
Don't spoil her for another innocent guy to come and suffer after marrying her

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Re: Does It Mean I Should Accept My Girlfriend Back? by hope1292: 8:03am On Jan 11, 2020
Give her this last chance and stop checking her conversation
Re: Does It Mean I Should Accept My Girlfriend Back? by Nobody: 8:03am On Jan 11, 2020
Oluromantic:

Na there you Bleep up o. You should have just screenshot the chats and the name and transfer it to your phone. After some days maybe when she comes to your place, you'll do same again to get updated. While that is going on, you won't even show any annoyance, you'll just keep flowing.. you'll be bleeping your own, he will be bleeping his own.. she's not a wife material and besides you said you like her for the sex she gives you. After all, two different chargers can charge one phone, then you'll be looking for another babe alongside. Anytime she wants to bring up drama, you'll just show her the updated chats with all her cheats..that you knew but was just playing along. Simple!

But I didn't have time to be wasting on a cheating girl by trailing her; I have other important things to do. I told her that I could have easily pretended to have not read the chat and follow up the chat to know what she is upto but because I don't have strength to do that I just want her to know that I cannot trust her again.
Re: Does It Mean I Should Accept My Girlfriend Back? by Nobody: 8:06am On Jan 11, 2020
hope1292:
Give her this last chance and stop checking her conversation

She knows how easy it is for me to get a girl and that scares her alot. At least, I can Mouth Gig and finger a girl until she cumms.

I will also stop checking her phone but why should I?
Re: Does It Mean I Should Accept My Girlfriend Back? by Nobody: 8:10am On Jan 11, 2020
Here is the screenshots of our chat:

Re: Does It Mean I Should Accept My Girlfriend Back? by Oluromantic: 8:12am On Jan 11, 2020
Thewriter2018:


But I didn't have time to be wasting on a cheating girl by trailing her; I have other important things to do. I told her that I could have easily pretended to have not read the chat and follow up the chat to know what she is upto but because I don't have strength to do that I just want her to know that I cannot trust her again.

You've still not gotten d message. Nawa
Re: Does It Mean I Should Accept My Girlfriend Back? by SavageBoy: 8:12am On Jan 11, 2020
Better go and arrange your life Bro and stop telling us the different kind of sex adventures you've had with this girl.

Was expecting you to tell us about some really rare gems you saw in this girl that's preventing you from leaving her but it's just sex ,sex,sex and sex.

Guy there are many more things that demand your time,attention and energy and not frivolous stuffs like this

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Re: Does It Mean I Should Accept My Girlfriend Back? by MetroBaba1(m): 8:12am On Jan 11, 2020
Always respect your small age, delete her nudes. Learn to respect her privacy as a matured man.

I no wan see another man daughter nudes for internet.

My 2cent advice.

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Re: Does It Mean I Should Accept My Girlfriend Back? by Nobody: 8:17am On Jan 11, 2020
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Re: Does It Mean I Should Accept My Girlfriend Back? by Twoclans(f): 8:17am On Jan 11, 2020
Bonaventure Edmund this your story sha ,your girl sneaks out from the house by 10pm to have anal sex and receive MouthAction from you biko what makes you think she can't make out such time to receive a new dick .The excitement of a new dick can take her out of the house by 2am.
It looks like you are attached to her because of financial gains in addition to the free sex.

Bonaventure can you make out time and finish your stories instead of leaving them half baked littered on your threads.

Did she refer to you as daddy in that chat? Abeg let me go with my tatafo.

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Re: Does It Mean I Should Accept My Girlfriend Back? by Nobody: 8:21am On Jan 11, 2020
SavageBoy:
Better go and arrange your life Bro and stop telling us the different kind of sex adventures you've had with this girl.

Was expecting you to tell us about some really rare gems you saw in this girl that's preventing you from leaving her but it's just sex ,sex,sex and sex.

Guy there are many more things that demand your time,attention and energy and not frivolous stuffs like this

She is energetic and strives to become independent. She is hardworking and brilliant.
Re: Does It Mean I Should Accept My Girlfriend Back? by Nobody: 8:25am On Jan 11, 2020
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Re: Does It Mean I Should Accept My Girlfriend Back? by We4all: 8:33am On Jan 11, 2020
Thewriter2018:
She called me and was pleading and pleading that she doesn't mean anything she said to the guy.

I do not trust her again and I told her that I do not care what she does with her life. In fact I broke the relationship. She begged for over 4 hours but still I told her to give herself some time to decide whhat she wants.

She loves me and is ready to do anything I said. I mean anything I say.
I can tell her to help me with some cash and she wouldn't hesitate regardless of the amount provided that she can afford it.

She gives me sex including blowjobbs and Anal sex too. She takes a lot of risk just to see me like sneaking out of her Father's house aorund 10pm just to see me and satisfy my sexual urge.

She promised that she hasn't had sex with the guy and I can boldly concur because there is no place to do it. She works in a market and there is no place to meet with a guy and have sex with him there. She cannot also meet rhe guy at night because the guy stays far. She cannot also viait the guy because her parent does not allow her to go out except to her shop. She cannot also corner to the guy's house after her work because she is always timed.

I actually make her cumm when we have sex. I suck her cat so much that she orgasms and squirts.

She calls me all the time and tries to please me all the time.

She has promised me that she will not talk to the guy again but if by any chance I see her cheating I shouldn't hesitate to spread her nude pictures because I have her nudes in my phone (the ones she snapped and sent to me.)

Please, should I continue with her though I do not trust her again and I never even did.

What should I do?

Anal sex, blow jobs, e.t.c. are demeaning and domineering, and any man who subjects a woman to such doesn't respect her. She was even dumb enough to send you nudes! Girls are getting more daring and careless with sex. Sometimes, I wonder how they feel with their bodies after doing all these thrash.

Gone are those days when it was all about caresses, love making and tenderness. @OP, please free the poor girl cos you obviously don't respect her or her body.

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Re: Does It Mean I Should Accept My Girlfriend Back? by shilz(f): 8:40am On Jan 11, 2020
Thewriter2018:
She called me and was pleading and pleading that she doesn't mean anything she said to the guy.

I do not trust her again and I told her that I do not care what she does with her life. In fact I broke the relationship. She begged for over 4 hours but still I told her to give herself some time to decide whhat she wants.

She loves me and is ready to do anything I said. I mean anything I say.
I can tell her to help me with some cash and she wouldn't hesitate regardless of the amount provided that she can afford it.

She gives me sex including blowjobbs and Anal sex too. She takes a lot of risk just to see me like sneaking out of her Father's house aorund 10pm just to see me and satisfy my sexual urge.

She promised that she hasn't had sex with the guy and I can boldly concur because there is no place to do it. She works in a market and there is no place to meet with a guy and have sex with him there. She cannot also meet rhe guy at night because the guy stays far. She cannot also viait the guy because her parent does not allow her to go out except to her shop. She cannot also corner to the guy's house after her work because she is always timed.

I actually make her cumm when we have sex. I suck her cat so much that she orgasms and squirts.

She calls me all the time and tries to please me all the time.

She has promised me that she will not talk to the guy again but if by any chance I see her cheating I shouldn't hesitate to spread her nude pictures because I have her nudes in my phone (the ones she snapped and sent to me.)

Please, should I continue with her though I do not trust her again and I never even did.

What should I do?
u mean she cannot go meet the guy at night but she can sneak to see you at night...man please speak for yourself alone.
Re: Does It Mean I Should Accept My Girlfriend Back? by Mykel51(m): 8:46am On Jan 11, 2020
Talk sense into her, let her know your dont's , then take her back and stop using her as a sex slave...I really hope you have a future plan for you and her...all I see here is just sex and sex.

Also delete her nudes...one feature of love is respect and that is respect for her body also.

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Re: Does It Mean I Should Accept My Girlfriend Back? by AryEmber(f): 8:51am On Jan 11, 2020
You are a disgrace! Imagine you opening your dirty mouth to say you would send her nudes and still asking what to do! The girl is more stupid! I hope you have a daughter one day?

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Re: Does It Mean I Should Accept My Girlfriend Back? by Nobody: 8:53am On Jan 11, 2020
Daddy give her one more chance since you believe then never fhuck wink
Re: Does It Mean I Should Accept My Girlfriend Back? by Kris25: 9:15am On Jan 11, 2020
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Thewriter2018:
She called me and was pleading and pleading that she doesn't mean anything she said to the guy.

I do not trust her again and I told her that I do not care what she does with her life. In fact I broke the relationship. She begged for over 4 hours but still I told her to give herself some time to decide whhat she wants.

She loves me and is ready to do anything I said. I mean anything I say.
I can tell her to help me with some cash and she wouldn't hesitate regardless of the amount provided that she can afford it.

She gives me sex including blowjobbs and Anal sex too. She takes a lot of risk just to see me like sneaking out of her Father's house aorund 10pm just to see me and satisfy my sexual urge.

She promised that she hasn't had sex with the guy and I can boldly concur because there is no place to do it. She works in a market and there is no place to meet with a guy and have sex with him there. She cannot also meet rhe guy at night because the guy stays far. She cannot also viait the guy because her parent does not allow her to go out except to her shop. She cannot also corner to the guy's house after her work because she is always timed.

I actually make her cumm when we have sex. I suck her cat so much that she orgasms and squirts.

She calls me all the time and tries to please me all the time.

She has promised me that she will not talk to the guy again but if by any chance I see her cheating I shouldn't hesitate to spread her nude pictures because I have her nudes in my phone (the ones she snapped and sent to me.)

Please, should I continue with her though I do not trust her again and I never even did.

What should I do?



What is wrong with you? Are you sure you're sane?

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