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| My Boss Hates Me For Dating Her Niece. by jellyface(m): 6:29pm On Dec 05, 2010 |
MY BOSS HATES ME FOR DATING HER NIECE. Hi Nairalanders, I am in dire need of opinions as I am under intense pressure and facing a difficult situation. For more than 2 yrs, I ve worked in perfect harmony with my boss and she showed fondness for me that made my colleagues wondering and asking if I was dating her (My Boss). She calls me when on my Annual leave or when on a trip and always invited me to her house for Easter, X-mas and her Buffdays alongside some selected staff. We ve never had any problem till I started dating her niece whom I met last year on her Buffday. I liked her and exchanged phone numbers. We got along and she loves me so much. She got me gifts and treated me like I was married to her. The affair has been perfect for a year without her Aunt’s (My Boss) knowledge. When some of my colleagues discovered I was dating My Bosses Niece, it was no longer a secret and I decided to tell her myself before she discovered. She didn’t get angry the day I told her after office hours but I could see she was shocked. I called her that same evening when I got home and she said she needed to sleep over it. Then the subsequent days, she began to act strange in the office but I kept my cool and didn’t say a word. We hardly spoke to each other beside greetings. Three weeks later, on a weekend, she met me at my girlfriend’s house (Her niece) as i was leaving, she came to see her sister that happens to be my girlfriend’s mother. When she saw me, she grew furious and answered my greetings in a cold manner. She treated me like I was a stranger, so I left got so confused with the whole drama  . I am not scared of her but at the same time I don’t want to have problems with her as its already affecting me in the office. Maybe, I encroached into her territory or I crossed the line. Should I apologise to her and walk away from the affair or act like it doesn’t bug me and continue with the relationship? Quickly come to my aid,  NAIRALANDERS with your sincere suggestions as to how I should handle this case. Thank You in advance for your contributions.  |
| Re: My Boss Hates Me For Dating Her Niece. by deniyor: 6:37pm On Dec 05, 2010 |
You boss likes you romantically but you shunned her love for her younger, more pretty 16 yr old niece. Go figure. |
| Re: My Boss Hates Me For Dating Her Niece. by jellyface(m): 6:52pm On Dec 05, 2010 |
@ deniyor, she is married for God's sake, so what does she want wit me? |
| Re: My Boss Hates Me For Dating Her Niece. by kmoneyE(m): 6:58pm On Dec 05, 2010 |
Handwritting is not necessarily written on a piece of paper sometimes on the wall***Why have you refused to recognise and answer her body call I mean your BOSS** If you had answered her call and recognised all her ball passing game** You wouldnt find yourself in this tight corner**Moreso I believe she wouldnt stop you dating her niece in as much you do not fail in yur duties to her and since she is not planning to marry you or have you for keeps** You need to know what time is it man** And recognise her body call** GOD HELP YOU |
| Re: My Boss Hates Me For Dating Her Niece. by Nobody: 7:00pm On Dec 05, 2010 |
Why does it have to be someone so close to your boss. . .like her niece? |
| Re: My Boss Hates Me For Dating Her Niece. by kmoneyE(m): 7:05pm On Dec 05, 2010 |
Can you change the direction of LOVE  |
| Re: My Boss Hates Me For Dating Her Niece. by omega25red(m): 7:07pm On Dec 05, 2010 |
seems like your boss might have had a crush on you or maybe she feels like you took advantage of her kindness and hooked up with her niece. by the way how old is this niece of hers and did you meet her as a result of working for your boss? If you knew your girl before you knew her (boss) then she definitely had a crush on you and she is mad that she can't have you |
| Re: My Boss Hates Me For Dating Her Niece. by obowunmi(m): 7:08pm On Dec 05, 2010 |
Leave her niece and keep your job. Kapish! Settled. |
| Re: My Boss Hates Me For Dating Her Niece. by Nobody: 7:15pm On Dec 05, 2010 |
omega25red:this is a very reasonable post. i had similar experience in 2005 with an adult not work but in a gathering, i misconstrued her over pampering/kindness for something else. i ended up embarrassing my self. pls dnt think she(ur boss) wants u |
| Re: My Boss Hates Me For Dating Her Niece. by Idowuogbo(f): 7:20pm On Dec 05, 2010 |
obowunmi:hmm dat calls 4 double trouble |
| Re: My Boss Hates Me For Dating Her Niece. by freecocoa(f): 7:30pm On Dec 05, 2010 |
Me thinks you should try and talk to your boss,just ask her if you've done anything wrong,hear what she'll say,i guess you'll know what's next from there.best of luck. |
| Re: My Boss Hates Me For Dating Her Niece. by Yorisb: 9:10pm On Dec 05, 2010 |
obowunmi: Sounds about as nice as being caught up between the Devil and the deep blue sea. Your choice, Bro!  Chin Chin! |
| Re: My Boss Hates Me For Dating Her Niece. by emmatok(m): 11:10pm On Dec 05, 2010 |
jellyface: Why is it difficult for some people to separate THEIR JOB FROM RELATIONSHIP. Your BOSS is not have a crush on you, but she is angry that you are dating a close relation of hers . And more embarrassing is that you are meeting each other at her family house. My guy no boss in Nigeria will tolerate that to them it is disrespectful. If you want to enjoy your work always do your job in a very-professional way and trying staying way from any relative of hers(YOUR BOSS). OR ELSE ONE DAY SHE WILL DISGRACE YOU OPENLY. I AM TELLING YOU FROM EXPERIENCE. 1 Like |
| Re: My Boss Hates Me For Dating Her Niece. by Carolece(f): 11:21pm On Dec 05, 2010 |
Bang both of them so everyone will be happy. That's not what "men" generally do? |
| Re: My Boss Hates Me For Dating Her Niece. by Idowuogbo(f): 11:23pm On Dec 05, 2010 |
^hehehe craze woman but na true u talk sha , such heddioots call dem sef sharp bois |
| Re: My Boss Hates Me For Dating Her Niece. by kmoneyE(m): 11:28pm On Dec 05, 2010 |
Carolece: The best advice so far** Why is it that [b]honest people [/b]like you are just too few**
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| Re: My Boss Hates Me For Dating Her Niece. by Idowuogbo(f): 11:30pm On Dec 05, 2010 |
^hmm asewwo , na dat u go commend , hmm kay omo ekun fun re |
| Re: My Boss Hates Me For Dating Her Niece. by kmoneyE(m): 11:32pm On Dec 05, 2010 |
Idowuogbo: If two Ladies want you to fire dem then give it to dem naww**But make your case no be like the one in this pics **
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| Re: My Boss Hates Me For Dating Her Niece. by Phate07(m): 11:37pm On Dec 05, 2010 |
Carolece: I bet the OP does not really understand women and their needs. |
| Re: My Boss Hates Me For Dating Her Niece. by Nobody: 9:46am On Dec 06, 2010 |
@OP, ur boss wants u.simple. |
| Re: My Boss Hates Me For Dating Her Niece. by Nobody: 10:19am On Dec 06, 2010 |
^^ perhaps poster has not supplied us enough details to guarantee that that your boss likes you does not necessarily mean she WANTS you! |
| Re: My Boss Hates Me For Dating Her Niece. by angelz(f): 12:39pm On Dec 06, 2010 |
its eida she has a crush on you or she is not comfortable with the relationship. some pple dont like attachin relationship with work. those 2 are seperate and she may not be confortable with havin a possible in law as a subordinate in the office. l'll suggest u approach her and find out why the relationship btw u 2 is tense. u may ask for her suggestion.if she is not comfortable with ur relationship with her niece she should let u know. 1st apologise 4 goin out with her niece without tellin her first. u may give her the impression dat d relationship started on a platonic level and u never knew it will develop to this. just talk to her and get d whole tin resolve. 1 Like |
| Re: My Boss Hates Me For Dating Her Niece. by pinkylady1(f): 1:15pm On Dec 06, 2010 |
me thinks she's not just comforatble with the relationship. |
| Re: My Boss Hates Me For Dating Her Niece. by vandops(m): 1:27pm On Dec 06, 2010 |
@OP You should learn to separate business and pleasure, and mind you, ur boss doesnt want you but its just embarassing when you have to start running into each other outside of work area. Its Nigeria, no boss will take it from any of their employees |
| Re: My Boss Hates Me For Dating Her Niece. by greenish05: 1:32pm On Dec 06, 2010 |
@poster,call her and let her know you notice her suddenly change to you when you told her about your relationship btw her niece and you and beg her to tell you why she has change her behavior toward you.If the reason could make you lose your job i will stronger advice you to quit the relationship in good manner and go for another girl,though it wont be easy to that,you have to let your girlfriend everything and why you two should quit.i am saying because its not easy to get a good job now and if you are jobless your girl will definitely leave you are go for another person, Pls think wisely before any step you take. |
| Re: My Boss Hates Me For Dating Her Niece. by AO2(m): 1:44pm On Dec 06, 2010 |
Talking to your boss and her reaction, will determine the next line of action.Don't do anything that will jeopardise your job (source of livelihood). |
| Re: My Boss Hates Me For Dating Her Niece. by ruemu(m): 1:57pm On Dec 06, 2010 |
why ur BOSS niece?? u no do well, |
| Re: My Boss Hates Me For Dating Her Niece. by Ninapha(f): 2:18pm On Dec 06, 2010 |
You boss may not want u! she may just be scared of your intentions towards her neice. Do u think u have the character to make her trust you. You dont expect her to jump up for such news when she is not sure of what u want. You have made ur first mistake by starting the relationship the way u did. If eventually it does not lead to marriage be sure, u are fired, if it does be sure to be loyal to her always. Now, its beyond your pleas and loyalty to make her get relaxed, Let your girl and her mum do the talking, just be yourself at work and make sure you will not intentionally break the neice's heart. You love her dont you? Its time to prove it and that alone would put u on a safer situation and pls, also think about getting a new job if its a private company but if its more like a large organisation, the worst is a transfer. If its for love you are courting her neice, go on but if its infactuation, be sure the whole family would fight u for a course someday. Dont ever agree to have anything to do with ur boss romantically, that can never, i reapeat never save you but would only leave u at a cross road. |
| Re: My Boss Hates Me For Dating Her Niece. by ollykay(m): 2:19pm On Dec 06, 2010 |
I'm sure u NW knew u are at a cross road, its high time you read the hand writing on the wall, do not leave the girl, nor try to do anything stupid, but rather, create a private time when u can talk to your boss, solemnly, talk to her n a different way, let her feel your action than n word, through that you will know if truly she's got any feelings for you. its now up to you to determine if you want to hit her below or otherwise, |
| Re: My Boss Hates Me For Dating Her Niece. by swarthyg(f): 2:23pm On Dec 06, 2010 |
i agree wif freecocoa nd angelz and i think green, u shud try dat and fast i suggest, love and work r two diff bt very important issues, i wish u d best tho |
| Re: My Boss Hates Me For Dating Her Niece. by madchen(f): 2:55pm On Dec 06, 2010 |
Ask your boss! |
| Re: My Boss Hates Me For Dating Her Niece. by lovejo(m): 3:16pm On Dec 06, 2010 |
IF YOU HAVE ASKED FOR YOUR BOSS OPINION 1ST YOU WOULD HAVE KNOWN HER REACTION BEFORE YOU START THE RELATIONSHIP, THAT WAS WHERE THE PROBLEM STARTS, IT WAS JUST THAT YOU FAILED TO GIVE HER DUE RESPECT. WHAT IS BAD IN TELLING HER YOU LIKE HER NIECE AT THE BEGINNING, SHE WOULD HAVE BEEN HAPPY FOR RESPECTING HER BEFORE STARTING BANGING HER NIECE, SHHE JUST FELT IT AS INSULT TO HER AURHORITY. |
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