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| How Often Should Couples Speak To Each Other ? by Nobody: 6:20pm On Jan 13, 2020 |
I was wondering how often couples should speak to each other on phone via calls,texts,chats etc daily?weekly?bi-weekly? |
| Re: How Often Should Couples Speak To Each Other ? by kunleweb: 6:22pm On Jan 13, 2020 |
Michellekabod2: I'll park here. But let's start with you. How often do you consider cool/healthy and uncool/too much. For me I'd say it depends. Too much availability is often considered weakness. Hence if mutual respect would suffer from communication, then substantially reducing it would seem cool. Otherwise as regular as both party needs to reach out, communication can flow. If mutual respect avails, then there can never be enough of the other party. Dedicating this comment to Fountainofyouth and crackhaus Viicfuntop coman see o. I dey wear specks sip suntop the same time here  2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How Often Should Couples Speak To Each Other ? by izzou(m): 6:24pm On Jan 13, 2020 |
Weekdays? Once a day Weekends? Not defined |
| Re: How Often Should Couples Speak To Each Other ? by donstan18: 6:26pm On Jan 13, 2020 |
Na everything una dey ask? Kukuma ask of how you can prepare timetable for communication, since you don't want to understand that couples differs. 4 Likes |
| Re: How Often Should Couples Speak To Each Other ? by crackkhaus: 6:26pm On Jan 13, 2020 |
Lol, are these things set in stone? It goes as the spirit leads. The moment it starts to feel like you have to do it a certain way and at a certain time, then there's a problem in that relationship or marriage...as the case may be. 4 Likes |
| Re: How Often Should Couples Speak To Each Other ? by crackkhaus: 6:27pm On Jan 13, 2020 |
kunleweb:Lol.. You never still forget? |
| Re: How Often Should Couples Speak To Each Other ? by kunleweb: 6:28pm On Jan 13, 2020 |
crackkhaus: Still shivering bro. Obi na tu mo. I can't shake it off me mind bro. What's up. Hope you're chilling... If only ladies can maintain their love energy consistently. Life would be sweeter. |
| Re: How Often Should Couples Speak To Each Other ? by nlPoster: 6:31pm On Jan 13, 2020 |
Whatever is recommended. You dont want a quiet place scenario where every sound attracts hostile listeners. |
| Re: How Often Should Couples Speak To Each Other ? by Bola146(f): 6:34pm On Jan 13, 2020 |
Twice in a day is okay for a good communication |
| Re: How Often Should Couples Speak To Each Other ? by JONNYSPUTE(m): 6:37pm On Jan 13, 2020 |
Most there be rules and regulations in everything now?. I call anytime I like,no restrictions. She does same too cause we are one. |
| Re: How Often Should Couples Speak To Each Other ? by Nobody: 6:38pm On Jan 13, 2020 |
It depends on their schedule. If their schedule is not a busy one, week days they should call each other4 times a day Weekend, if any is away, should call 10 times cos na weekend. They shouldn't Even trade their weekend for anything.  |
| Re: How Often Should Couples Speak To Each Other ? by crackkhaus: 6:40pm On Jan 13, 2020 |
kunleweb:Some do. Abeg try shaking it off, na play we dey play dat day. |
| Re: How Often Should Couples Speak To Each Other ? by kunleweb: 6:41pm On Jan 13, 2020 |
crackkhaus: Consistency begins from 5.years to me bro. After the lady has settled in two feet down. Though why a few do, the margin's minimal except she broke and the dude get future. Then the playing field is levelled |
| Re: How Often Should Couples Speak To Each Other ? by Nobody: 6:54pm On Jan 13, 2020 |
It all depends on partners' personalities. While some believe in consistent communication to form a bond, some don't, some even find long conversations tiring. Sometimes ago I visited a friend while with her, she suddenly grabbed her phone and said "oh I haven't heard from my baby since morning" . You should have seen the reaction on my face like seriously? Didn't you guys talk about some hours ago? Lol and she went on and on to LECTURE me on importance of constant calls . crazy Lady! I can't imagine myself bugging someone with so much calls or someone disturbing me with talks.  . The most important thing is compatibility. If both partners understand each other,they would find what works best for them. 1 Like |
| Re: How Often Should Couples Speak To Each Other ? by crackkhaus: 7:07pm On Jan 13, 2020 |
kunleweb:Lol, 5years? Well I guess that's what works for you. |
| Re: How Often Should Couples Speak To Each Other ? by kunleweb: 7:12pm On Jan 13, 2020 |
crackkhaus: What. Don't tell me you're a virgin now. You haven't seen a lady super consistent for 19 months and next thing she pulls a thread... Tell me you haven't. |
| Re: How Often Should Couples Speak To Each Other ? by crackkhaus: 7:16pm On Jan 13, 2020 |
kunleweb:This can happen to the best of us, it doesn't mean there are no ladies who can remain super consistent for longer...even five years and longer. |
| Re: How Often Should Couples Speak To Each Other ? by kunleweb: 7:17pm On Jan 13, 2020 |
crackkhaus: I know na. There are so many that are cool thesedays. Don't mind me I'm looking for fight jare. Threads are boring without fights |
| Re: How Often Should Couples Speak To Each Other ? by nlPoster: 7:21pm On Jan 13, 2020 |
kunleweb: Name names, thanks. Don't imply. |
| Re: How Often Should Couples Speak To Each Other ? by kunleweb: 7:24pm On Jan 13, 2020 |
| Re: How Often Should Couples Speak To Each Other ? by crackkhaus: 7:25pm On Jan 13, 2020 |
kunleweb: |
| Re: How Often Should Couples Speak To Each Other ? by ImaIma1(f): 7:32pm On Jan 13, 2020 |
Definitely depends on the bond and closeness. |
| Re: How Often Should Couples Speak To Each Other ? by Viicfuntop(f): 7:34pm On Jan 13, 2020 |
kunleweb: You won’t let me rest. |
| Re: How Often Should Couples Speak To Each Other ? by kunleweb: 7:40pm On Jan 13, 2020 |
| Re: How Often Should Couples Speak To Each Other ? by MrBrownJay1(m): 8:02pm On Jan 13, 2020 |
if anyone needs a timetable for such things in their union, then this person certainly aint ready for any r/ship.... it should simply be HOW YOU FEEL and the moment it becomes a forced requirement then you are already losing. |
| Re: How Often Should Couples Speak To Each Other ? by Nobody: 8:08pm On Jan 13, 2020 |
MrBrownJay1:just wanted to get it right. I don't know what it feels like to love someone or show affection. Wanna learn how to love. I realised people show love by calling/texting. So I wanna know what's normal and not. So I don't undercall/overcall. I am yet to be in a relationship, but I think I will be ready for a relationship end of this year/begining of next year(have a lot of issue to settle for now). And I want to learn communication so when I enter there will be no issue with it. PS:if am to call based on my feeling then it will be once a month(under calling). 1 Like |
| Re: How Often Should Couples Speak To Each Other ? by hakeem4(m): 8:09pm On Jan 13, 2020 |
once a month is better. At the beginning of the month the husband will just drop key points for the month |
| Re: How Often Should Couples Speak To Each Other ? by MrBrownJay1(m): 8:22pm On Jan 13, 2020 |
Michellekabod2: be yourself ALWAYS.... you cant learn "how" to love, love will come naturally and your body will yearn to do things naturally. nobody can teach you how to love because we all love differently... and the catch is to find someone who is compatible with the way you love (and not pretend to love the way a person desires you to love them). many funny people would expect you to call them every so often, to PRETEND that you care/think of them (even if you dont)... i wont even dwell on how INSECURE/SELFISH these people are. people should call text whenever they FEEL like doing so or because they actually have something to share with their partner (and certainly not as a requirement of showing that you care). you cant cheat who you truly are because thats who you will REALLY be (as soon as you get comfortable in relationship/marriage)... so never try to do things to please people, always do what you feel is right to do dont try to become an expert in r/ship before even being with someone... let it all flow naturally, dont try to be who you aint, dont try to do what you aint down with.... just be with someone and be fully honest with your feelings and dont be afraid to do what your body/mind demands. 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How Often Should Couples Speak To Each Other ? by kunleweb: 8:24pm On Jan 13, 2020 |
hakeem4: Werey 1 Like |
| Re: How Often Should Couples Speak To Each Other ? by kunleweb: 8:25pm On Jan 13, 2020 |
| Re: How Often Should Couples Speak To Each Other ? by Viicfuntop(f): 9:13pm On Jan 13, 2020 |
kunleweb: Alright. What is it? |
| Re: How Often Should Couples Speak To Each Other ? by Nobody: 9:25pm On Jan 13, 2020 |
hakeem4: key points? Honestly you made me laugh so hard! Water is coming out self . 1 Like 1 Share |
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