ARE YOU ACTUALLY A MAN?

(Only For The Married)

BY AYODELE ADEOYE

Recently many marriages are falling apart because the men are not capable of satisfying their wives in bed.

The unfortunate aspect of this new trend is the fact that such men don't want to find solution to their problems because of pride. But what pride do you have as a man when you cannot even perform your manly role?

Another painful thing I have realized in my course of counseling couples with this challenge is that those men don't give attention to their wives when they complain. Some of these men even see their wives as being wayward and promiscuous because she demanded to be satisfied.

I'm sorry I must say this, many of these women now seek for satisfaction elsewhere. Some have other guys who help them while some have resulted into continuous masturbation.

Mr Pride, someone is screwing your wife because of your irresponsibility and excessive display of pride. In fact, they are doing it right on your bed.

Many of these men concentrate on meeting the financial and material needs of their wives and family while they neglect bedroom need. Sir, may I announce to you that meeting those needs and neglecting her sexual needs does not really make her happy. Most women won't talk too much about sexual disssatisfaction, they either die silently or get solution elsewhere.

Badly, when these women are caught in adultery, the world blame them, leaving the foolish and irresponsible man out of the equation of blame. They capitalize on his efforts to provide all her needs. She is seen as greedy, ungrateful and selfish woman. But when she cries out for sexual starvation no one listens to her.

This case is worse among Christians where normal things are overspiritualized. Culture makes it odd for a woman to ask for her sexual right.

Most of these women now engage the service of cucumber to do the work of a man. But if it is not a penis, it can't be the same as penis. No wonder most of these women see themselves as widows. Aren't widows better than them? What is the use of a husband if he cannot perform his mandate to his wife? I hear some of the men say "is everything about sex?". This is a language from a coward, everything is not about sex but you won't let her go do it elsewhere. You stupidly make our preaching against adultery of non effect. You pushed her into adultery because you aren't man enough. 46% of women who committed adultery would not have if they got satisfied by their husbands.

Mr One Minute Man, stop disgracing us. We The Association of Men are not proud of you. You are a man but you are not like us. The original man God created is active and full of life. What went wrong? The same way God will punish you for not providing her needs, the same way he will punish you for not meeting her sexual needs. Sexuality is part of her needs sir. You are worse than an infidel if you can't satisfy her in bed.

Oga, stop the embarrassment now, speak up if you have any problem. If your rod is faulty it can be repaired. It's time to wake up to your responsibility and start making madam proud. Take leave off work once a while and make up to madam. Don't let weeds take over your vineyard. Don't let another man do your work while you are still alive.

Drop the pride today. Be a proud man by making her proud. Let me stop here for now.

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Hallelujah

fight will soon start

The importance of sex in marriage cannot be overemphasized!
I have a friend who married a sex addict with a gargantuan equipment, according to her, but he failed woefully in other aspects, so she divorced him after 12 years together & remarried someone who doesn’t like sex but really loves & cares for her.
Few days ago, she told me how he left work & traveled for almost 10 hours just to satisfy her. Baba even bought oil come apply for the right places Some days after he left, she started complaining again
They are not there yet but they are sticking together.
Before getting married, make sure the right boxes are ticked to avoid stories that touch.
Nothing justifies adultery, no matter how bad your spouse is.

P.S: Let’s also remember that, no matter what you do, some men/women can’t be satisfied. Pfft!