The classic definition of relationship is the way in which two people feel about each other and behaves towards each other. However, this definition doesn't hold true in most cases when it comes to the relationship in Hausa land because the majority of cases it's the man that gives about 80 per cent of that feeling due to the nonchalant attitudes of the Hausa ladies towards their partner despite the fact that they love the man in some cases.
Hausa ladies are known for their beauty and charisma but most of them have next to nothing to offer when it comes to a relationship issue. Most of them have a belief that it is the duty of their partner to make sure that the relationship is maintained regardless of whether they were able to fulfil their part or not.

A Hausa lady will hardly call or send you a text message to ask how are you no matter what the condition is. Most times she prefers to flash you even if there is thousand of airtime on her phone because she thinks it's your "duty" to call all the times. If you want to date a Hausa lady, to avoid disappointment you have to bear with some of these attributes:

1. Hiding Love

Most Hausa girls hide their love for their partner no matter how much they love him because they have a belief that whenever you show your love to a man, you are losing your class as a woman. There is this popular adage among Hausa girls, "Namiji ba dan Goyo bane" which literally means a man can never be trusted.

2. Lack of Appreciation

A Hausa girl will hardly appreciate what her partner does or buy for her because her expectation is always high. She's always expecting you to buy what someone bought for her friend not knowing that everyone has his own financial limitations.

3. Materialism

A typical Hausa girl likes money too much to the extent that she can leave her partner to someone that's richer than him. If you have the money you already buy her heart but if you are poor always expect her to leave you when she finds a richer partner.

These are some of the few attributes of Hausa ladies but that doesn't mean all of them are like this. There are some of them that actually the above-mentioned attributes are not their priorities in a relationship they need someone who can just care for them and that's all.

So if you want to date a Hausa girl, make sure you get someone that will love you sincerely not because of your money or qualification.

Noted....

100% spot on. I left her because of those

Obinnau:
100% spot on. I left her because of those

Repent now or....