i have been longing to share this experience i went through during the last election period,
i travelled back home (jos), from my base here, when i got home, i heard this funny gist about my ex, telling folks around that i have beign calling her and begging her to come back and that i have even offered her money, just imagine?
i met her immediately after my youth service around late 2002, we started of fine, she was nice and all that, i didnt have a job then but she was supportive,i was doing some running around to fend for myself but she wanted me to have a white collar job, along the line things started crumbling, she became abusive and temperemental, she even lied to me she was pregnant then and i had to take her to ma mom's only to find out she was lyin, bottom line, things got so bad, we eventually broke up. the week it happened my life began to change, job offers started pouring in, my interview results with first bank came out, went ot lagos for my training , and so many others came in.
now after three years she has ressurected the ghosts, wanted to call her, but thot against it, i dont want to join issues with her, why is she up to this?, she broke up the relationship, so why this fuss?, all the time we were together i treated her with lov and respect, so why all the crap?
i just dont undestand naija babes? cant a brother progress in life without all this hating?

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@ randa

Guy, I can feel you pain, i think it's high time to move on with your life. God has blessed you so much with a good job as you mentioned, so just move ahead in life.
You know how naija babes behave atimes.
Just look ahead of you my brother, keep her behind and move on.

Cheers

its good to know she is your ex. best thing to do is not give one more second thought to this obviously demented girl. if she wants to spend her time spreading lies, let her. She would soon tire and see she is making a complete Pratt of herself. You need to stop giving any more thought to her and the situation(unless you still love her) either way you have moved on so do just that.

U obviously still have feelings for her otherwise u should have let her be where she belongs - THE PAST

iice:

You know she is lying. You know the kind of person she is hence she is your ex. You don't even want to go through the same wahala again. So please tell me why are you wasting time and getting yourself worked up? Enjoy your life jare!

sisimose:

its good to know she is your ex. best thing to do is not give one more second thought to this obviously demented girl. if she wants to spend her time spreading lies, let her. She would soon tire and see she is making a complete Pratt of herself. You need to stop giving any more thought to her and the situation(unless you still love her) either way you have moved on so do just that.

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