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How Can I Overcome Fear Of Rejection by Nobody: 5:25pm On Feb 07, 2020
Please nairalanders I need your help on this

I'm just 20 in my finals in one of the federal university in South South and also a computer technician

I've never had a girlfriend, the reason been that I'm having this fear of rejection and always thinking that maybe I won't be compatable with them and can't give them the needed attention.
It has made girls who actually liked me to stay far away because I refuse to win their heart on purpose.
I'm not an introvert

Please I need advise on this if there is any way I can get over this
Thanks
Re: How Can I Overcome Fear Of Rejection by Froshloaded: 5:29pm On Feb 07, 2020
Drink 2 bottle of Hennessey
It works like magic, thank Me later...
Don't mention me if you don't want wahala oo

Modified:
Oya let me be serious..
Bro go and hustle
Once you hustle and you get bar
That confidence go dey there aje.

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Re: How Can I Overcome Fear Of Rejection by Martinez39s(m): 5:30pm On Feb 07, 2020
Having a girlfriend should be the last thing on your mind at this age. Who girlfriend epp? Use your time and energy to build up your life. grin
Re: How Can I Overcome Fear Of Rejection by millionboi2: 5:33pm On Feb 07, 2020
dominiick:
Please nairalanders I need your help on this

I'm just 20 in my finals in one of the federal university in South South and also a computer technician

I've never had a girlfriend, the reason been that I'm having this fear of rejection and always thinking that maybe I won't be compatable with them and can't give them the needed attention.
It has made girls who actually liked me to stay far away because I refuse to win their heart on purpose.
I'm not an introvert

Please I need advise on this if there is any way I can get over this
Thanks
make money

Nobody can reject dangote,xpt if d pesin doesn't recognize him

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Re: How Can I Overcome Fear Of Rejection by Nobody: 5:36pm On Feb 07, 2020
millionboi2:
make money

Nobody can reject dangote,xpt if d pesin doesn't recognize him
Am seriously working on it

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Re: How Can I Overcome Fear Of Rejection by Nobody: 5:36pm On Feb 07, 2020
Martinez39s:
Having a girlfriend should be the last thing on your mind at this age. Who girlfriend epp? Use your time and energy to build up your life. grin
Yes sir
Re: How Can I Overcome Fear Of Rejection by Nobody: 5:39pm On Feb 07, 2020
Timidity is the case man...nobody will express your feelings on your behalf as perfectly as you would want it, so think about the worst that can happen, accept it then proceed to challenge the acceptance. Build your confidence, read books on seduction, public speaking and be daring. Know for a fact that even when you get rejected it will only make you become better. Timidity wouldn't let you date your dream girl, it wouldn't let you have a beautiful marriage, timidity will make you less attractive because self confidence is more beautiful than your physical look and bank account. Accept you may get rejected, but what chance of victory do you have when you did not even attempt to give a good try?
Re: How Can I Overcome Fear Of Rejection by LOGOBELT: 5:40pm On Feb 07, 2020
The truth been said you are an Introvert and you attached low self esteem to it.

Follow this steps I previously told this guy

https://www.nairaland.com/5563306/like-im-shy-woo#84604907
Re: How Can I Overcome Fear Of Rejection by Tonyspecial(m): 6:21pm On Feb 07, 2020
millionboi2:
make money

Nobody can reject dangote,xpt if d pesin doesn't recognize him
some idiots will bro
Re: How Can I Overcome Fear Of Rejection by Bigmanpickin: 6:32pm On Feb 07, 2020
I just don't know just try and relax
Re: How Can I Overcome Fear Of Rejection by millionboi2: 8:28pm On Feb 07, 2020
Tonyspecial:
some idiots will bro
xpt if he deny Dem d privilege of knowin him
Re: How Can I Overcome Fear Of Rejection by flokii: 8:36pm On Feb 07, 2020
Always remember this.. Whether YES or NO Life must surely go on.

Time heals everything. Rejection or not, you will always be fine with time.
Re: How Can I Overcome Fear Of Rejection by Nobody: 8:38pm On Feb 07, 2020
Do you have insecurity that is affecting other areas of your life? cry

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Re: How Can I Overcome Fear Of Rejection by MYSTIC19(m): 8:40pm On Feb 07, 2020
@Op... been dere.. u ll get over it later... but be confident of urself...
Re: How Can I Overcome Fear Of Rejection by Nobody: 8:41pm On Feb 07, 2020
cry
Re: How Can I Overcome Fear Of Rejection by Digmygold: 3:19pm On Feb 15, 2020
Martinez39s:
Having a girlfriend should be the last thing on your mind at this age. Who girlfriend epp? Use your time and energy to build up your life. grin

Chai! May frustrated wrinkled Lucifers not comment on our threads Amen.

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