Am in uni now and all the guys here seems to be conversant with talking and rolling with the girls and am just out like i don't exist i don't know what or how to start a meaningful convo. With a girl is it cos am introverted am beginning to worry am not on same page with the guys here....

Focus on ur studies.

daniddan1999:
Am in uni now and all the guys here seems to be conversant with talking and rolling with the girls and am just out like i don't exist i don't know what or how to start a meaningful convo. With a girl is it cos am introverted am beginning to worry am not on same page with the guys here....

easy peasy

I noticed you noticing me noticing you, how about I blow your mind , c'mon talk to Daddy


take ice packs with u just incase

daniddan1999:
Am in uni now and all the guys here seems to be conversant with talking and rolling with the girls and am just out like i don't exist i don't know what or how to start a meaningful convo. With a girl is it cos am introverted am beginning to worry am not on same page with the guys here....

You are in the company of the wrong guys.


Two dangerous things that can ruin your life are Promises and Memories

Don't make promises you can't keep and don't create memories that will damage your reputation and integrity


Why not become the best in your class and see if girls will not flock around you, why not get rich the right way and see if everyone including the high profile girls in your school will not wanna be around you.

Life is a deliberate choice. You lack self confidence because you are deficient of what magnets people which is Money, Authority and Influence.

Once you have any of those three, you will be confident.

Finally, life is in phases and stages. This is not the stage for Ladies, don't ruin your TOMORROW based on the logistics of your deek. Build your TOMORROW so that you are graduating best in your class, richest and selectively choosy on which ladies you give attention to, and you will be worshipped by everyone.

Thats a smarter way to live. Sacrificing fun in Valentine 2020 is the price you must pay for Valentine 2022/23 to be incredibly awesome.

He who goes with the crowd will NEVER wear the crown.

Confident

H

Chasing girls will ruin your life

What exactly are you chasing girls for?

Believe me,I know what you are going through. I know you fear missing out on all the fun now and if you don't do it now,you will miss out. All these people telling you to face your studies now and that when you get money the confidence will just appear without any foundation is all lies. Face your studies? Good,but all work and no play makes jack a dull boy.. My first year in the university I was more like you,from my hostel to class,class to library and Library back to my room. Even I wasn't friends with my roommates because I lack the basic understanding of how relationships develop. I was sad,I had no one to talk to,the results came out even though I dedicated my life to reading it wasn't encouraging. So I researched and read books on how to be social,I found the six pillars of self esteem very useful. It gave me practical examples and tasks to complete to get rid of my social anxiety and I can tell you boldly now that I am a recovering socially awkward person. Learn to take small steps,start from asking time from girls you find attractive from there things will get better. Lest I forget my grades got better when I started making friends with people and I am more happy now. Carpe Diem!!

You won’t believe it when I say I was like you in school.. I was a dork I no dy sabi talk to babe etc...

The only girl I managed to date used insult to finish be based on my broke state... lol...

I broke up with her and started to hustle...

Now I’m not saying I have all the money in the world but for my age I’m doing more than very good and now the ladies are the one who want to hangout with me... lol...

Guy take it or leave it, when the money starts coming in and the ladies notice it then they’ll want you.. most girls might claim they don’t want your money but let’s be honest, ladies love a guy who seems to be doing good with himself...