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Re: There Is Nothing Like A Broke, Lazy Good Man by mzeefitz(m): 6:22am On Mar 22, 2020
makydebbie:
Hmmmm okay. grin
Re: There Is Nothing Like A Broke, Lazy Good Man by franchasng: 6:22am On Mar 22, 2020
Shugavee:
many guys pretend to be responsible just to hv you!! Because they know getting a clean pussy n a swt woman ain’t cheap!! So they would deceive you!!! When they hv the money to get any woman they want !! They change .
you talks another truth here. Sweet chicks that sweet well well is costly to getting, specially the sweet chicks that is get big buttocks, standing breast, flatted tummy, bling bling skin, tighted something, you is right wink

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Re: There Is Nothing Like A Broke, Lazy Good Man by deltateam: 6:22am On Mar 22, 2020
Shugavee:
There is absolutely nothing like a broke / lazy good man. You can never know the real him till he has some money. You can never know if he’s faithful, except he got money in his pocket!!

So ladies, don’t waste your time, if he doesn’t have a source of income, he is a waste. Always remember that your time and attention is an investment, don’t waste it on some dude who got just sex to offer. Don’t let people single shame you that you go for anything and don’t ever agree that you can only offer sex. They know you have a lot to offer.

YOU ARE A WOMAN!!

You should listen to Queen Nwokoye's advice to men. She warned us of people like you.

You are an icing on the cake, diabetes. You are not good to bring to Mama cos a man knows you are there for the money.


If you had said should not marry a broke man, I would have understood.
Even the way you called them useless made me know that the relaxer seeped into your brains.

A lazy guy is a no, no and can't carry responsibility and should never be put with a broke guy in same page.

A broke guy might be hardworking but underpaid at the moment.

A guy earning #40 000 and below is broke and should not marry unless a woman sees good qualities in him and ready to assist him.

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Re: There Is Nothing Like A Broke, Lazy Good Man by Skmoda360(m): 6:26am On Mar 22, 2020
Shugavee:
a broke dude will hide it , till he has money heard of many stories !! Guys r natural liars n decievers
they don't hide it again oooo .....maybe because you are talking as a woman hence the reason why you think broke boys hide their true character when broke undecided.
Re: There Is Nothing Like A Broke, Lazy Good Man by mzeefitz(m): 6:26am On Mar 22, 2020
Shugavee:
There is absolutely nothing like a broke / lazy good man. You can never know the real him till he has some money. You can never know if he’s faithful, except he got money in his pocket!!

So ladies, don’t waste your time, if he doesn’t have a source of income, he is a waste. Always remember that your time and attention is an investment, don’t waste it on some dude who got just sex to offer. Don’t let people single shame you that you go for anything and don’t ever agree that you can only offer sex. They know you have a lot to offer.

YOU ARE A WOMAN!!
Re: There Is Nothing Like A Broke, Lazy Good Man by franchasng: 6:27am On Mar 22, 2020
Coolcalmcollect:
lol you never meet rich bad guy wey go break your heart almost commit suicide, yall think rich guys are fools born to spend money on anything with breast.....lol e go shock una. well i was broke and i was more a player dan now dat ive got little to spread around.
the op is know that rich guys is very bad guys, they is have too plenty girlfriends everywhere, but she are saying that is it better ladies is dating rich bad guys than is it dating broke guys forms good guys since because they is broke.


She correct, letting us talks truth angry

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Re: There Is Nothing Like A Broke, Lazy Good Man by Yoighaman(m): 6:28am On Mar 22, 2020
isthatso:


A broke good man is only a fallacy to a woman who was never on his level. I.e your theory only applies if the man was never on your level in the 1st place and you could only catch him because he was broke and facing hard times then yes when he overcomes that he likely will leave you but if you are on the same level or you are a higher level than him, he wont leave.

Ajegunle girl dates broke Ikoyi man, broke Ikoyi man sorts himself out and dumps Ajegunle girl because you were never on the same level.

Ikoyi girl dates broke Ajegunle man, he aint going nowhere broke or rich because he can never do better than you and you were there when he was broke!


Most men value women who were there in hard times and dont joke with them so if you stand by a man when he is broke and he leaves you after he makes it, then it is likely because you were never on his level socially and he was only managing you through hard times so take a good look at your levels before you date a broke man. Ask yourself, money aside am I on his level, would this man date me if he wasn't broke?

For many of the women with your mindset, the real problem is they are not attractive to men as life partners except as a pitstop in hard times. Look inwards and resolve the issues in your life/attitude that make you unattractive to men who are doing ok instead of blaming men. harsh but true!!!

Well said.
Re: There Is Nothing Like A Broke, Lazy Good Man by franchasng: 6:35am On Mar 22, 2020
Shugavee:
brokenness kinda does o !! Not all tho ,, but if he cheats small ,, it gets super worse when money comes,, n if he didn’t at all ,, he would start it when he got the money ,, Cause to him he has to enjoy his money ,, but it’s better u met a guy that’s doing well for himself that doesn’t cheat !! U are more sure of his person . Than a broke guy .
no financially buoyant guy remains faithful to one girlfriend during dating, don't be fooled! He has other chicks he's seeing that you don't know, don't argue it cool. I agree with you in your initial post but here u are wrong.


The only faithful guy in a relationship is the one you have never caught!

Some self righteous guys will come blabbing that I am lying, how they are different bla bla bla, I know their types

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Re: There Is Nothing Like A Broke, Lazy Good Man by emmaodet: 6:39am On Mar 22, 2020
Shugavee:
broke meaning someone who can’t take care of himself properly Moreless a woman . Every woman hv her preferences,, base on her level .

Based on her LEVEL - who values this level? Because ladies just waking up one day and putting a price tag and value on themselves will not be taken serious.
Anybody can wake up and say this is my level and taste but the True Valuers are the buyers or men.
If i meet a lady, within 5 minutes of our conversation, i would have sized her up and know her true value.
Just like the way people fill loan form and start inflating their properties to get good loan but the bank will value it and bring it down to it's real value.
Also, never trust the love and care of a broke lady.
We have seen several cases of abroad guys coming home to pick wives just for them to get there and start showing their true colors after been empowered.
Likewise ladies been sponsored to schools and the ones placed on monthly allowances just for them to graduate or get a job then they realises the man is not educated, poor or not on their level,
Sis, abeg park one side.

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Re: There Is Nothing Like A Broke, Lazy Good Man by franchasng: 6:40am On Mar 22, 2020
isthatso:


A broke good man is only a fallacy to a woman who was never on his level. I.e your theory only applies if the man was never on your level in the 1st place and you could only catch him because he was broke and facing hard times then yes when he overcomes that he likely will leave you but if you are on the same level or you are a higher level than him, he wont leave.

Ajegunle girl dates broke Ikoyi man, broke Ikoyi man sorts himself out and dumps Ajegunle girl because you were never on the same level.

Ikoyi girl dates broke Ajegunle man, he aint going nowhere broke or rich because he can never do better than you and you were there when he was broke!


Most men value women who were there in hard times and dont joke with them so if you stand by a man when he is broke and he leaves you after he makes it, then it is likely because you were never on his level socially and he was only managing you through hard times so take a good look at your levels before you date a broke man. Ask yourself, money aside am I on his level, would this man date me if he wasn't broke?

For many of the women with your mindset, the real problem is they are not attractive to men as life partners except as a pitstop in hard times. Look inwards and resolve the issues in your life/attitude that make you unattractive to men who are doing ok instead of blaming men. harsh but true!!!
This person is talk truth more than my good brother lefulefu grin


Isthatso, you is finish talk, I will taking you to Italy to shaking hands with Pope, you is wiser than king Nebuka cool

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Re: There Is Nothing Like A Broke, Lazy Good Man by emilfischer(m): 6:47am On Mar 22, 2020
Fallacy of generalization everywhere.

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Re: There Is Nothing Like A Broke, Lazy Good Man by OrthoDude: 6:50am On Mar 22, 2020
Coolcalmcollect:

who asked you to believe me, what's my own. broke or not a nigger must play games. you don't need money to unpant a lady.

My guy, correct your grammar, it is de-pant not unpant ���.
Re: There Is Nothing Like A Broke, Lazy Good Man by LabDNA: 6:52am On Mar 22, 2020
lefulefu:
i think what is worse is if a young man is broke and ambitionless.if he is broke and he is focused that is not too bad.most guys who are doing well for themselves already have girlfriends or fiancees they started with together.would be difficult for you to just see a young man doing well for himself and he will say he has no girlfriend.probably such a guy is just telling you a lie.

Actually there are many guys doing well for themselves without girlfriends.

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Re: There Is Nothing Like A Broke, Lazy Good Man by Obipat(m): 6:54am On Mar 22, 2020
Shugavee:
majority of men on nairaland r broke !! I don’t believe you
Do you have money? You are looking for a rich guy. Are you not ashamed of yourself?

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Re: There Is Nothing Like A Broke, Lazy Good Man by ola9ja(m): 6:57am On Mar 22, 2020
In the mind of most girls , I'm balling with big rich guys, but for the big rich guys their mind you be ASHAWO (Prostitute).

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Re: There Is Nothing Like A Broke, Lazy Good Man by Alaganature(m): 6:58am On Mar 22, 2020
You brain needs to be formated...is your dad that rich when your mom dated him before getting married to him? always think before brainwashing people on this platform...

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Re: There Is Nothing Like A Broke, Lazy Good Man by authenticman(m): 6:58am On Mar 22, 2020
Shugavee:
There is absolutely nothing like a broke / lazy good man. You can never know the real him till he has some money. You can never know if he’s faithful, except he got money in his pocket!!

So ladies, don’t waste your time, if he doesn’t have a source of income, he is a waste. Always remember that your time and attention is an investment, don’t waste it on some dude who got just sex to offer. Don’t let people single shame you that you go for anything and don’t ever agree that you can only offer sex. They know you have a lot to offer.

YOU ARE A WOMAN!!

Just time and attention is all you bring to the relationship? Nigerian ladies and their poverty mentality!

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Re: There Is Nothing Like A Broke, Lazy Good Man by starpower(m): 7:00am On Mar 22, 2020
Coolcalmcollect:
lol you never meet rich bad guy wey go break your heart almost commit suicide, yall think rick guys are fools born to spend money on anything with breast.....lol e go shock una. well i was broke and i was more a player dan now dat ive got little to spread around.
With money comes caution.
Re: There Is Nothing Like A Broke, Lazy Good Man by DenreleDave(m): 7:00am On Mar 22, 2020
CharlesCLloyd:



F*ck I luv this babe.... I luv you babe. You just burst my head. Chaii

grin
Re: There Is Nothing Like A Broke, Lazy Good Man by starpower(m): 7:02am On Mar 22, 2020
LabDNA:


Actually there are many guys doing well for themselves without girlfriends.
I don't have girlfriend. Am 27 not doing bad too, what we want is scare sometimes.

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Re: There Is Nothing Like A Broke, Lazy Good Man by aminusodiq(m): 7:02am On Mar 22, 2020
Coolcalmcollect:

who asked you to believe me, what's my own. broke or not a nigger must play games. you don't need money to unpant a lady.
lol... Dah part got me... "Unpant" grin cheesy

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Re: There Is Nothing Like A Broke, Lazy Good Man by Nobody: 7:02am On Mar 22, 2020
Shugavee:
majority of men on nairaland r broke !! I don’t believe you

Any guy who comments on Nairaland is not busy.

You are right..
Re: There Is Nothing Like A Broke, Lazy Good Man by franchasng: 7:04am On Mar 22, 2020
emmaodet:


Based on her LEVEL - who values this level? Because ladies just waking up one day and putting a price tag and value on themselves will not be taken serious.
Anybody can wake up and say this is my level and taste but the True Valuers are the buyers or men.
If i meet a lady, within 5 minutes of our conversation, i would have sized her up and know her true value.
Just like the way people fill loan form and start inflating their properties to get good loan but the bank will value it and bring it down to it's real value.
Also, never trust the love and care of a broke lady.
We have seen several cases of abroad guys coming home to pick wives just for them to get there and start showing their true colors after been empowered.
Likewise ladies been sponsored to schools and the ones placed on monthly allowances just for them to graduate or get a job then they realises the man is not educated, poor or not on their level,
Sis, abeg park one side.
Another of my correct brother who writes intelligently.



My advice to single ladies is to try and develop yourself, build your own worth, be a lady of value, don't just have your hot body alone to offer, though you can still be lucky to get a rich guy that is only looking for a hot body to marry, he may not need any other quality from a lady except sexy body, but the chances today is very slim with social media and Internet exposure that have laid bare the once secret things of life.


I am talking as a one time ladies' dream guy who is now happily married shocked cheesy


When I was single, initially things were not that smooth with me, I struggled for like 2 - 3 years after NYSC. I knew my wife back then as a friend, but what made me cherish her was that despite me struggling financially back then, she allowed me to kiss her like twice grin and as a broke guy I was then, I didn't want to be committed to any lady cos I know in my heart that I cannot be reliable as a broke guy who doesn't even know his future cheesy

I liked her but I intentionally kept her as a friend, she was the one that do most of the calling and messaging then, while I dodged because I didn't want to disappoint her knowing I was broke and unreliable, but deep down my heart she was my desired lady I wished to be with but fear of my own future kept me playing not too interested angry


Back to my advice to single ladies....

Develop yourself, don't wait for any man. Even the abroad guys, of course 98% of my friends are abroad based, so I know what abroad based guys want from ladies, they look out for something in a Nigerian based lady before they would agree to marry her; most want a nurse (Bsc or at worst nursing school), especially the ones living in US, UK, Canada. European based guys mostly want a Naija chick with EU citizenship, or a very hot looking, local breed chick to remain in Nigeria and bear kids for them in Naija while they hustle in Europe alone.

Asian based guys just want show off chick, no direction lol.

Learned Nigerian guys based abroad who are educated professionals want a cool headed professional lady doing well for herself too.


Only the uneducated guys who made money through trading and other human activities marry anyhow today, they just marry any lady that tickles their fancy,no standard.

So as a single lady, if you want an educated man doing well financially as a husband, you must build yourself up to a standard, God's grace can surpass standard sometimes when God wants to work for you anyway.

When I wanted to settle down, I was a bit confused cos I had plenty chicks to pick from, don't be fooled every financially successful guy have long list of ladies to select a wife from, so I looked at some qualities I wanted and my wife and 2 other ladies topped my list.


They were all professional ladies doing well in their fields, aside being cool headed and coming from responsible, well to do families.


So ladies develop yourself please. Rich guys are not looking for rich ladies but they want a lady of substance, a well trained lady from rich family background or one from a good family background also forging well in her chosen career or business or trade.

Cc: Shugavee

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Re: There Is Nothing Like A Broke, Lazy Good Man by BadBradley: 7:06am On Mar 22, 2020
Shugavee:
many guys pretend to be responsible just to hv you!! Because they know getting a clean pussy n a swt woman ain’t cheap!! So they would deceive you!!! When they hv the money to get any woman they want !! They change .
speaking from experience. I see.

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Re: There Is Nothing Like A Broke, Lazy Good Man by BadBradley: 7:08am On Mar 22, 2020
Shugavee:
a broke dude will hide it , till he has money heard of many stories !! Guys r natural liars n decievers
now it's laid bare: man hater. Must be a very sad experience. Your disillusionment is groundbreaking grin
Re: There Is Nothing Like A Broke, Lazy Good Man by LabDNA: 7:08am On Mar 22, 2020
starpower:

I don't have girlfriend. Am 27 not doing bad too, what we want is scare sometimes.

Yea, that's the absolute truth. As you go up higher financially and intellectually, the kind of woman you want is no longer just the regular girl.

I'm a young guy with a thriving business and a Doctorate, and I find it difficult to find the kind of girl I can resonate with.

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Re: There Is Nothing Like A Broke, Lazy Good Man by Nobody: 7:10am On Mar 22, 2020
Shugavee:
majority of men on nairaland r broke !! I don’t believe you

True..

Thesame with women.

All women using Nairaland are broke.

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Re: There Is Nothing Like A Broke, Lazy Good Man by Nobody: 7:11am On Mar 22, 2020
Shugavee:
There is absolutely nothing like a broke / lazy good man. You can never know the real him till he has some money. You can never know if he’s faithful, except he got money in his pocket!!

So ladies, don’t waste your time, if he doesn’t have a source of income, he is a waste. Always remember that your time and attention is an investment, don’t waste it on some dude who got just sex to offer. Don’t let people single shame you that you go for anything and don’t ever agree that you can only offer sex. They know you have a lot to offer.

YOU ARE A WOMAN!!
likewise u girls.. what do broke lazy girls have to offer, their pvvsy.. for a bottle of chilled coke and indomie. Expecting their hardworking boyfriends to foot their bill, while they go bout cheating!

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Re: There Is Nothing Like A Broke, Lazy Good Man by JayPeeOham: 7:11am On Mar 22, 2020
Shugavee:
There is absolutely nothing like a broke / lazy good man. You can never know the real him till he has some money. You can never know if he’s faithful, except he got money in his pocket!!

So ladies, don’t waste your time, if he doesn’t have a source of income, he is a waste. Always remember that your time and attention is an investment, don’t waste it on some dude who got just sex to offer. Don’t let people single shame you that you go for anything and don’t ever agree that you can only offer sex. They know you have a lot to offer.

YOU ARE A WOMAN!!

There's more to this than you are telling us... lipsrsealed











Just open up and tell us what the real issue is and stop the hasty generalization.... undecided
Re: There Is Nothing Like A Broke, Lazy Good Man by nelklyn(m): 7:12am On Mar 22, 2020
Shugavee:
There is absolutely nothing like a broke / lazy good man. You can never know the real him till he has some money. You can never know if he’s faithful, except he got money in his pocket!!

So ladies, don’t waste your time, if he doesn’t have a source of income, he is a waste. Always remember that your time and attention is an investment, don’t waste it on some dude who got just sex to offer. Don’t let people single shame you that you go for anything and don’t ever agree that you can only offer sex. They know you have a lot to offer.

YOU ARE A WOMAN!!

WTF! Guys you heard it...please negotiate and pay for the time and attention given because it's an investment undecided

while at it, wash your damn! hands and as always stay safe!!!

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Re: There Is Nothing Like A Broke, Lazy Good Man by bigiyaro(m): 7:13am On Mar 22, 2020
guys don't need money to cheat jare, back in the days, I gat up to 4 girls, all out doing themselves to feed and cloth me, I was dead broke then.

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