Hello ladies,

This may not be your first time of reading or hearing about all I am about to write but it would do you no harm to add to your already acquired knowledge.

Experience they say is the best teach but it's best you learn from others and then make your mistakes.
Life itself should be enjoyed and not endured but that isn't a good enough reason to loose all your self respect especially over little things.

1. Be Valuable
Knowing your worth is one of the best ways to boost your confidence. It's ok to be playful, accommodating and free but never underestimate your worth in other to be relevant or noticed. Rather worry about the latest trend, improve yourself intellectually. Think outside the box .

2. Own your own money one of the easiest way to loose value is dependence. It doesn't matter how beautiful or intelligent you are, you need to be financially buoyant to earn the respect of others. Money they say is the root of all evil but it is also a key to many doors. Do not become a slave to yourself or anyone over money you can make yourself.

3. Be faithful Being able to keep your word as your bond is an act of great discipline. Faithfulness is not only in the area of relationships. Be faithful in your work, your study even your hustle. The trust is nothing gives more self respect than knowing your word is your bond and no one can make you loose yourself when you are faithful to what you believe.

4.. Be humble Humility pays. There's a difference between humility and stupidity. Don't be stupid, be humble. Humble enough to stand for something, humble enough to know how important "I am sorry" is. Don't let your anxiety or over zealousness take your humility from you.


5. Be a lady Many would wonder what exactly I mean by this. If you must gain respect and not loose yourself you have to be you. Not a man, not a boss, not a dictator....NO! Be gentle, be calm, be observant, be good and mostly be caring.


Once you loose your self respect, you loose what make you.

They won't learn

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