hi nairalanders,well this is my first of posting here though have always been here as a guest and also as a member i just want you guys to u
just enlighten me on how well or possible can a relationship that both partners lives very close to each other work well cos it's something i keep thinking on how it could work cos it's something happening to me am having a serious crush on a girl
though the girl also like me and shows some signs of attraction, but the problem is that we are living close to each other so i don't know how best the relationship could work, cos i am a very shy type somehow an introvert and also still a student.

pls your opinion is highly needed
mods fp pls

dannyoz:
hi nairalanders,well this is my first of posting here though have always been here as a guest and also as a member i just want you guys to u
just enlighten me on how well or possible can a relationship that both partners lives very close to each other work well cos it's something i keep thinking on how it could work cos it's something happening to me am having a serious crush on a girl
though the girl also like me and shows some signs of attraction, but the problem is that we are living close to each other so i don't know how best the relationship could work, cos i am a very shy type somehow an introvert and also still a student.

pls your opinion is highly needed
mods fp pls

lol.. wetin concern close to each other with being shy and and been introvert. Baba, go read your book and stop calling lala

It depends on the girl, is she the clingy, jealous type?

The monitoring spirit type wey no go dey give person space.

as an introvert and student, you need space to do your thing without always having somebody on your shoulders.

It can work, depending on the both of you.

Akinowon123:
lol.. wetin concern close to each other with being shy and and been introvert. Baba, go read your book and stop calling lala

why i said that is because i don't always like always moving with ladies so well that why i don't have so much ladies as friends and also the house i live is just full of gossipers and i know wat am saying just give any advice on it can work

you plan on cheating or double dating? living close to each other means you have to make use of hotel rooms for other adventures

tidalstorm:
It depends on the girl, is she the clingy, jealous type?

The monitoring spirit type wey no go dey give person space.

as an introvert and student, you need space to do your thing without always having somebody on your shoulders.

It can work, depending on the both of you.

not that jealous but not that exposed but you know and friends are taking her through that process
is it that we just live and date as if we just normal friends because i don't show off same is the girl but those wey we dey live sef na one problem we never date they don suspect and to. much gossip

Lostz:
you plan on cheating or double dating? living close to each other means you have to make use of hotel rooms for other adventures

lolz bro i just don't enough time for a girl not to talk of many to the extent of double dating or cheating it's just because of what i feel for the girl infact her name makes happy

dannyoz:

lolz bro i just don't enough time for a girl not to talk of many to the extent of double dating or cheating it's just because of what i feel for the girl infact her name makes happy

then you don't have anything to fear. you may end up being bored of seeing her all time. make sure she is not the dumb type Sha

Face your studies.
That is how you go bringing problem to yourself and then later start complaining how you saw her in a boys corror with another guy and now it affecting you, you can no longer focus and your GP is dropping, bla bla bla....


Face your studies.

Lostz:
then you don't have anything to fear. you may end up being bored of seeing her all time. make sure she is not the dumb type Sha

okk bro she's just beginning to get exposed by her friends but not dumb

dannyoz:


okk bro she's just beginning to get exposed by her friends but not dumb

I didn't mean not exposed. I mean unintelligent " those who can't think or make decisions for themselves"

AshiraWealthy:
Face your studies.
That is how you go bringing problem to yourself and then later start complaining how you saw her in a boys corror with another guy and now it affecting you, you can no longer focus and your GP is dropping, bla bla bla....


Face your studies.

you didn't have a boyfriend in school?

AshiraWealthy:
Face your studies.
That is how you go bringing problem to yourself and then later start complaining how you saw her in a boys corror with another guy and now it affecting you, you can no longer focus and your GP is dropping, bla bla bla....


Face your studies.

thanks but a girl will never make me lose focus though i might jealous about it for a while but i will surely get over it it's how easy i open my heart thats how easy i lock it very hard no time for rubbish but we should i wouldn't marry book in the future
i can only get to know about her know and if she's serious we take it up

Lostz:
you didn't have a boyfriend in school?

Never.
Ive always believed there's time for everything and people should learn to set their priorities right.

dannyoz:


thanks but a girl will never make me lose focus though i might jealous about it for a while but i will surely get over it it's how easy i open my heart thats how easy i lock it very hard no time for rubbish but we should i wouldn't marry book in the future
i can only get to know about her know and if she's serious we take it up

Ive heard you but do not say I didn't warn you.

[quote author=AshiraWealthy post=86776979]
Ive heard you but do not say I didn't warn you.[/quote
ok thank you

AshiraWealthy:


Never.
Ive always believed there's time for everything and people should learn to set their priorities right.

he is allowed to date as an adult. I started being friend with the opposite sex right from jss 1

op there are no rules to love follow your heart.

bigpriik:
op there are no rules to love follow your heart.

thanks bro

Lostz:

he is allowed to date as an adult. I started being friend with the opposite sex right from jss 1

Ok. All I know is its a big distraction for now. Just that a lot of things have changed overtime and the wrong things seems to be taking a lead in our society today. Like how youll advise a student to date instead of focusing on his studies is... Anyways. His life, not mine.

AshiraWealthy:


Ok. All I know is its a big distraction for now. Just that a lot of things have changed overtime and the wrong things seems to be taking a lead in our society today. Like how youll advise a student to date instead of focusing in his studies is... Anyways. His life, not mine.

dating is also part of studies na. you want him to be naive later in life when he start searching for a wife?

there is enough time to love and study

AshiraWealthy:


Ok. All I know is its a big distraction for now. Just that a lot of things have changed overtime and the wrong things seems to be taking a lead in our society today. Like how youll advise a student to date instead of focusing on his studies is... Anyways. His life, not mine.

it's not dat I'll be neglecting my studies for relationship. it's just depends on how every individual plans his or her life everything in this life works together

dannyoz:


it's not dat I'll be neglecting my studies for relationship. it's just depends on how every individual plans his or her life everything in this life works together

You won't even know when you start doing so. It happens unconsciously and before you know it, you're already far gone.

Mr., Suite yourself

AshiraWealthy:


You won't even know when you start doing so. It happens unconsciously and before you know it, you're already far gone.

Mr., Suite yourself

it's ok sis thanks for your advice i appreciate you too

dannyoz:


it's ok sis thanks for your advice i appreciate you too

You're welcome.

When u are ready to settle down, we can re-visit this thread. For now face your studies.

Op follow your heart, whether you guys are close or far away from each other RELATIONSHIP WEY GO CAST GO STILL CAST. As for all these SPECIAL ADVISERS wey dey advise am to face his studies, most of you found your first love @ 16,17 and Op never stated his age

It will end in tears ��

My boyfriend lives 5 blocks away from me... If you love and truss each other, there shouldn't be any problem...

AshiraWealthy:


Never.
Ive always believed there's time for everything and people should learn to set their priorities right.

Different strokes for different folks

Peemonny:
It will end in tears ��

how pls