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What Would You Do If You Discover You Married A Gay? by EFCC1(m): 5:22pm On Dec 18, 2010 |
i just got this from vanguard newspaper and decided to share it, and as well get your view on the subject matter Lola was a devoted Christian girl. While she was in the university her principle was so obvious by the opposite sex, that none of them dare near her because of her practice. This went on until she met Sammy who proved to be different because he did not worry her about sex. Sammy claimed love making should be consummated between husband and wife after their wedding. So they dated and courted until they finally got married.http://www.vanguardngr.com/2010/12/what-would-you-do-if-you-discover-you-married-a-gay/
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Re: What Would You Do If You Discover You Married A Gay? by EFCC1(m): 5:31pm On Dec 18, 2010 |
here are some reader's comment:- Most of our problems in Nigeria are not being solved because we refuse to do our own work as humans, rather we push all the work to God. Let's be frank about this, God is our father, we all know that but what is the use of our independent brain/mind if we leave all issues for God to solve? The corruptions in our society, Look at the level of wrong leadership in almost every aspect of our society and non of us thinks we can do anything, We don't hold any body accountable for anything in Nigeria, We all wait for God. Our legislators has agreed to cut down their thieving expenditures, yes' i know,( it will just come out from one pocket and enter another) but the most important thing is that a step has been taken, If Salisu was an ''ass-kisser' like the financial minister, do you think anything would have done?. We have to learn how to reject and fight evil, ''Call a spade a spade'' If you discover that your man is a gay, Don't leave it for God to decide because he will not do anything about it, He has giving you all the powers, knowledge and Reasoning to know what you want and decide how to get it. When you encounter a problem use your brain, Consult experts if need be then make decision. If i find my self in such position, as one of the celebrities said. First, find out what lead to him being who he has become, A lot of circumstances could lured a young man into such life, Is it stoppable? If not, Can i leave with it? If i can't, i will walk away, simple. All the "celebrities" that have the mind to walk away are living as single parents today and many cannot settle down. The essence of taking problems to God is not because we are "brainless" or too "brainy" but that recourse to a higher spiritual being will provide some psychological solutions. Take for instance, in my culture, you cannot sleep with a married woman or a fellow man because it is forbidden. When we remind people what spiritual norms say, we are pricking their conscience. The arms of flesh will always fail and telling God to solve the problem of gay is not out of place. Homosexuality is demonic and devilish. Homosexuals deserves to be killed as their demonic act is animalistic, anti-procreation and Ungodly. If their father had practices that devilish act, would they have been born into this world? Homosexuals are plague to humanity and they should be treated as plague by killing them before they contaminate human race. TO OMON, THE THING THAT INTERESTS GOD IN THIS MARRIAGE IS WHAT CHRIST SAID IN MATHEW 19 AND ST PAUL CONFIRMED IT IN EPHESIANS: "MARRIAGE IS NOT FOR ALL". KNOW YOU THAT HOMOSEXUALITY THAT DEVELOPS TO THAT AGE IS HARD TO CURE. IT IS EASIER TO RECOVER AN UNFAITHFUL MAN WHO GOES AFTER OTHER WOMEN, THAN A HOMOSEXUAL. IN THIS CASE, THE MARRIAGE CONTRACT CAME UNDER DECEIPT AND AGAINST ONE OF THE ESSENTIAL ELEMENTS OF MARRIAGE: WHICH IS CONGIUGAL UNION, FINALIZED TOWARDS PROCREATION (WHICH IS A DIVINE MANDATE). SO, INVOLVING GOD MEANS TO SAY THAT GOD IS RESPONSIBLE. IT IS NOT TRUE. KNOW YOU THAT HOMOSEXUAITY IS A PSYCHOLOGICAL SICKNESS THAT IS LINKED TO EDUCATION AND MENTALITY. IF NOT CURED IN THE EARLY STAGE, IT BECOMES HARD. IT IS NOT JUST A MALARIA THAT CAN BE CURED WITH MEDICINE. (READ MY OTHER COMMENT ON THIS ARTICLE FOR MORE CLARIFICATION). If I were to be asked to define marriage. I will define it as 'Marriage is Marriage'. The reason to my mind is that Marriage is one thing that is contracted unconditionally. An ordinary relationship could come with conditions but Marriage does not come with any condition. If it does ,then, it is a mere relationship. In the mathematics of marriage, one plus one is equals to one. But in other relationships one plus one is equal to two. If you marry a gay and you do not like it , change the gay. for more comment visit the link above
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Re: What Would You Do If You Discover You Married A Gay? by damilolami(f): 11:58am On Sep 21, 2011 |
Once a gay, always a gay. I will walk immediately. |
Re: What Would You Do If You Discover You Married A Gay? by ronkebp(f): 7:41pm On Sep 21, 2011 |
DIVORCE, Straight ooooo, no joke!!! |
Re: What Would You Do If You Discover You Married A Gay? by Johndoe100(m): 10:12am On Sep 22, 2011 |
To all those little girls who say they will walk, do you think that it is that easy? The semi pro's that say they will walk, I can understand. The truth is anyone that marries these kind of females should never take the union seriously. |
Re: What Would You Do If You Discover You Married A Gay? by ronkebp(f): 2:25pm On Sep 22, 2011 |
Johndoe100: And what is so difficult about leaving someone that has decided to be 'shooking' a man? what kind of girls are you talking about? just because this generation have decided to take their lives into their own hands as opposed to that of the husband's hands, does not mean they are little and not wife materials. You need to wake up and change with time. |
Re: What Would You Do If You Discover You Married A Gay? by Nobody: 8:00am On Sep 27, 2011 |
@Op, Too Funny when u hear that ya partner is cheating on U then u get to the Scene just to see that he/she is doing it with a fellow of thisame Sex Disgusting really! From a contradictory perspective, this is one of many reasons why we should get ourselves involved in the person we tend to marry not really courtship but a kinda Secluded Surviellance into the prospective mate's life - Get to know him berra than he thinks, know where he/she goes and those he/she mingles with, then hopefully reports of this kinda wont surface again |
Re: What Would You Do If You Discover You Married A Gay? by obowunmi(m): 1:33pm On Sep 27, 2011 |
Let them be happy and be with the man. |
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