Olamsoh:
I asked a girl out sometimes ago and she said No, I moved on quickly. 3 months later she started hitting me up on whatsapp with some amorous texts. So I asked her "What's this about? When did I become your baby"? Please address me as Jide, I'm not your baby. She replied.. Haa?

Are we fighting? Cos I don't understand why you're being hostile towards me. I was like.. Shoo, Arabinrin, how does that translates to hostility? She said well, baby is a term used for someone you're emotionally involved with..hehehe! At that minute, I started having goosebumps.

Me: Wait, you're emotionally involved with me?
Labake: Yes Jide, I was shocked... Shush.. I cut in "how can you be emotionally involved with me without my knowledge? Then she continued.. I was shocked you didn't press further after I said" No" when you asked me out.

So, she threw the question to me : Why didn't you hang around?
Why didn't you try harder? "I had three guys asking me out then and you were my favorite but you just didn't show me you really wanted me".
Lmao, Aradugbo egba mio .. What is wrong with women?

For me I think women who do stuff like this are the ones who see themselves as a kind of prize to be won & honestly that's objectification as far as I'm concerned. Such a woman has a low self esteem and believes that healthy relationships can be built on lying& manipulation.

kestolove95:
No time to form hard to get now o, guys no get time to waste on u wen girls yakpa for area single

sinebaba:
The real question is why did you ask her out? If you really need her she available go for it check her out if the pass the trial marry her

Blu03:

She's just lonely. I doubt if she has low self_esteem or is proud...
She wants the company/attention of a guy and probably remembered her old friend Jide.

essentiall:
As a guy, let your main focus be all about making money and acquiring properties. Do not waste your time on a lady that says she is not ready for a relationship or a lady that is telling you that she has a boyfriend. Don't be a plan B for anybody in this life.

Serious minded women don't play hard to get. Gone are the days when a lady will be playing hard to get to see if you are serious. Playing hard to get is disrespectful in my opinion. I've never in my whole life dated any lady that played hard to get. I always walk away.

All your focus should be on self improvement both physically and spiritually.