I know y'all must've seen this thread below, where my supposed fiancee painted me black on a public forum

https://www.nairaland.com/5721583/been-him-5-years-no/16#87234266


Dear nairalanders, pls disregard the submissions she made.

She's my supposed fiancee , some of her stories are false or well edited to paint me black.

Here's the truth:

1. She has slept with three of my friends before, though not while I knew her. Conversely , my two friends are her exes and my third friend she supposedly had a one night stand with him. I do love her but my manly ego can't make peace with the above truths hence, my decision to keep the relationship open.

2. She has never spent a dime on me, my manly ego won't even allow me take 2kobo from a lady. Never!

Hmmm

Another fake story from the stables of Liars Association of Nairaland (LAN).

sort yourselves out

nothing wey Musa no go see for gate
Like seriously?

Lol, aren't you turning 40 according to your GF? You should have taken the higher road imo, it shows maturity. This is, after all, someone you claim to love & are planning to be with longterm. But what do I know? The relationship sounds toxic, if one-upping each other is the order of the day. Call it quits or sort out your issues in private.

If Musa done tire to dey see make e move go another gate

Easybela:
nothing wey Musa no go see for gate
Like seriously?

ProfDview:

I know y'all must've seen this thread below, where my supposed fiancee painted me black on a public forum

https://www.nairaland.com/5721583/been-him-5-years-no/16#87234266


Dear nairalanders, pls disregard the submissions she made.

She's my supposed fiancee , some of her stories are false or well edited to paint me black.

Here's the truth:

1. She has slept with three of my friends before, though not while I knew her. Conversely , my two friends are her exes and my third friend she supposedly had a one night stand with him. I do love her but my manly ego can't make peace with the above truths hence, my decision to keep the relationship open.

2. She has never spent a dime on me, my manly ego won't even allow me take 2kobo from a lady. Never!

What exactly are you expecting us to tell you?

ProfDview:

I know y'all must've seen this thread below, where my supposed fiancee painted me black on a public forum

https://www.nairaland.com/5721583/been-him-5-years-no/16#87234266


Dear nairalanders, pls disregard the submissions she made.

She's my supposed fiancee , some of her stories are false or well edited to paint me black.

Here's the truth:

1. She has slept with three of my friends before, though not while I knew her. Conversely , my two friends are her exes and my third friend she supposedly had a one night stand with him. I do love her but my manly ego can't make peace with the above truths hence, my decision to keep the relationship open.

2. She has never spent a dime on me, my manly ego won't even allow me take 2kobo from a lady. Never!

then free her.

Why are you wasting her time and yours

Stop trying to gather pity abeg

ProfDview:

I know y'all must've seen this thread below, where my supposed fiancee painted me black on a public forum

https://www.nairaland.com/5721583/been-him-5-years-no/16#87234266


Dear nairalanders, pls disregard the submissions she made.

She's my supposed fiancee , some of her stories are false or well edited to paint me black.

Here's the truth:

1. She has slept with three of my friends before, though not while I knew her. Conversely , my two friends are her exes and my third friend she supposedly had a one night stand with him. I do love her but my manly ego can't make peace with the above truths hence, my decision to keep the relationship open.

2. She has never spent a dime on me, my manly ego won't even allow me take 2kobo from a lady. Never!

Liar ! .

Oga, She slept with your friends when she wasn't in a relationship with you . Do you know how of her friends you've slept with without knowing ? .

You can't make peace with the idea ? . Are you a virgin ? . You keep numerous girlfriends and you still can't make peace with the idea that she has slept with your friends ? . Hypocrite!

She has never spent a dime on you because according to you , you can't accept a dime from a lady . See Pride !!! .

Please free the young lady .

XhosaNostra:
Lol, aren't you turning 40 according to your GF? You should have taken the higher road imo, it shows maturity. This is, after all, someone you claim to love & are planning to be with longterm. But what do I know? The relationship sounds toxic, if one-upping each other is the order of the day. Call it quits or sort out your issues in private.

You mean he is a midnight newspaper?

A forty year old man should have a child in University these days! That lady had better run while she's got the chance.

Hmm....wonders shall never cease.

Your manly ego cannot let you marry her cos she slept with your friends while you were yet to know each other but her womanly ego did not stop her from hanging on to the relationship after you made her and two other of your girlfriends wear the same ashoebi to your dad's burial and getting mocked in the process? How heartless of you.

Anyways, its not your fault. I blame her for sticking with you knowing fully you don't want her.
Rubbish!

Wetin Bob Risky no go see for police cell

Let me come and be going

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SassyGem101:
Hmm....wonders shall never cease.

Your manly ego cannot let you marry her cos she slept with your friends while you were yet to know each other but her womanly ego did not stop her from hanging on to the relationship after you made her and two other of your girlfriends wear the same ashoebi to your dad's burial and getting mocked in the process? How heartless of you.

Anyways, its not your fault. I blame her for sticking with you knowing fully you don't want her.
Rubbish!

Imagine the cruelty! When will women learn ? Someone did that to her and she still stuck to him? Woman ego? Nah that's woman's stupidity there.

I probably wonder what a woman will be doing with a man for so long with no direction but all manners of maltreatment. The worst thing that can ever happen to any being is being Dependent! You lose your freedom!

Ariza:
Imagine the cruelty! When will women learn ? Someone did that to her and she still stuck to him? Woman ego? Nah that's woman's stupidity there.

I probably wonder what a woman will be doing with a man for so long with no direction but all manners of maltreatment. The worst thing that can ever happen to any being is being Dependent! You lose your freedom!

I'm telling you.

ProfDview:

I know y'all must've seen this thread below, where my supposed fiancee painted me black on a public forum

https://www.nairaland.com/5721583/been-him-5-years-no/16#87234266


Dear nairalanders, pls disregard the submissions she made.

She's my supposed fiancee , some of her stories are false or well edited to paint me black.

Here's the truth:

1. She has slept with three of my friends before, though not while I knew her. Conversely , my two friends are her exes and my third friend she supposedly had a one night stand with him. I do love her but my manly ego can't make peace with the above truths hence, my decision to keep the relationship open.

2. She has never spent a dime on me, my manly ego won't even allow me take 2kobo from a lady. Never!

NL is getting interesting by the day.
Why didn't you end things with her and move on ?is not by force to marry her,but if you don't want to kindly leave her in peace instead of wasting her time



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if u not into her why not let her go? the issue of her sleeping with ur friends is still in ur mind and no matter what she does to try to amend wont clear ur mind so let her go and get another girl.though i will say u trying dating a girl all ur friends have knacked in the past.me i cant involve myself with such a girl.

Michellekabod2:

NL is getting interesting by the day.
Why didn't you end things with her and move on ?is not by force to marry her,but if you don't want to kindly leave her in peace instead of wasting her time



CAPSLOCKED,blu03,lilmissfavvy,pocohantas,Ari za,pansopist,Hahn,Hakeem4,funmisticqueen2 you can't miss this free entertainment

No be here o

Wow! I would have missed this if not for the mention. I had gone through page one only, now let me take time and go through the thread.

Oga sir/Mr. Fiance, you say your lady slept with your friends in the past before you began a relationship with her, so why can't you forgive and forget?

Michellekabod2:

,lilmissfavvy

Lol

It's not your fault Mr. I blame the girl who is disillusioned as to still be with you. Maybe it's ego or pride but I can't be in a place, group or association where I am not the big deal. Yoruba people will say: o jo ra e loju! Yes, That's me! I have a high sense of self worth. How dare you dangle other girls to my face? If you're giving me 100k per day that's the end of the relationship.

You are pained that she's slept with your friends, fine! then free her, let her go. Don't give her a false hope. The way you are carrying, you're never going to marry her. At 27, her biological watch is tipping over.

Then, my lady, if you're reading this, don't wait a moment longer. Pick yourself up and look for a new relationship. And don't be quick to open your legs to every Tom, Dick and Harry. The consequences are not always palatable.

Ariza:
You mean he is a midnight newspaper?

A forty year old man should have a child in University these days! That lady had better run while she's got the chance.

LMFAO

Okay it’s always good to hear both side of the story.

But it would have been better if You had just break up with the lady instead of wasting her time, even though you painted her as a cheat and she painted you as a serial womaniser.

Just break up with the lady if you claim she’s a cheat

You people have turned Nairaland to Relationship Petition Tribunal

XhosaNostra:
Lol, aren't you turning 40 according to your GF? You should have taken the higher road imo, it shows maturity. This is, after all, someone you claim to love & are planning to be with longterm. But what do I know? The relationship sounds toxic, if one-upping each other is the order of the day. Call it quits or sort out your issues in private.

similarities among all girls is that y'all re blessed with fish brain. nothing dey una head aside relaxer.

so wen the girl brought the issue to social media you supported her. did you tell her to sort the issue outside nairaland now he is defending himself you are telling him to sort the issue in private.

fvck y'all ladies. *spits*

hakeem4:
Okay it’s always good to hear both side of the story.

But it would have been better if You had just break up with the lady instead of wasting her time, even though you painted her as a cheat and she painted you as a serial womaniser.

Just break up with the lady if you claim she’s a cheat

Wasting her time kill you dere!

Abi ogun wan kill you why dont she break up with him.

why can't y'all think for once?

placeofallure:
It's not your fault Mr. I blame the girl who is disillusioned as to still be with you. Maybe it's ego or pride but I can't be in a place, group or association where I am not the big deal. Yoruba people will say: o jo ra e loju! Yes, That's me! I have a high sense of self worth. How dare you dangle other girls to my face? If you're giving me 100k per day that's the end of the relationship.

You are pained that she's slept with your friends, fine! then free her, let her go. Don't give her a false hope. The way you are carrying, you're never going to marry her. At 27, her biological watch is tipping over.

Then, my lady, if you're reading this, don't wait a moment longer. Pick yourself up and look for a new relationship. And don't be quick to open your legs to every Tom, Dick and Harry. The consequences are not always palatable.

why can't that girl dump him abi she no sabi end relationship?

Stop saying ur normal "BIOLOGICAL CLOCK" bullsh*t.

Thats why you ladies end up marrying someone that will nearly kill you with beating, den you run to social media and start ranting domestic violence

chinchonglee:

similarities among all girls is that y'all re blessed with fish brain. nothing dey una head aside relaxer.

so wen the girl brought the issue to social media you supported her. did you tell her to sort the issue outside nairaland now he is defending himself you are telling him to sort the issue in private.

fvck y'all ladies. *spits*

The bolded shows you are some uncivilized, uncultured local tout. Little wonder you reason like one!

I'm glad the Lady opened the thread first, else Op would have painted the whole story so nicely and leave his flaws out. May God save us from these midnight newspapers time wasters

Michellekabod2:

NL is getting interesting by the day.
Why didn't you end things with her and move on ?is not by force to marry her,but if you don't want to kindly leave her in peace instead of wasting her time



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chinchonglee:

similarities among all girls is that y'all re blessed with fish brain. nothing dey una head aside relaxer.

so wen the girl brought the issue to social media you supported her. did you tell her to sort the issue outside nairaland now he is defending himself you are telling him to sort the issue in private.

fvck y'all ladies. *spits*

Oh, shut the hell up! I didn't even see the story until he posted the link. Most stories here are one-sided, so it's trickier when both parties are here, but telling different stories. It's her word over his & quite frankly, I'm not arsed about it. He says he loves her, which is why I think it's better for him to take this elsewhere, so they can discuss it between themselves. It's about them! You want him to ruin his relationship, so he can be the sour-faced, Negative Nancy you are sounding like? Misery do love company, they didn't lie.

While at it, fùck you too, A-hole!