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Don't Do These 5 Things For A Woman, No Matter How Much You Love Her by Gjrich(m): 8:42am On Mar 09, 2020
Dear men, no matter how much you love a woman, there are things you should never ever do all in the name of pleasing her.

As a man, you have the responsibility to make your woman happy but there should be a limit. You have an ego to defend as a man and you should not let a woman ruin it or take advantage of you simply because you love her.

Never do these five things to please a woman:

1. Don't Pay her school fees

Unless she is your wife, never pay for a woman’s education. It is okay to help her and support her when she is in school but paying everything for her is a big NO. If you feel compelled to do it however, do not assume that she will forever be indebted to you. People change and she might as well choose to love someone else even after all your effort.

2. Don't Commit a crime for her

If you cannot sustain her flashy lifestyle, do not steal or do something stupid just to please her. If she loves you for real, she will understand when you are broke and will not pressure you to sort out her financial matters.

3. Don't Compromise your needs for her

Unless it’s really necessary, you should be a little bit selfish with yourself. You cannot afford to go hungry so that you can send her money to buy food. You can maybe share the little you have but never sacrifice all you got just to make her happy.

4. Don't Forget your dreams

Before you met her, remember you had your own dreams and aspirations. Do not stop chasing them just because she does not like what you do. If you wanted go study abroad, the last thing you want to do is change your mind because she is not comfortable with it. If she cannot wait, let her be but never stop pursuing your dreams to please a woman.

5. Don't Disrespect your family

Women can be so manipulative especially when they know you love them for sure and you can do anything to have them stay. Some will try to show you how bad your family members are and draw you further from them. If she ever leaves you, the only people you will have behind you is your family. So, never cut your family ties to make her happy.

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Re: Don't Do These 5 Things For A Woman, No Matter How Much You Love Her by CanadaOrBust: 8:43am On Mar 09, 2020
Cool

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Re: Don't Do These 5 Things For A Woman, No Matter How Much You Love Her by Abfinest007(m): 9:08am On Mar 09, 2020
nonsense
Re: Don't Do These 5 Things For A Woman, No Matter How Much You Love Her by nlPoster: 9:09am On Mar 09, 2020
Keep disrespecting nah.
Re: Don't Do These 5 Things For A Woman, No Matter How Much You Love Her by bluefilm: 9:17am On Mar 09, 2020
1. Don't Pay her school fees

If I have the funds and the bitch is very intelligent and she's worth it, nwanne I will CONTINUE to pay for her school fees up to her Master's and even beyond...

2. Don't Commit a crime for her

Of course. She can commit the crime for herself and by herself if she so wishes. I don't give a damn.

3. Don't Compromise your needs for her

I will if it is necessary. Of course, she will do the same for me too...

4. Don't Forget your dreams

I might bring her into my dream/s if she's worth it...

5. Don't Disrespect your family

Of course. Family first...

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Re: Don't Do These 5 Things For A Woman, No Matter How Much You Love Her by Nehyooh(m): 10:46am On Mar 09, 2020
Nice !
Re: Don't Do These 5 Things For A Woman, No Matter How Much You Love Her by excanny: 11:17am On Mar 09, 2020
Include "Rent a house for her or buy a car".
You will think you are being kind but the bitch is seeing you as a fool.

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Re: Don't Do These 5 Things For A Woman, No Matter How Much You Love Her by ruggedtimi(m): 11:32am On Mar 09, 2020
no 1 is the highest "Dont"

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Re: Don't Do These 5 Things For A Woman, No Matter How Much You Love Her by StylishLord(m): 11:43am On Mar 09, 2020
[s]Never do these five things to please a woman:

1. Don't Pay her school fees

Unless she is your wife, never pay for a woman’s education. It is okay to help her and support her when she is in school but paying everything for her is a big NO. If you feel compelled to do it however, do not assume that she will forever be indebted to you. People change and she might as well choose to love someone else even after all your effort.[/s]

my friend almost kill him self bcus of no1. for good four year and now the gal wants to leave him

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Re: Don't Do These 5 Things For A Woman, No Matter How Much You Love Her by Designerdollars: 11:43am On Mar 09, 2020
when you get money, pay your gf school fees you hear grin
No worry, you go learn.
Nah for news we go see your corpse after you commit suicide.
bluefilm:
1. Don't Pay her school fees

If I have the funds and the bitch is very intelligent, I will CONTINUE to pay for her school fees up to her Master's...

2. Don't Commit a crime for her

Of course. She can commit the crime for herself. I don't give a damn.

3. Don't Compromise your needs for her

I will if it is necessary. Of course, she will do the same for me too...

4. Don't Forget your dreams

I might bring her into my dream/s if she's worth it...

5. Don't Disrespect your family

Of course. Family first...

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Re: Don't Do These 5 Things For A Woman, No Matter How Much You Love Her by TonyeBarcanista(m): 11:47am On Mar 09, 2020
That school fees part is where I disagree.

If your girlfriend is financial less privileged and willing to see to her education to completion, pay her fees BUT make sure you are educated yourself and doing better so she doesn't see you lesser than her; women don't value men that they perceive to be superior to.

Also, make arrangement to wed her while in school before her graduation. If she refuses then use your brain grin
Re: Don't Do These 5 Things For A Woman, No Matter How Much You Love Her by Akpaamunsi: 11:48am On Mar 09, 2020
bluefilm:
1. Don't Pay her school fees

[b]If I have the funds and the bitch is very intelligent, I will CONTINUE to pay for her school fees up to her Master's...[/b]


Zombie

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Re: Don't Do These 5 Things For A Woman, No Matter How Much You Love Her by TonyeBarcanista(m): 11:51am On Mar 09, 2020
StylishLord:


my friend almost kill him self bcus of no1. for good four year and now the gal wants to leave him
Many girls have dumped their boyfriends that didn't contribute to their education after their graduation.

However, is your friend financially viable himself? Is he educated? Did he invest on himself? Is he intelligent enough? Does the girl value him enough or she see him as a means to economic empowerment?
Re: Don't Do These 5 Things For A Woman, No Matter How Much You Love Her by chuks34(m): 11:58am On Mar 09, 2020
TonyeBarcanista:

Many girls have dumped their boyfriends that didn't contribute to their education after their graduation.

However, is your friend financially viable himself? Is he educated? Did he invest on himself? Is he intelligent enough? Does the girl value him enough or she see him as a means to economic empowerment?

Is it her boyfriend that bought her jamb form?

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Re: Don't Do These 5 Things For A Woman, No Matter How Much You Love Her by pyro62(m): 12:46pm On Mar 09, 2020
Number 3 shaa.. It's better I'm hungry all day and she has eaten o. I can't even watch bae suffer.
Ramsey Noah understands this

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Re: Don't Do These 5 Things For A Woman, No Matter How Much You Love Her by Nobody: 1:07pm On Mar 09, 2020
ignore op points and live in regret later

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Re: Don't Do These 5 Things For A Woman, No Matter How Much You Love Her by StylishLord(m): 1:10pm On Mar 09, 2020
TonyeBarcanista:

Many girls have dumped their boyfriends that didn't contribute to their education after their graduation.

However, is your friend financially viable himself? Is he educated? Did he invest on himself? Is he intelligent enough? Does the girl value him enough or she see him as a means to economic empowerment?

a marine engineer for that matter, and he has his own workshop and still leaving in a roomself contain. and also speak fluent english, what more does she want again

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Re: Don't Do These 5 Things For A Woman, No Matter How Much You Love Her by TonyeBarcanista(m): 1:25pm On Mar 09, 2020
StylishLord:


a marine engineer for that matter, and he has his own workshop and still leaving in a roomself contain. and also speak fluent english, what more does she want again

Lols bros, the problem is the girl.... See even God created and blessed men yet men still glorify idols and Devil.

BTW is he a masculine male?
Re: Don't Do These 5 Things For A Woman, No Matter How Much You Love Her by TonyeBarcanista(m): 1:29pm On Mar 09, 2020
chuks34:


Is it her boyfriend that bought her jamb form?
If the boyfriend isn't convinced then he shouldn't even go-ahead.

Thing is a useless girl will remain a useless girl. Secondly, men need to maintain themselves to be ahead of their girls at all times.

My advice to guys is that they should MARRY their girlfriends before graduating from school. If your girlfriend refuse, then know that she doesn't see you as Option A. Such girl isn't worth it sef

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Re: Don't Do These 5 Things For A Woman, No Matter How Much You Love Her by StylishLord(m): 2:08pm On Mar 09, 2020
TonyeBarcanista:


Lols bros, the problem is the girl.... See even God created and blessed men yet men still glorify idols and Devil.

BTW is he a masculine male?
no, just normal guy with six paxk
Re: Don't Do These 5 Things For A Woman, No Matter How Much You Love Her by ise82(m): 3:58pm On Mar 09, 2020
I pray men will learn after reading this but some indomie brains won’t. It’s sad!
Re: Don't Do These 5 Things For A Woman, No Matter How Much You Love Her by bluefilm: 5:15pm On Mar 09, 2020
Akpaamunsi:


Zombie

It's not your money, so why not just _fuck off?!!!

Nonsense.

Akpa amu na afo nsi di ka gi.

Zombie gbukwee gi dia.

Onye ara. angry angry angry
Re: Don't Do These 5 Things For A Woman, No Matter How Much You Love Her by bluefilm: 5:24pm On Mar 09, 2020
Designerdollars:
when you get money, pay your gf school fees you hear grin
No worry, you go learn.
Nah for news we go see your corpse after you commit suicide.

Nwoke m, mechie gi onu osiso.

Why not pray that baba God will bless you with so much money so that you can touch the lives of others positively.

People train people whom they don't even know or have any relationship or connection with, in school and you are even talking of girlfriend.

Just so you know, my cousin trained his girlfriend through her school. Today, they are married with two kids. He did not commit any suicide. He did not become shorter in height after training the girl.

You don't have to close your heart in helping the less privileged.

The fact that some people had bad experiences while trying to help others doesn't mean that the same fate will befall you, okay?
Re: Don't Do These 5 Things For A Woman, No Matter How Much You Love Her by cyprus000: 5:27pm On Mar 09, 2020
The one I've the least patience for is coming between me and my family. I'm my family and my family is me, if you can't accommodate them, then take several seat backward and let me not see your repulsive face ever again.

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Re: Don't Do These 5 Things For A Woman, No Matter How Much You Love Her by Nobody: 5:52pm On Mar 09, 2020
bluefilm:


Nwoke m, mechie gi onu osiso.

Why not pray that baba God will bless you with so much money so that you can touch the lives of others positively.

People train people whom they don't even know or have any relationship or connection with, in school and you are even talking of girlfriend.

Just so you know, my cousin trained his girlfriend through her school. Today, they are married with two kids. He did not commit any suicide. He did not become shorter in height after training the girl.

You don't have to close your heart in helping the less privileged.

The fact that some people had bad experiences while trying to help others doesn't mean that the same fate will befall you, okay?


what about if the girl left him?
will you be saying this
Re: Don't Do These 5 Things For A Woman, No Matter How Much You Love Her by bluefilm: 6:09pm On Mar 09, 2020
Samuelite:

what about if the girl left him?
will you be saying this

But she didn't.

That's the fact.

But even if she did leave him, and so what?

Is she the only bitch in the world?

No.

Well sha, I understand why most of you have this terrible mindset of not wanting to lose at all.

You guys are so emotionally attached to the outcome of your dealings such that if the outcome doesn't go your way, you may start contemplating suicide!

But for master gamblers like me, take it from me, losing is part of the fun.

We are no longer afraid of losing. Losing makes us develop this internal shock absorbing capability and mentality that is indescribable to an outsider or a neophyte.

That is why I will not bat an eyelid if I trained my girlfriend in school and she ends up leaving me for another person.

I'd simply cut my losses and move on with my life.

Like my man 50 Cent will say, bitches they come and they go!

So why the _fuck should I kill myself over one bitch that decided to split ways with me?!

See lemme tell you, if the girl you trained in school end up leaving you, I won't even blame her.

You wanna know why?

Of course, what arrangements did you have with the girl in the first place?

Did you at any point in the relationship tell her you want to marry her which is why you are 'investing' in her or you were thinking she is supposed to know that by intuition? Did you sign any marriage agreement with her? So why are you farting from your mouth now that she left you?

One thing I've learnt in this life is: Never Expect Anything From People.

That way, I am so _fucking protected from the disappointment that might result in dealing with certain persons.

Again, it is the experienced gamblers mentality.

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Re: Don't Do These 5 Things For A Woman, No Matter How Much You Love Her by TonyeBarcanista(m): 6:47pm On Mar 09, 2020
StylishLord:

no, just normal guy with six paxk
My brother, forget six packs. They always attract girls but they don't keep girls.

If I am to advice your guy I'll tell him to take a break from the girl and watch. If she goes to another guy he should count his loss and move on but learn from his mistakes.

See, there is nothing bad in training a girlfriend in school but it should never be at the expense of your own development.

Also I usually advice that the guy marry her before she graduates rather than wait till after graduation.

I also advice that the girl in question should not be in a school distant from the guy. This way there is constant contact.
Re: Don't Do These 5 Things For A Woman, No Matter How Much You Love Her by TonyeBarcanista(m): 6:49pm On Mar 09, 2020
cyprus000:
The one I've the least patience for is coming between me and my family. I'm my family and my family is me, if you can't accommodate them, then take several seat backward and let me not see your repulsive face ever again.
Any girl that hinted at you choosing between her and your family is not a wife material
Re: Don't Do These 5 Things For A Woman, No Matter How Much You Love Her by MYSTIC19(m): 7:41pm On Mar 09, 2020
Men dat No1. Sm ladies make it had for guys to assist dem in school issuses. But 4 a guy lyk me it depends on the lady
Re: Don't Do These 5 Things For A Woman, No Matter How Much You Love Her by Yoighaman(m): 8:02pm On Mar 09, 2020
@OP: Nice post.

I like all of them but take particular interest in no. 4.
Re: Don't Do These 5 Things For A Woman, No Matter How Much You Love Her by galadima77(m): 8:07pm On Mar 09, 2020
You'd certainly have yourself to blame na.
Re: Don't Do These 5 Things For A Woman, No Matter How Much You Love Her by Chapter1vs6(m): 8:36pm On Mar 09, 2020
TonyeBarcanista:


Lols bros, the problem is the girl.... See even God created and blessed men yet men still glorify idols and Devil.

BTW is he a masculine male?
masculine female

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