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Wedded Traditionally, Should I Use "Single" Or "Married" To Fill Form? by bobkezel(m): 4:07am On Mar 21, 2020
Good morning guys, I'm confused with something. Does someone that wedded traditionally use "single" or "married" while filling a form or document. For eg, bank form, recruitment or job form, nysc form or any other documents.
Re: Wedded Traditionally, Should I Use "Single" Or "Married" To Fill Form? by jeffizy(m): 4:20am On Mar 21, 2020
Of course, you're married.

I believe a traditional wedding stands recognized in Nigeria.
Re: Wedded Traditionally, Should I Use "Single" Or "Married" To Fill Form? by MANNABBQGRILLS: 4:28am On Mar 21, 2020
Dear OP,
The majority of customary laws represent certain community regulations that have been accepted for generations and thus became an inseparable part of the culture of its members.

There are two kinds of marriages accepted under Nigerian law.
The first one is a wedding performed with the signing of a Marriage Act, and it only allows monogamy.
The second kind is conducted under customary law (Traditional marriage) and can be polygamous as well as monogamous.
The majority of customary laws represent certain community regulations that have been accepted for generations and thus became an inseparable part of the culture of its members.

It is regulated by the Native Law and Custom, making it completely legal in terms of the law in Nigeria.

So, you are good to go.
GOODLUCK!

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Re: Wedded Traditionally, Should I Use "Single" Or "Married" To Fill Form? by pfadom: 4:54am On Mar 21, 2020
Do you think you are single? Man you are married.

1. Was there engagement rites?
2. Did you or your family take some items to your in-law's house?
3. Did you take some pictures at the event as evidence.

You are married jooh!!!
Re: Wedded Traditionally, Should I Use "Single" Or "Married" To Fill Form? by bisi16(m): 5:08am On Mar 21, 2020
Can u present a marriage certificate when required? If not, bros you’re single officially.

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Re: Wedded Traditionally, Should I Use "Single" Or "Married" To Fill Form? by GboyegaD(m): 5:55am On Mar 21, 2020
Can you try formalize it by going to the registry to save yourself more confusions going forward?
Re: Wedded Traditionally, Should I Use "Single" Or "Married" To Fill Form? by sisisioge: 6:39am On Mar 21, 2020
GboyegaD:
Can you try formalize it by going to the registry to save yourself more confusions going forward?

Or, you could swear an affidavit declaring that you are married traditionally. It works everywhere except the embassy.

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Re: Wedded Traditionally, Should I Use "Single" Or "Married" To Fill Form? by bobkezel(m): 11:01am On Mar 21, 2020
pfadom:
Do you think you are single? Man you are married.

1. Was there engagement rites?
2. Did you or your family take some items to your in-law's house?
3. Did you take some pictures at the event as evidence.

You are married jooh!!!
Where by a marriage certificate is required, how do I go about that.
Re: Wedded Traditionally, Should I Use "Single" Or "Married" To Fill Form? by bobkezel(m): 11:07am On Mar 21, 2020
jeffizy:
Of course, you're married.

I believe a traditional wedding stands recognized in Nigeria.
For eg, when filling nysc form, one is expected to upload marriage certificate if s/he filled married.
In case like this, how do one go about it.
Re: Wedded Traditionally, Should I Use "Single" Or "Married" To Fill Form? by jeff1607(m): 11:13am On Mar 21, 2020
see question ooo, are you planning on getting a divorce later on?
Re: Wedded Traditionally, Should I Use "Single" Or "Married" To Fill Form? by Whyzaid(f): 11:22am On Mar 21, 2020
If there's no document to back it up, you're free to fill single
Re: Wedded Traditionally, Should I Use "Single" Or "Married" To Fill Form? by Yeecar(m): 11:48am On Mar 21, 2020
bobkezel:
Good morning guys, I'm confused with something. Does someone that wedded traditionally use "single" or "married" while filling a form or document. For eg, bank form, recruitment or job form, nysc form or any other documents.
All these stupid questions sef!

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Re: Wedded Traditionally, Should I Use "Single" Or "Married" To Fill Form? by Yeecar(m): 11:49am On Mar 21, 2020
bobkezel:
Good morning guys, I'm confused with something. Does someone that wedded traditionally use "single" or "married" while filling a form or document. For eg, bank form, recruitment or job form, nysc form or any other documents.
All these unreasonable questions sef!

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Re: Wedded Traditionally, Should I Use "Single" Or "Married" To Fill Form? by crackkhaus: 12:21pm On Mar 21, 2020
There has to be a document to show you're married.

While being married traditionally proves you are married under customary law, I struggle to see how you can claim the same status under common law.

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Re: Wedded Traditionally, Should I Use "Single" Or "Married" To Fill Form? by Jimmyubah2: 12:39pm On Mar 21, 2020
None of the above. Use DIVORCE.

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Re: Wedded Traditionally, Should I Use "Single" Or "Married" To Fill Form? by pfadom: 1:37pm On Mar 21, 2020
bobkezel:

Where by a marriage certificate is required, how do I go about that.

You then go to the marriage registry to formalize it.
1. Go to the nearest or local government of residence for inquiry.
2. Collect application form. Fill it and submit necessary documents, passport photographs of you and your spouse and pay the necessary fee.
3. Your intention to marry would e displayed at the council marriage regiatry for 21 days.
4. Your marriage is formalized at an agreed date If no petition against your proposed marriage is received.

It's that simple!!!

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Re: Wedded Traditionally, Should I Use "Single" Or "Married" To Fill Form? by bobkezel(m): 2:22pm On Mar 21, 2020
Yeecar:

All these stupid questions sef!
Ewu
Re: Wedded Traditionally, Should I Use "Single" Or "Married" To Fill Form? by bobkezel(m): 2:23pm On Mar 21, 2020
pfadom:


You then go to the marriage registry to formalize it.
1. Go to the nearest or local government of residence for inquiry.
2. Collect application form. Fill it and submit necessary documents, passport photographs of you and your spouse and pay the necessary fee.
3. Your intention to marry would e displayed at the council marriage regiatry for 21 days.
4. Your marriage is formalized at an agreed date If no petition against your proposed marriage is received.

It's that simple!!!
This means trad is not legal/formal.
Re: Wedded Traditionally, Should I Use "Single" Or "Married" To Fill Form? by pfadom: 3:28pm On Mar 21, 2020
bobkezel:

This means trad is not legal/formal.

Traditional marriage is recognized under customary law, but it not globally recognised as a formal marriage in the sense that it is not supported by recognized legal certificate.

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Re: Wedded Traditionally, Should I Use "Single" Or "Married" To Fill Form? by Humphrizy(m): 3:35pm On Mar 21, 2020
Wether you weded traditionally or in the church...wedding na wedding.

You are to be recognized as married man
Re: Wedded Traditionally, Should I Use "Single" Or "Married" To Fill Form? by Yeecar(m): 8:27pm On Mar 21, 2020
bobkezel:

Ewu
get well soon bro!

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Re: Wedded Traditionally, Should I Use "Single" Or "Married" To Fill Form? by bobkezel(m): 7:49am On Mar 22, 2020
Yeecar:
get well soon bro!
Thank you and God blast you.

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Re: Wedded Traditionally, Should I Use "Single" Or "Married" To Fill Form? by James289(f): 8:31am On Mar 22, 2020
Use widowed
Re: Wedded Traditionally, Should I Use "Single" Or "Married" To Fill Form? by loveliveshere: 8:58am On Mar 22, 2020
bobkezel:

Thank you and God blast you.
grin grin grin
Re: Wedded Traditionally, Should I Use "Single" Or "Married" To Fill Form? by KennieKingOba(m): 9:28am On Mar 22, 2020
bros, marriage na marriage o!
Re: Wedded Traditionally, Should I Use "Single" Or "Married" To Fill Form? by frozen70(f): 4:59pm On Mar 22, 2020
bobkezel:
Good morning guys, I'm confused with something. Does someone that wedded traditionally use "single" or "married" while filling a form or document. For eg, bank form, recruitment or job form, nysc form or any other documents.

Once you have done traditional marriage but yet to get English wedding

You are already married, all you need is affidavit of marriage from the court to back you up on the absence of marriage certificate

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Re: Wedded Traditionally, Should I Use "Single" Or "Married" To Fill Form? by bobkezel(m): 8:18pm On Mar 22, 2020
frozen70:


Once you have done traditional marriage but yet to get English wedding

You are already married, all you need is affidavit of marriage from the court to back you up on the absence of marriage certificate
Thanks a lot.
But, can the affidavit of marriage be used in place of marriage certificate?
Re: Wedded Traditionally, Should I Use "Single" Or "Married" To Fill Form? by Nobody: 8:34pm On Mar 22, 2020
bobkezel:

Thanks a lot.
But, can the affidavit of marriage be used in place of marriage certificate?

I think you should do court wedding to save yourself from unnecessary headache o.

I am sure it's not expensive and all they probably need are two witnesses.

Lobatan.
Re: Wedded Traditionally, Should I Use "Single" Or "Married" To Fill Form? by Coreyon: 8:41pm On Mar 22, 2020
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FrLukas:


I think you should do court wedding to save yourself from unnecessary headache o.

I am sure it's not expensive and all they probably need are two witnesses.

Lobatan.
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Re: Wedded Traditionally, Should I Use "Single" Or "Married" To Fill Form? by frozen70(f): 10:05pm On Mar 22, 2020
bobkezel:

Thanks a lot.
But, can the affidavit of marriage be used in place of marriage certificate?

That affidavit covers traditional marriage

If you want marriage certificate, you get it from church and local government marriage registry

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Re: Wedded Traditionally, Should I Use "Single" Or "Married" To Fill Form? by Akwukalia: 10:46pm On Oct 26, 2023
frozen70:


That affidavit covers traditional marriage

If you want marriage certificate, you get it from church and local government marriage registry
Asking for a cousin.
Please where can one get a Declaration of marriage certificate?
His late father(a British) get married to his mom traditionally. Now, he want to apply for British citizenship by descent, but he needs a Declaration of marriage certificate for his parents .
Justwise, advanceDNA please can you throw light here?

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