What do you guys say about someone being a virgin at 35, should she or he be applauded or scorned!!!!

For holding on for that long i will definately applaud the person. Its not easy!!!!!! I pray the person ends up giving it to the right person or else, na die be that o!!

, bebe, i agree with you 100%. any body wey say the thing easy, make him try am, afterall them say body no be firewood,

A virgin and a man at 36and still counting.

It is a pride because am one right now and i dont think this is the right time to do anything stupid,moreso my sis is 27 and she is still a virgin.

@oreofemi. I love you walahi talahi. The babalawo told me you are the virgin I'll marry! Let's get married over the weekend (what do you think my dear wife-to be). But sha o, hope you are above 18. And please don't tell your parents till we are properly married.

@ Subject. How did you do that for all this while? Don't you feel splotchy at times? I first fired when I was in pry. sch.

Well, i dont think its cool coz by d tym she gets married she wouldnt hav experience on bed and that can make ha husband feel bored weneva they want to hav sex! He might even go out and look 4 another girl outside with enougjh experience and has enough moves on bed.

haaaaaaaaaa!!! na beans?? omo no bring that one, i dont really beleive in that, virgin@ 35 is sometin else

are u married?well to ve remained a virgin till now i dont think so.well you don try shaaaaaaa,i beg try give am out sharply before
people start to think u re under some kind of spell.@35 sho!

are u married?well to ve remained a virgin till now i dont think so.well you don try shaaaaaaa,i beg try give am out sharply before
people start to think u re under some kind of spell.@35 sho!

Its a nice idea to be a virgin but at that age its absurd. when will she start aving children?. she got disvirgin at the age she is supposed to have stopped giving birth. THAT IS SERIOUS OOOOO

Virgin fire! At 35, the pussy go automatically disvirgin itself na, aba. The inside go don dey rotten sef, obezz, this one na tory oh.

One love

Keep it up is good,it is a blessing to any one who is luck to marry u.He will respect u.He Will not accuse u of cheating him.virgin at 35 is a PRIDE

At that age I certainly see someone who has had no adventure, and must have certainly lived a boring life, if ur not a reverend mother or father. Another big waste of resource.

Ikomi:

At that age I certainly see someone who has had no adventure, and must have certainly lived a boring life, if your not a reverend mother or father. Another big waste of resource.

which she waste, na ur own, wetin concern u,

I can see most replies relating to this thread are all coming from the most dullards the world can produce.

Virgin at 35(either a male or female) is no big deal, but that doesnt mean they dont experience sexual satisfaction.
What most people think about when one have had sex is when they have or experience penetration.But there's more to that.

If a man that claims to be a virgin at 35 receives a Mouth Gig,and he comes.Didnt he have sex? But better still, he still hold on to his virginity.If he even masturbates in secret he still boldly says he's a virgin all because he didnt have a penetration with a woman.

So also goes to the woman,if she receives a a wonderful head from a sex guru, and she experience her climax,she still retains her virginity.But she's had a wonderful sexual satisfaction.

But i now throw the big question to you all out there, will you now say the lady/man is a virgin after experiencing a full sexual satisfaction, but without a penetration

enitan2002:

I can see most replies relating to this thread are all coming from the most dullards the world can produce.

Virgin at 35(either a male or female) is no big deal, but that doesnt mean they don't experience sexual satisfaction.
What most people think about when one have had sex is when they have or experience penetration.But there's more to that.

If a man that claims to be a virgin at 35 receives a Mouth Gig,and he comes.Didnt he have sex? But better still, he still hold on to his virginity.If he even masturbates in secret he still boldly says he's a virgin all because he didnt have a penetration with a woman.

So also goes to the woman,if she receives a a wonderful head from a sex guru, and she experience her climax,she still retains her virginity.But she's had a wonderful sexual satisfaction.

But i now throw the big question to you all out there, will you now say the lady/man is a virgin after experiencing a full sexual satisfaction, but without a penetration

na true u talk o

enitan2002:

I can see most replies relating to this thread are all coming from the most dullards the world can produce.

Virgin at 35(either a male or female) is no big deal, but that doesnt mean they don't experience sexual satisfaction.
What most people think about when one have had sex is when they have or experience penetration.But there's more to that.

If a man that claims to be a virgin at 35 receives a Mouth Gig,and he comes.Didnt he have sex? But better still, he still hold on to his virginity.If he even masturbates in secret he still boldly says he's a virgin all because he didnt have a penetration with a woman.

So also goes to the woman,if she receives a a wonderful head from a sex guru, and she experience her climax,she still retains her virginity.But she's had a wonderful sexual satisfaction.

But i now throw the big question to you all out there, will you now say the lady/man is a virgin after experiencing a full sexual satisfaction, but without a penetration

You are the dullard for making this assertion -

jokes apart - that must be a curse - a generational curse for that matter - deliverance is needed for this person.

@ efuah,

now am beginning to see some people with a sensible mind,
thanks for agreeing with my reply

Virginity is alwaz a pride but it all depends on what one wants in life. A man @35 still a virgin is not that bad but for a lady who has no intention of becoming a Rev. sister or a celibate I wounld advise she gets married fast if she wants to bear children b4 its 2 late.

Hi to be a virgin at that age is very good and encouraging. Religiously, it is good to stay away from sex until married.
I consider this as a pride not a curse. please keep it up and God will bless you and provide a good husband for you.
thanks and God bless

Ilesa

Adura_ngba:

You are the dullard for making this assertion -

jokes apart - that must be a curse - a generational curse for that matter - deliverance is needed for this person.

that was simply a nice analysis i put out there, and u just feel like talking through the sole of your feet.
Just go through my first reply and reason it out yourself.

@Topic
A virgin at 35, hmmmn. It's hard to believe in this world of today. May be we should ask "Thiefofheart" how hard it is to keep a virginity !

I think u are very silly , sillyboy i dont know why i cant reply to other's topic ,we dont have any marriage plan to conclude on, pls .

Virgin? at 35?!!!
come and see American wonder!

This one na curse. if you are man you more cursed.

I couldn't imagine what many ladies are writing here. Personally, I applaud you for keeping up your purity at that age, you did very well. You don't have to feel bad for what most of the fellows here are writing. If you have been abstaining for Christ's sake it is a wonderful thing, if it just that men don't talk to you at all, talkless of marrying you, that's a different music entirely. What I would simply conribute is that you sincerely pray ask God to for the man with whom you will accomplish you God's given purpose together then marry him and then have sex (don'y sleep with him before marriage), and start your family you will not regret it, if you do otherwise cos of pressure or imagination of a curse then you will have to deal with the consequecies. If even there is a curse there is absolutley nothing God can not do you just have to sincerely/whole heartedly seek His guidance you will be amazed what you will achieve.

I don't think it’s a curse for those dumb asses saying it’s a curse. It’s a blessing and definitely not easy to keep it till that age, . But the lady involved. i want to ask whether she has ever been in a relationship?

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm LOL!  Nairaland, you are truly the best.  I cannot even get any sleep now since I am having so much fun.  Thank God no work till next week!

You guys are very funny!  To answer the question---No big deal.  Neither a blessing nor a curse.  Just do not envy the person!  Male or female!  What has this person been doing since?  I will like to perform a "physical exam first"  Then a Psychological one to find out what is going on!  Just baffled!  Is this secondary virginity or a case of amnesia?  Any memory problems or motor vehical accident?  Hormonal problems? Just wondering. 

This person obviously is not in Nigeria where you have sharp guys on every street corner.  At 16 my hormones were already bursting loose!  Whenever a guy touched me, I felt I was on fire!  Kissing meant I had died and gone to heaven- Could not wait to experience the real thing!   When it finally happened at 18 in my first year in the University, out of the reach of my meddlesome parents---there was no going back! ABSOLUTELY, UNEQUIVOCALLY NO REGRETS!  I still worship that guy till today for showing me road.

Oh my God! 

@ LuUmBiOn2 You say e don "disvirgin itself and rotten"

Na you talk am!  If I were a guy ---- I would be afraid to find out what is in there.  Maybe sacrifice for some village gods or babalawo property! Na Die! Only a "born again" with serious spiritual powers can touch this one! Uh-Uh ------ I pass! This is a no go area! The thing go don get teeth dey bite!

Militia. How come you have no respect for what is sacred.The fact that you were unable to attain it should not make you look down on people who did.