This pride will consume you ladies one of these days in the abyss of singlehood at 50. Ruth made the move on her man and from that lineage, the Savior was born. If you like a guy why not make the move? What happened to going for what you want? Be there waiting, another lady who knows what she wants and goes for it will take over while you watch. Whoever stamped it on marble that a man must ask out first. This is 2020, ancients stereotypes are fizzling out.

Now, that ladies are learning how it feels to rejected. Let us tell them to stop:

1. rejecting a guy rudely.

2. telling everybody, in a ridiculous way about the guys who approached them.

3. stop treating guys like non-entities after they expressed their love to you , but you're not interested.

Men should also act by these rules ( most men do already).

sisterslodge:
A man that do not understand the signal that a woman is interested in him is naive.

It is common Knowledge that if a woman is interested in a man she gives him signs and it is expected of him to pursue. A strong and confident man will pursue and take action.

in a normal setting, with the normal type of man, YES.... but there are a lot of shy dudes out there, a lot of reserved dudes out there, a lot of dudes that are too afraid to make the 1st step.... if your ego is too big to therefore make a move, then it is sad indeed.

you are just as naive as these guys, if you let your ego be in the way and dont understand that not all men are the same!