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Is It Okay For A Married Woman To Have A Guy As Her Bestie? by Nobody: 11:47am On Mar 30, 2020
maybe strange and abnormal as most persons sees it but I know couples who have besties who ain't their partner.

what do u think guys?

shouldnt ur bestie be ur partner?

can u keep a bestie after marriage?
Re: Is It Okay For A Married Woman To Have A Guy As Her Bestie? by fulaniHERDSman(m): 11:50am On Mar 30, 2020
It's very right ... Until the agenda casts.
Wise people avoid trouble at all cost. No yam will survive custody of a goat. And no goat can survive a lion's friendship.
Re: Is It Okay For A Married Woman To Have A Guy As Her Bestie? by donbachi(m): 11:50am On Mar 30, 2020
Dem no dey use chicken do pet.
Re: Is It Okay For A Married Woman To Have A Guy As Her Bestie? by Allexey(f): 11:51am On Mar 30, 2020
Well..do you mean opposite sex bestie?
I guess so
Somebody asked a similar question
And my answer still remains the same
Opposite sex besties 99.9% of the time,are sex partners
Re: Is It Okay For A Married Woman To Have A Guy As Her Bestie? by KevMitnick: 11:51am On Mar 30, 2020
It's a recipe for disaster ...not advisable.
Re: Is It Okay For A Married Woman To Have A Guy As Her Bestie? by fulaniHERDSman(m): 11:54am On Mar 30, 2020
Allexey:
Well..do you mean opposite sex bestie?
I guess so
Somebody asked a similar question
And my answer still remains the same
Opposite sex besties 99.9% of the time,are sex partners
Smart girl ...
Re: Is It Okay For A Married Woman To Have A Guy As Her Bestie? by mazimee(m): 11:55am On Mar 30, 2020
I have a female bestie, she is not married .same with me.

If I am to answer your question, I would say No. Simply because the husband may not find it funny. And besides I do rather be the bestie of my wife. It is safer that way.
Re: Is It Okay For A Married Woman To Have A Guy As Her Bestie? by GOFRONT(m): 11:55am On Mar 30, 2020
For where

Re: Is It Okay For A Married Woman To Have A Guy As Her Bestie? by Nobody: 11:58am On Mar 30, 2020
GOFRONT:
For where
lol... I know this was cominggrin
Re: Is It Okay For A Married Woman To Have A Guy As Her Bestie? by Snipper007: 12:12pm On Mar 30, 2020
She is married and her beastie should be her husband.
Re: Is It Okay For A Married Woman To Have A Guy As Her Bestie? by Parablesonmarble: 12:18pm On Mar 30, 2020
Love in marrige lasts only for medium term. It is the warm component. Passion (sex) lasts even for a shorter period. It is the hot component. However, companionship lasts for a longer period than both. It is the cool component.
When your partner isn't your friend from inception and both the hot and warm components are stronger than the cool component, eventually they both will fizzle out and you just find out your bestie is someone else and not your partner. One needs a healthy dose of the three components to have a balanced and enduring relationship. Google ' Seven Year Itch' and maybe you'll understand why a married person's best friend can easily be someone apart from the partner.
I'm not saying it is sensible to have a bestie outside your marriage but it happens all the time and these people would rather they have their partners as their besties but it is what it is.
What do I even know......forming a useless love doctor online! Anything goes jor.
Re: Is It Okay For A Married Woman To Have A Guy As Her Bestie? by coolestofall(m): 12:46pm On Mar 30, 2020
Same as for a guy. Its a dick in glass case, incase of emergency, break open glass.
Re: Is It Okay For A Married Woman To Have A Guy As Her Bestie? by Nobody: 2:01pm On Mar 30, 2020
Snipper007:
She is married and her beastie should be her husband.
not necessarily! tongue
Re: Is It Okay For A Married Woman To Have A Guy As Her Bestie? by DaudaTheSexyGuy(m): 9:09am On Apr 02, 2020
I used to be the bestow of a married lady.

I never banged her but I would not have hesitated if the opportunity had presented itself

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