One of the primary reasons for marriage aside companionship is for procreation of children.

Given that there are many instances where a couple is childless and frequent traditional homes, spiritual homes and medical hospitals for solution, will you prefer your intended to get pregnant or will you prefer to be pregnant for him before marriage?

That is assuming he's a matured and honest gentleman who is ready for marriage and responsibilities.

So what happens if the lady doesn’t get pregnant for you immediately while trying to confirm her fertility. My guess is you would change your mind.
Intentions are only confirm when marriage takes place.

From experience, Pregnancy before marriage is best.

For example, Anyone that marries my recent Ex would be childless till Jesus comes back to Earth which she is unaware of.

Many worn-out wombs on the street. Of you fall-in, you will be in for life cos a woman will become very loyal when childless and you will never have an excuse to chase her away.

Impregnate her before you get married.

Dem no dey write "Perforated" or "No womb" for face. Don't get cajoled by looks or shape, it's far from reality.

What is she is pregnant and loses it shortly after marriage? Life is about luck. U may even marry a virgin and she will find it hard to conceive. What matters most is Ur own prowess in getting women preggy. Have u ever got a woman preggy when u were dating randomly? If u have never, then u need to be worried about yourself first as a man. If you marry a woman with perforated womb like the guy above me said, u can go and outside and get a side chic preggy, when the baby arrives u will inform her she has a co-wife, she will be grateful to u for covering her shame.

In my opinion, marry before thinking about pregnancy. Being pregnant before marriage doesn't truly imply the man is fertile as it could be from some other guy out of pressure. Besides, if it is to be sure the lady is fertile what happens should she lose the pregnancy and then suffers secondary infertility afterwards?

After marriage, that's the way God ordained it to be.

RaptObserver:
What is she is pregnant and loses it shortly after marriage? Life is about luck. U may even marry a virgin and she will find it hard to conceive. What matters most is Ur own prowess in getting women preggy. Have u ever got a woman preggy when u were dating randomly? If u have never, then u need to be worried about yourself first as a man. If you marry a woman with perforated womb like the guy above me said, u can go and outside and get a side chic preggy, when the baby arrives u will inform her she has a co-wife, she will be grateful to u for covering her shame.

faithfull18:

What if a man marries for 3 years without conception.

What then?

deltateam:


What if a man marries for 3 years without conception.

What then?

If they are medically and spiritually okay and aren't patient enough, they can adopt.

If they aren't open to adoption and are financially buoyant, IVF is another option.

deltateam:
One of the primary reasons for marriage aside companionship is for procreation of children.

Given that there are many instances where a couple is childless and frequent traditional homes, spiritual homes and medical hospitals for solution, will you prefer your intended to get pregnant or will you prefer to be pregnant for him before marriage?

That is assuming he's a matured and honest gentleman who is ready for marriage and responsibilities.

This is not guaranteed, so ladies, unless it's a decision you've come to for yourself, by yourself and NOT because you want to 'check' if you can conceive for any man, NEVER be pressured into getting pregnant before marriage

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CoronaVirusPro:
From experience, Pregnancy before marriage is best.

For example, Anyone that marries my recent Ex would be childless till Jesus comes back to Earth which she is unaware of.

Many worn-out wombs on the street. Of you fall-in, you will be in for life cos a woman will become very loyal when childless and you will never have an excuse to chase her away.

Impregnate her before you get married.

Dem no dey write "Perforated" or "No womb" for face. Don't get cajoled by looks or shape, it's far from reality.

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stupidmods:
what if she doesn't get pregnant?
you'll end the relationship abi?
if you do so, then you never really loved her

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Enough of these love talks..
It's nothing but a scam these days..

But if he is ready to marry the lady why not wait and impregnate her after after marriage..

It shows respect and honor cos me personally i wouldnt want my sister or daughter to get pregnant before Marriage.

Btw most ladies who get pregnant before marriage dont end up being married.

ibkayee:

This is not guaranteed, so ladies, unless it's a decision you've come to for yourself, by yourself and NOT because you want to 'check' if you can conceive for any man, NEVER be pressured into getting pregnant before marriage

They pressure them into sex and sometimes pregnancy and then come on Nairaland to look for virgins

Any girl who’s dealing with a man without considering primarily her own best interest for short and long term is still a learner.

faithfull18:

If they are medically and spiritually okay and aren't patient enough, they can adopt.

If they aren't open to adoption and are financially buoyant, IVF is another option.

So its okay to say that they must verify their fertility status before marriage?

cococandy:


They pressure them into sex and sometimes pregnancy and then come on Nairaland to look for virgins

Any girl who’s dealing with a man without considering primarily her own best interest for short and long term is still a learner.

Na dem

Gbamest

Before marriage is better please

deltateam:


So its okay to say that they must verify their fertility status before marriage?

That can be done via medical tests I believe.

faithfull18:

That can be done via medical tests I believe.

Are you okay with it? Even if it involves surgery?

faithfull18:

That can be done via medical tests I believe.

Remember the wedding rites starts immediately you miss your period.


An introduction is done, list is collected.
Immediately you miss your period and is confirmed. You guys proceed for Trad. and Wedding.

Is it okay by you?

deltateam:


Remember the wedding rites starts immediately you miss your period.


An introduction is done, list is collected.
Immediately you miss your period and is confirmed. You guys proceed for Trad. and Wedding.

Is it okay by you?

No.

deltateam:


Are you okay with it? Even if it involves surgery?

Surgery for?

faithfull18:

Surgery for?

Removing the eggs.

This girl, you grow for Mushin you sabi slangs wella

ibkayee:

Na dem

Gbamest

CaptainMitch:
This girl, you grow for Myshin you sabi slangs wella

Lool

Before marriage is very good

Pregnancy after marriage still remains the best. But I'm scared of what I will do to her if she doesn't get pregnant within three months of our marriage.

I will nearly kill her with attitude. And if it reaches one year, I'm sure getting a baby outside.

I need kids, that's why I married you. Children are the only things I cannot get on my own or from a fellow man. If I pick you to be the one that will give me those kids, then you must deliver.I don't care how you do it.

I will do my job by knacking you very well. Your job is to make sure my hard knacks yield results.

May God shield us from barren women and those with damaged wombs

deltateam:


Remember the wedding rites starts immediately you miss your period.


An introduction is done, list is collected.
Immediately you miss your period and is confirmed. You guys proceed for Trad. and Wedding.

Is it okay by you?

You do not realize how weird you are sounding

24kmagic:
Pregnancy after marriage still remains the best. But I'm scared of what I will do to her if she doesn't get pregnant within three months of our marriage.

I will nearly kill her with attitude. And if it reaches one year, I'm sure getting a baby outside.

I need kids, that's why I married you. Children are the only things I cannot get on my own or from a fellow man. If I pick you to be the one that will give me those kids, then you must deliver.I don't care how you do it.

I will do my job by knacking you very well. Your job is to make sure my hard knacks yield results.

May God shield us from barren women and those with damaged wombs

Even if the infertility problem is from you

Plot twist.

And you’re the one shooting blanks

24kmagic:
Pregnancy after marriage still remains the best. But I'm scared of what I will do to her if she doesn't get pregnant within three months of our marriage.

I will nearly kill her with attitude. And if it reaches one year, I'm sure getting a baby outside.

I need kids, that's why I married you. Children are the only things I cannot get on my own or from a fellow man. If I pick you to be the one that will give me those kids, then you must deliver.I don't care how you do it.

I will do my job by knacking you very well. Your job is to make sure my hard knacks yield results.

May God shield us from barren women and those with damaged wombs

faithfull18:

Even if the infertility problem is from you

It cannot be from me.
Any woman I have unprotected sex with and she doesn't get pregnant is simply barren or wombless. Period!