Straight to the point please,am 36 years old and my fiance is 25 years old, we met some months ago and we are planning to get married by December, actually I told her I was 33years,but jokingly I was telling her that am 36 already, so I don't know what to do about this.is it advisable for us to get married with the age distance please,, only mature minds should comment please, no insult or else I will send Mr Coro to u o... �

I don't think the age gap is too much.

The most critical point is her maturity...just make sure she has passed the stage where she thinks that the only important thing in life is to go clubbing and use all the money in her account to buy the latest phone in town.

Also make sure she has had some dating experience and has had her share of heartbreak so she will not go into the marriage expecting it to be a bed of roses.

By the way I think you need to tell her your real age so she can make an informed decision.

Good luck!

Judging from your profile are you a lesbian ?

Nope scientists has shown that couples having an age difference of 10 and above are prone to contract conora virus. So know what you seek for

I don't blame you, you confused already bout your gender...

Whats the big deal bout age.....what bout that una nollywood actress that weds that old man

Abalado:
Straight to the point please,am 36 years old and my fiance is 25 years old, we met some months ago and we are planning to get married by December, actually I told her I was 33years,but jokingly I was telling her that am 36 already, so I don't know what to do about this.is it advisable for us to get married with the age distance please,, only mature minds should comment please, no insult or else I will send Mr Coro to u o... �

Do you love him
His he in love with you
If yes you both are good to go

Abalado:
Straight to the point please,am 36 years old and my fiance is 25 years old, we met some months ago and we are planning to get married by December, actually I told her I was 33years,but jokingly I was telling her that am 36 already, so I don't know what to do about this.is it advisable for us to get married with the age distance please,, only mature minds should comment please, no insult or else I will send Mr Coro to u o... �

are you a she or a he?

Marry him and pass back come to me .. am 39

Abalado:
Straight to the point please,am 36 years old and my fiance is 25 years old, we met some months ago and we are planning to get married by December, actually I told her I was 33years,but jokingly I was telling her that am 36 already, so I don't know what to do about this.is it advisable for us to get married with the age distance please,, only mature minds should comment please, no insult or else I will send Mr Coro to u o... �

If you are the man, it's ok; though your fiance seems to be a bit past her prime at 25. 18-21 years old for a woman is ideal. Your own age is not important.

If you are the woman, no it's not ok. Look for a man ideally 55 years or over; maybe a widower. Leave the young men alone.

Different strokes for different people well for me that's too much mehnn.

I can't date or marry a lady who isn't my age mate or at least year/two years younger than me.I don't care about that she will get old before you bullshit people say or respect bla bla bla

But that's for me sha.

RisenPhoenix:


If you are the man, it's ok; though your fiance seems to be a bit past her prime at 25. 18-21 years old for a woman is ideal. Your own age is not important.

If you are the woman, no it's not ok. Look for a man ideally 55 years or over; maybe a widower. Leave the young men alone.

harsh but true, very true

Stop child abuse, leave d guy alone nd go gt above 36yrs nd marry

kestolove95:
Stop child abuse, leave d guy alone nd go gt above 36yrs nd marry

I think the man is 36 and not the lady.

Millenniumlady:
Judging from your profile are you a lesbian ?

Must you comments on every thread? Go check
Now you have a
Parallel ass.. you are
Calling somebody lesbian .

Your case will never be like ijn

Abalado:
Straight to the point please,am 36 years old and my fiance is 25 years old, we met some months ago and we are planning to get married by December, actually I told her I was 33years,but jokingly I was telling her that am 36 already, so I don't know what to do about this.is it advisable for us to get married with the age distance please,, only mature minds should comment please, no insult or else I will send Mr Coro to u o... �

Meeyankee:

Must you comments on every thread? Go check
Now you have a
Parallel ass.. you are
Calling somebody lesbian .

Was nairaland built by your fada ?

Millenniumlady:
Was nairaland built by your fada ?

Because you are a daughter of a thousands father. Not knowing your father doesn’t mean you will not respect another person’s father rather ask your
Mom
About your father .

Meeyankee:

Because you are a daughter of a thousands father

And you're the son of a countless prostitute

No is not better to get married .
Just stay single and keep fornicating . Ewu Gambia

Nooo just keep fuckingg until you both are worn out...

Kalapizim:
Different strokes for different people well for me that's too much mehnn.

I can't date or marry a day who isn't my age mate or a year/two years younger than me.I don't care about that she will get old before you bullshit or respect bla bla bla

But that's for me sha.

I've seen someone like me

Thank you everyone, sorry for the gender status, I mean on my profile here, sometimes it could be typo error, I be original man, I no be woman,,, na typo error,, thanks for the advice, but the fact still remains that I always love to be like 3 to 4 years older than my wife to be, but in this case, I love the girl and I believe she also love me too, but the age difference is really given me issue,, am 11years older than her

Fiance=man
Fiancee=woman
U said u told her your age is 33 instead of 36
And you said your fiance is 25
Pls kindly explain yourself better cos i don't know if you are the male or female here

Abalado:
Straight to the point please,am 36 years old and my fiance is 25 years old, we met some months ago and we are planning to get married by December, actually I told her I was 33years,but jokingly I was telling her that am 36 already, so I don't know what to do about this.is it advisable for us to get married with the age distance please,, only mature minds should comment please, no insult or else I will send Mr Coro to u o... �

It's okay. Very ok. In short, perfectly ok. Just be sincere. Marriage is a lifetime commitment and not a child's play.
Be honest enough to tell her all she needs to know about you.
"Man no dey Old if he get money."

jelraj:

I've seen someone like me

welcome boss

Millenniumlady:
Was nairaland built by your fada ?

Is it true you now have a parallel ass?

Abalado:
Thank you everyone, sorry for the gender status, I mean on my profile here, sometimes it could be typo error, I be original man, I no be woman,,, na typo error,, thanks for the advice, but the fact still remains that I always love to be like 3 to 4 years older than my wife to be, but in this case, I love the girl and I believe she also love me too, but the age difference is really given me issue,, am 11years older than her

My guy, if u 're not psychologically fit to handle issues that comes with dat, turn off

Abalado:
Thank you everyone, sorry for the gender status, I mean on my profile here, sometimes it could be typo error, I be original man, I no be woman,,, na typo error,, thanks for the advice, but the fact still remains that I always love to be like 3 to 4 years older than my wife to be, but in this case, I love the girl and I believe she also love me too, but the age difference is really given me issue,, am 11years older than her

na normal thing. Carry on

Abalado:
Thank you everyone, sorry for the gender status, I mean on my profile here, sometimes it could be typo error, I be original man, I no be woman,,, na typo error,, thanks for the advice, but the fact still remains that I always love to be like 3 to 4 years older than my wife to be, but in this case, I love the girl and I believe she also love me too, but the age difference is really given me issue,, am 11years older than her

There's no issues sir with this. I've seen 15 years gap in age living very happily

Age is just number, sometimes.

What you should be sure about before tying the knot is the financial, emotional, spiritual, mental, health, sexual compatibility between the both of you.

If she ticks at least 75% of your boxes, then by all means go ahead and get married.

P.S- Please, I beg you, don't get married on the foundation of lies. Make honesty, straightforwardness your watchword. Tell her the truth about your age, don't make her lose trust in you, it will be difficult to get it back.

Kalapizim:
Different strokes for different people well for me that's too much mehnn.

I can't date or marry a lady who isn't my age mate or at least year/two years younger than me.I don't care about that she will get old before you bullshit people say or respect bla bla bla

But that's for me sha.

You are obviously a young guy

Abalado:
Straight to the point please,am 36 years old and my fiance is 25 years old, we met some months ago and we are planning to get married by December, actually I told her I was 33years,but jokingly I was telling her that am 36 already, so I don't know what to do about this.is it advisable for us to get married with the age distance please,, only mature minds should comment please, no insult or else I will send Mr Coro to u o... �

i was almost confuse then I realized you are a lesbian. google Ellen DeGeneres for answers