Hello . Today is my 23rd birthday.i need advice . I tend to think much about the future. Am the only son in my family and i have 5 sisters. Two are older than me. And i senior the other 3. I tend to think about the responsibility in the future. DAD Is 60 and MUM 48. Some responsibility have started coming my way. And it seem like challenge nw. And am begining to think what the future will hold. Pls guys i need help on how to pass the hurdles of life without thinking too much about the future.

Let me drop this here quickly, just do YOU! Life is a RACE not a JOURNEY... No one is promised tomorrow don't ever forget that son.

Simple. Make sure you’re always employed. Do your best at your job and always have savings no matter how small your salary is. Do not give out more than you can afford. Learn to say no. You cannot handle every responsibility thrown your way. Take on what you can and drop what you can’t handle.

Ok tnks sir

Sparkle22:
Hello . Today is my 23rd birthday.i need advice . I tend to think much about the future. Am the only son in my family and i have 5 sisters. Two are older than me. And i senior the other 3. I tend to think about the responsibility in the future. DAD Is 60 and MUM 48. Some responsibility have started coming my way. And it seem like challenge nw. And am begining to think what the future will hold. Pls guys i need help on how to pass the hurdles of life without thinking too much about the future.

Don't add another liability girlfriend to the mix.
Also, let your sisters endeavor to learn and master a skill... Especially the younger ones below you. Trust me it will reduce the financial pressure on you later in life when they begin to make their own cash.

Sparkle22:
Hello . Today is my 23rd birthday.i need advice . I tend to think much about the future. Am the only son in my family and i have 5 sisters. Two are older than me. And i senior the other 3. I tend to think about the responsibility in the future. DAD Is 60 and MUM 48. Some responsibility have started coming my way. And it seem like challenge nw. And am begining to think what the future will hold. Pls guys i need help on how to pass the hurdles of life without thinking too much about the future.

Dear Worried Boy,

Let me start oby wishing you happy birthday and many happy returns of the day.

It is okay to be worried about the future and how to navigate its hurdles at your age. It is part of the preparation for the journey called "life"

What is however not right is for you to view your sisters and parents as hindrances to your path to progress as opposed to their being special blessing from God to you.


Note that the fact that you have started taking up some responsibilities for your loved one is no big deal, others younger than you have been doing same. It is part of a life- long duty you will have to do for your family especially for your parents.

As you help your family, you are setting yourself up for abundance of blessings from God. The most important key to this blessing is through taking care of your parents.

I will urge you to try and inspire your sisters by creating a team out of them to resolve family issues and uplift the family's economic circumstances.

Lastly, go to God with your challenges. He is ever willing to help when called upon.

Once again, happy birthday.