HammedOlanaija:




No even talk am my own mama don born 4 and she no get belly

You're just a troll.

Mind you, women after child bearing age naturally retain their flat tommy. Talking about your mom, how old are you? Your mom should be very old and past menopause so water has dried in most part of her body hence the flat tommy and it won't look fresh and firm anymore.
Chill abeg and don't even bring the old woman it this.
Small pikin dey worry you big time.

Men with tiny P are the ones who will not allow ladies to hear word. Maybe you too should go and stretch your P too.

I am happy i saw this topic cos it seems guys kept quiet about it for too long, I thought it was just me being disgusted with women with big tummy......i just felt they ate too much,a young girl with a big tommy is probably a greedy materialistic, undisciplined ,promiscuous,insatiable human being.

Eulalia:



How can you say big tommy will prevent you from having the best sexual experience with your spouse? just goes to show you still need some growing up to do.

Its only a lazy and inexperienced man that will want to climb on his woman all the time to have sex when there are a million and one ways of sexually satisfying each other. Very lame to think sex is all about thrusting in and out of a woman or missionary style is the way to go. Even pastors of these days, know better.

My dear try attending singles and married seminars and forums

The reason why he stressed on the missionary position is dat alot of ladies are lazy dats d position they find comfortable. Ask for a cowgirl position before you say "Jack" she wants to lay on her back again.

HammedOlanaija:

Man or woman
Exercise bro and lose weight
There is no room for pot belly in heaven

moderate belly fat in men portrays sign of comfortability in our culture.

Trailblazer93:

The reason why he stressed on the missionary position is dat alot of ladies are lazy dats d position they find comfortable. As a for a cowgirl position before you say Jack she wants to lay my back again.

Thanks for discussing it better to her hearing

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xynerise:


. May God help us all

Amen o!

Goddys:


moderate belly fat in men portrays sign of comfortability in our culture.

You are really right bro
But if we keep on saying all for the culture! All for the cuture!
Nah uncomfortableness and uneasiness he dey bring
Let's burn down this shit and look normal and not with a stomach protruding out of one's shirt or polo like bike man helmet
Even pple wey dey model no dey use big belly pple because they are unattractive but if you ask me this kind of pple are the one that direct them at the back of the camera and even these days it's like they are also fighting in their own modeling industry to include fat belly models in their section which is offensive and really disgusting....Go to stores,boutique and others using a mannequin with straight normal human body.....you will never see a pot belly mannequin either for males or females
But these days the society is thinking of adopting and drawing them along with the trip so they don't die of depression.You can see pot belly mannequins for men(it's even rare and I have never ever seen one in my life before). not to talk of a female mannequin with pot belly so disgusting

Eulalia:


You're just a troll.

Mind you, women after child bearing age naturally retain their flat tommy. Talking about your mom, how old are you? Your mom should be very old and past menopause so water has dried in most part of her body hence the flat tommy and it won't look fresh and firm anymore.
Chill abeg and don't even bring the old woman it this.
Small pikin dey worry you big time.

Men with tiny P are the ones who will not allow ladies to hear word. Maybe you too should go and stretch your P too.

Lol

Michelle55:
It's a big deal.. It's more dangerous for the women than it is for the men folks and it's also a big turn off especially if she hasn't given birth before.

Here are some of the reasons of big stomach in women:

Poor diet. Sugary food, such as cakes and candy, and drinks, such as soda and fruit juice, etc

Too much alcohol. Consuming excess alcohol can cause a variety of health problems, including liver disease and inflammation. ...

Lack of exercise. ...

Stress. ...

Genetics. ...

Poor sleep. ...

Smoking etc

Smoking doesn't cause big Stomach

xynerise:


Hally Berry was cheated on despite she was the sexiest actress.

A lot of nice curvy ladies have been cheated on. So what the fuvk is your point?

victorian:








Don't mind them.
Even the screen goddess Beyonce was cheated on by her former bf and now husband several times upon her hips and flat structured tummy.

While my married female friend with drum like tummy her husband has never cheated on her publicly like Beyonce own


Even adesua etomi the angelic and drop dead georgeus wife was also cheated on badly by her romantic hobby banky w.
Her yanga and hubby ever loving praises online has been cut off abruptly, cos we now know he's lying about loving her to the end of the earth .
But she has to swallow the shame and avoid social media henceforth.
Men ehn? Una matter taya even God himself . But not u xynerise

Hally berry and screen Goddess Beyonce with adesua......tell me how this kind of woman's husband will not cheat on her when he ask for it but got rejected.
These might be the case for your role models too....their wife might think it's only an inexperienced man that will seek for sex all the time.

Eulalia:


My dear, just leave this one o. He's still a kid. Life will teach him better very soon.

What does he have to say about so many celebs with hourglass shape that have been cheated on or worst still, divorced?
And for him to say big tommy will prevent you from having the best sexual experience with your spouse just goes to show hes still needs some growing up to do. Its only a lazy and inexperienced man that will want to climb on his woman all the time to have sex when there are a million and one ways of sexually satisfying each other. Very lame to think missionary style is the only way to go.

selfwife:
I have read comments of men heavily criticizing the young ladies and even women for having big tommy due to lack of exercise, laziness, eating habits, childbirth etc.
I believe not all men have the right to say piiiimmmmp on this matter, considering how their mother's tommy is.
Whether it turns you on or off, not every ladies stature will suit your insatiable Hot conditions.
And other thing is that, just because some men say they don't like it, some yeye ones will join team ##follow follow##
Look at that lady's mother and other female family members before you conclude she is team natural flat tommy. All these activeness, super duper sex, aggressive exercising will wane off at some point after marriage.
Each lady will do what she can and will go an extra mile for her health but don't expect it to be for you.

All I see in this comment is laziness,the fact that you guys are fat in your family doesn't mean you have to be fat too.....why don't you exercise and stand out with you unique look......try it once even the families will join you too except the lazy ones among them

Eulalia:


You're just a troll.

Mind you, women after child bearing age naturally retain their flat tommy. Talking about your mom, how old are you? Your mom should be very old and past menopause so water has dried in most part of her body hence the flat tommy and it won't look fresh and firm anymore.
Chill abeg and don't even bring the old woman it this.
Small pikin dey worry you big time.

Men with tiny P are the ones who will not allow ladies to hear word. Maybe you too should go and stretch your P too.

The fact that you can say men with small p doesn't have the banging ability shows how ignorant and novice you are when it comes to taking this thing.
And calling a man with 8.1"inches p, a small p geng is a big slap in the face.....Lol
You had better not try me....don't compare death and sleep ooo
You can't be thinking anyhow or be thinking all men have small p because your husband or your boyfriend has the size of a thumb doesn't make every man the same ooo
We are different....and that's the point and before i forget goann destroy that mtf fat in you ooo that made you to look like a Gotv Remote

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The fact that you can say men with small p doesn't have the banging ability shows how ignorant


The above was not what I meant by my statement. Its not my fault you lack the cognitive skills to comprehend a simple text. Let me help you explain in simpler terms. I only stated you stretch your p if the tommy will pose a barrier to your entry. I didn't mean a man with a small p lacks sexual prowess. Kiddo.

For your info, I don't have a big tommy.. Deal with it.

Eulalia:

The fact that you can say men with small p doesn't have the banging ability shows how ignorant





The above was not what I meant by my statement. Its not my fault you lack the cognitive skills to comprehend a simple text. Let me help you explain in simpler terms. I only stated you stretch your p if the tommy will pose a barrier to your entry. I didn't mean a man with a small p lacks sexual prowess. Kiddo.



For your info, I don't have a big tommy.. Deal with it.

Stay there and be claiming flat tommy geng with your big stomach like Toyota air bag Lol
Don't goann find solution to it and be waiting for one dumb guy to appreciate your look

DaddyRochie1642:







Smoking doesn't cause big Stomach

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Researchers may not consider smoking to be a direct cause of belly fat, but they do believe it to be a risk factor.

A 2012 study published in the journal showed that, although obesity was the same between smokers and nonsmokers, smokers had more belly and visceral fat than nonsmokers.

HammedOlanaija:

Stay there and be claiming flat tommy geng with your big stomach like Toyota air bag Lol
Don't goann find solution to it and be waiting for one dumb guy to appreciate your look

No need to be pained, dear. Im only trying to resett your reasoning faculty to default.
Stop fantasizing and start being real to yourself cos the world we live in is very REAL.!!!

Michelle55:
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Researchers may not consider smoking to be a direct cause of belly fat, but they do believe it to be a risk factor.

A 2012 study published in the journal showed that, although obesity was the same between smokers and nonsmokers, smokers had more belly and visceral fat than nonsmokers.

Smoking is bad to health and we all know
But saying smoking cause big belly is out of it....smokers often drink beers to neutralize the smoke in their body and as a result they tend to have pot belly thereafter

Eulalia:


No need to be pained, dear. Im only trying to resett your reasoning faculty to default.
Stop fantasizing and start being real to yourself cos the world we live in is very REAL.!!!

Who is suppose to be real between us when you are the one claiming flat tummy you don't have. Lol
There is nothing like be real to your self with that kind of psychological and cultural thinking that big stomachs shows you are dating good food and doing well....when you can exercise and ease those fat and starch no matter how much it is......Work out! Stop playing "Be real to your self" card when you can spin the table to what you want and desire but laziness won't let you

Eulalia:


No need to be pained, dear. Im only trying to resett your reasoning faculty to default.
Stop fantasizing and start being real to yourself cos the world we live in is very REAL.!!!

This is how they trick guys when they refuse to call them and fail to patronize their look base on their stomach segment.
They start begging or doing eye service

HammedOlanaija:

If you no give em strong food in execss they will kill you with nagging Lol
So is better you give them their Eba,fufu and chicken everyday don't forget Chocolate,golden morning and others ooo especially corn flakes with milk and one tipper of sugar

To some extent you are right Op. But I won't speak for the singles, either male or the female. If you like turn yourself to Broiler it's your choice.

Now let's talk about the married. The tendency of a lady getting more flesh after birthing is high depending on some factors which I may not be able to discuss now. But irrespective of that, once you're married, you watch out for each other. As a woman once your see that you man is getting to fleshy, with big belly and probably acquiring bresz like you, tell him jokingly babe do you mind if I dash you one of my bra. He will get the message, play with him and tell him you love to see that nice body again not just because of that, but because of his HEALTH as well.

For the man, once you see that madam is getting unnecessary fat, don't complain, show love to her and then reveal your intention. Go to the nearest gym, make inquiry and get her registered. The 1st week, ensure you take her there yourself stay with her if your job permits it. The subsequent week, she finds her way to the gym. All through this time, she may not really find it funny, but keep encouraging her, tell her she is now looking more beautiful. Her head will begin to swell up, then She puts in more effort. She will love you for this because you took that bold step on her behalf first and when the result comes out she will love her new shape, people will compliment her for the new look and she will in turn love you more for pushing her there.

Plan a swimming excercise together sometimes, she will love it and it will help her and even you as well.


All that I've written above ain't theory, I just spoke from a first hand experience I had. You can as well buy it if You think it will help you and your spouse. I know some people it has worked for and I believe I can work for you as well if you really put yourself to work.

Final words to the married ladies. In the voice of a great mentor of mine in person of Myles Munroe. He said " women, before you were married, you were chaseable. Please remain chaseable after marriage."

Final word the the men. Abeg hustle oooooo because if you don't have enough money and time how do you plan all that I've written above. Most of the time on issue like this we are to take the 1st step before madam go follow. But if doh no dey, hmm you will be handicapped.

Above all marry person u fit relate with o. If you marry a man or lady you can't relate with, even at your first move to help each other, either party will see it as if you're not interested again or probably you now have an option out there.

HammedOlanaija:






Hally berry and screen Goddess Beyonce with adesua......tell me how this kind of woman's husband will not cheat on her when he ask for it but got rejected.
These might be the case for your role models too....their wife might think it's only an inexperienced man that will seek for sex all the time.

Hammed why are u so pained about real men are not complaining about women with big tummy ?
At least u can't marry all the women in the country or even bed every woman in every local govt, states and villages with towns from the east, west, south and north .
You've not been able to even keep one gf just one ! to stick with you through thick and thin.

You are there wailing all over Nairaland about ladies with tummy.

Is it your tummy ?
Are all the women in Nigeria dating you or married to you ?

With your crazy imagination, u assume to lift my leg for sex a man will fall?
Did I tell u im free for all to sex with ?

Are we mates for gods sakes?

Or is my man complaining to you about my thick body ?
So why take it personal?

Please if u have crazy imaginations of sexing every woman in Nigeria . Just keep such thoughts to yourself and stop disgracing yourself online .let's be guided.
You are not in my social class in the society and all over Nigeria .

So just keep shut and stop ranting like a deranged ekuke.

Dbeautyy:
To some extent you are right Op. But I won't speak for the singles, either male or the female. If you like turn yourself to Broiler it's your choice.

Now let's talk about the married. The tendency of a lady getting more flesh after birthing is high depending on some factors which I may not be able to discuss now. But irrespective of that, once you're married, you watch out for each other. As a woman once your see that you man is getting to fleshy, with big belly and probably acquiring bresz like you, tell him jokingly babe do you mind if I dash you one of my bra. He will get the message, play with him and tell him you love to see that nice body again not just because of that, but because of his HEALTH as well.

For the man, once you see that madam is getting unnecessary fat, don't complain, show love to her and then reveal your intention. Go to the nearest gym, make inquiry and get her registered. The 1st week, ensure you take her there yourself stay with her if your job permits it. The subsequent week, she finds her way to the gym. All through this time, she may not really find it funny, but keep encouraging her, tell her she is now looking more beautiful. Her head will begin to swell up, then She puts in more effort. She will love you for this because you took that bold step on her behalf first and when the result comes out she will love her new shape, people will compliment her for the new look and she will in turn love you more for pushing her there.

Plan a swimming excercise together sometimes, she will love it and it will help her and even you as well.


All that I've written above ain't theory, I just spoke from a first hand experience I had. You can as well buy it if You think it will help you and your spouse. I know some people it has worked for and I believe I can work for you as well if you really put yourself to work.

Final words to the married ladies. In the voice of a great mentor of mine in person of Myles Munroe. He said " women, before you were married, you were chaseable. Please remain chaseable after marriage."

Final word the the men. Abeg hustle oooooo because if you don't have enough money and time how do you plan all that I've written above. Most of the time on issue like this we are to take the 1st step before madam go follow. But if doh no dey, hmm you will be handicapped.

Above all marry person u fit relate with o. If you marry a man or lady you can't relate with, even at your first move to help each other, either party will see it as if you're not interested again or probably you now have an option out there.

Abi ooo but going to gym doesn't seem to help these days when gym instructor is busy carrying his own 6pack up and down...they will just be having fun with her body.
Why not do daily exercise everyday,run and exercise in the street alone and if you cant, you can tell him to tag along to increase the fun..Have you ever noticed how beautiful couples look like when they gym together in there trainers running early in the morning with their headphones or earphones on

HammedOlanaija:




No even talk am my own mama don born 4 and she no get belly

It can't be the same for every woman.

If the big tummy is natural, no big deal. But if it is induced by beer and inkwobi, for get it.

HammedOlanaija:

These are still the kind of pple their husband go carry go hospital go adjust their clitoris after childbirth
On top say em no dey enjoy am during sex and the husband too dey do am but for his wife nah thinks he is not strong and can't bang her to her own maximum satisfaction
So?

I sincerely don't understand what you are typing .

HammedOlanaija:

All I see in this comment is laziness,the fact that you guys are fat in your family doesn't mean you have to be fat too.....why don't you exercise and stand out with you unique look......try it once even the families will join you too except the lazy ones among them

I don't know why I am beginning to think you are a lazy man seeking for where to pour out is aggressions. Not every lady will turn you on . Look for your partner and marry .

HammedOlanaija:
You know when making a choice for marriage....someone has to deal with African girls,especially nigerian girls big tummy that doesn't make them a pretty much attractive.Can you skip the tummy part of her and still go on to marry her?

Nope. That's why I like them young and sweet in the middle. There should be a difference between her before and after marriage pictures.

xynerise:
Stomach size is now one of the criteria for a successful marriage?


Children of nowadays sha

I just tire

Ricchcream:
Nope. That's why I like them young and sweet in the middle. There should be a difference between her before and after marriage pictures.

Louder

victorian:









Hammed why are u so pained about real men are not complaining about women with big tummy ?
At least u can't marry all the women in the country or even bed every woman in every local govt, states and villages with towns from the east, west, south and north .
You've not been able to even keep one gf just one ! to stick with you through thick and thin.

You are there wailing all over Nairaland about ladies with tummy.

Is it your tummy ?
Are all the women in Nigeria dating you or married to you ?

With your crazy imagination, u assume to lift my leg for sex a man will fall?
Did I tell u im free for all to sex with ?

Are we mates for gods sakes?

Or is my man complaining to you about my thick body ?
So why take it personal?

Please if u have crazy imaginations of sexing every woman in Nigeria . Just keep such thoughts to yourself and stop disgracing yourself online .let's be guided.
You are not in my social class in the society and all over Nigeria .

So just keep shut and stop ranting like a deranged ekuke.

of cos I can't marry all the women in the country,and you telling me shit about your class or rank abi nah royal princess wey you be
I don't give a Bleep....And wait you were saying something about social class.Who you be?
you can't be here telling me ehnnnn "Am this, am that" when I don't even know you.
There is nothing like crazy imaginations here as you had mentioned.Most men cheat because their wife doesn't come up with attractive and beautiful look
Am not saying men with beautiful wife doesn't cheat but who knows what might had transpired between them that caused the involvement of a concubine in their relationship.Go and exercise to stay fit and stop carrying this filthy thing you call a ass around social platforms thinking everyone wants to cheat like your husband.
Bewarned! no one is here to talk about sexing each other or whatever it is you thought is dripping here.
You just need to stick to the fact that you are big and unattractive....Spin the table and let it favor you
Stop calling hammed around like I stole your property

selfwife:
I don't know why I am beginning to think you are a lazy man seeking for where to pour out is aggressions. Not every lady will turn you on . Look for your partner and marry .

Why do you want every lady to turn me on anyway?
You are the lazy one girl! Stop strangling that waist to impress us on social media.Work for it
Don't be lazy!