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For Some Single Ladies That May Be Wondering Why They Are Still Single by Imoh555(m): 5:25pm On Apr 23, 2020
For some single ladies that may be wondering why they are still single and want to get married please read, digest and practise these few points.

KNOW THE KIND OF THINGS YOU POST ON FACEBOOK.
Most ladies don’t care about what they post on facebook. Any man that wants to date you could ask you if you are on facebook. Some of them use it to assess the kind of lady you are. You want to settle down, but each time you upload pictures, you must be with different guys, in different cars and different hotel rooms. Your updates are always like " flexing things on mind, clubbing mood activated, last night was really hot and sweet, ‘boo’ you are the best, feeling hot, etc." Any man who sees this kind of update will only come to you with sweet mouth just to follow chop and clean mouth. Some men can do anything; they will tell you what you want to hear and go extra mile just to have a test of your puny. When they get it, they will start behaving somehow just to discharge you and move to the next victim.

ALWAYS EATING OUTSIDE WITH YOUR MAN.
95% of men like to eat at home. If your man doesn’t eat your meal, please check very well, it could be that you don’t know how to cook. Don’t always go to fast food with your man to eat. Once in a while, tell him to give you that money so that you can prepare a delicious meal for both of you and it will be bigger, sweeter and cheaper. This will make him see signs of wife material in you and as someone that can manage family resources. If you always eat fastfood with him, he will spend the money on you, use you, dump you and look for a homely girl that knows how to cook when he wants to settle down.

DON’T BE TOO DEMANDING.
This one is the major part that scares men away. Even the poorest guy will still tell you that you are a gold digger while he doesn’t even have a pin let alone have gold to give.
Please ladies don’t be too demanding, unless you know the guy wants to just chop and clean mouth. some men that are married today are victims of this. They may have intention of coming to chop and clean mouth but seeing your character, they will cherish you and propose to you. I believe that any responsible man that truly loves you must love to spend on you no matter how little he has. Unless the guy doesn’t care. Every responsible man knows his responsibilities in the family. Being too demanding will only scare him away. Just mellow down. After marriage everything will still be your own.

THE KIND OF MAKE-UP YOU PUT ON.
Men love girls that put on less or natural make-up when it comes to life partner. If you are the type that put on heavy make-up and your man doesn’t tell you or complain, please just bear in mind that deep inside him, you are just his sex mate, flexing and outing mate. When he wants to settle down, he will go for a natural-looking girl. That is when you will be asking yourself what he saw in that local girl. Please dear, he knows what he saw in her and also what he wants when it comes to marriage. Abi you wan use the whole feeding money for house de buy make-up?

KNOW THE KIND OF AGE YOU DATE.
You can’t be 24yrs and above and be dating a guy of 22-27 yrs and you expect him to start pressurizing you about marriage in this our country. As a young lady, immediately you are approaching 24yrs, always date a serious and mature persoñ of 26 years and above because some of his thinking will also be on choosing a life partner.

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Re: For Some Single Ladies That May Be Wondering Why They Are Still Single by theophorus(m): 5:25pm On Apr 23, 2020
Op leave matter for Matthias. there is no rule for this issue joor. The way Love dey happen dey wonderment me self. So forget all these rules. Person go miss all of them still Marry while some go follow all still no marry.

Make all men just pray for Grace and Favour.

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Re: For Some Single Ladies That May Be Wondering Why They Are Still Single by AroOkigbo(m): 5:26pm On Apr 23, 2020
Shiloh is the solution las las

but OP, why you come de reveal all these nah
Re: For Some Single Ladies That May Be Wondering Why They Are Still Single by Millenniumlady(f): 5:33pm On Apr 23, 2020
On today's episode on things that never happened.
Re: For Some Single Ladies That May Be Wondering Why They Are Still Single by Nobody: 5:38pm On Apr 23, 2020
theophorus:
Op leave matter for Matthias. there is no rule for this issue joor. The way Love dey happen dey wonderment me self. So forget all these rules. Person go miss all of them still Marry while some go follow all still no marry.

Make all men just pray for Grace and Favour.
Tell'em
Re: For Some Single Ladies That May Be Wondering Why They Are Still Single by JONNYSPUTE(m): 5:48pm On Apr 23, 2020
Very funny. All you wrote here is good but that's not the major issue.
If only ladies will stop putting those guys that truly love them in friend zone and start seeing future with them,things will be a little more easier.
But no,they want to be with that guy they love so much who doesn't even care about their existence,they will end up getting bleeped and dumped.
Marry the one that truly loves you and ready to lay his life for your happiness and enjoy marriage.
Yes,they will ask,how can I stay with somebody I don't feel anything for? Oh yes,if he is good to be friend zoned,that means you like him and feel something for him. The truth is that most ladies are confused.

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