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Can Two Become One When The Other Needs Privacy? by Nobody: 4:38pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
I know that everyone has a right to privacy. But in marriage, can the two still become one when one of the couple really cares about having his/her own privacy? Please, I may not be so directional on my definition of privacy, as I do not expect any biased comment. Thanks
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Re: Can Two Become One When The Other Needs Privacy? by bukatyne(f): 4:42pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
SIR0: What is your definition of privacy? 1 Like |
Re: Can Two Become One When The Other Needs Privacy? by kalufelix(m): 4:43pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
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Re: Can Two Become One When The Other Needs Privacy? by Tpave(m): 4:44pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
bukatyne:Good question 1 Like |
Re: Can Two Become One When The Other Needs Privacy? by Nobody: 4:47pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
bukatyne:Being secretive |
Re: Can Two Become One When The Other Needs Privacy? by bukatyne(f): 4:49pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
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Re: Can Two Become One When The Other Needs Privacy? by Bartork(m): 7:27pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
SIR0: It's dicy If it's to pray or maybe read for promotion and he/she wants to lockup in the room it's OK... But in most cases why the lockup when your partner will understand your focus and would be willing to give you some space. I believe no need for privacy. It's easier to be one when understanding of needs are shared not when one still acts like a single Even prospective couples share a lot these days... So I doubt if two can be one when undefined privacy sets 1 Like |
Re: Can Two Become One When The Other Needs Privacy? by HiFreda(f): 8:39pm On Apr 29, 2020 |
Guy wants to get married, but still live the single life! Oga, that is not how it works oo. When you decide to get married, it means you have made room for another person to be in your space. 2 Likes |
Re: Can Two Become One When The Other Needs Privacy? by crackkhaus: 6:59pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
SIR0:Needing privacy and being secretive are two very different things. When you've been with someone for a while, it becomes very unnecessary to be in each other's space/company ALL THE TIME... privacy is required sometimes and a good partner would respect it. Being secretive on the other hand is never a good thing in the long run, especially on things which your partner will inadvertently get to find out from someone else. 3 Likes |
Re: Can Two Become One When The Other Needs Privacy? by ibkayee(f): 8:25pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
I think you can have a healthy level of boundaries between married partners. Some things/information can not be a certain person’s business, but the thing/information itself isn’t necessarily deceitful, harmful to the relationship, ‘incriminating’ etc 1 Like |
Re: Can Two Become One When The Other Needs Privacy? by Nobody: 9:36pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
You form a joint unit when you get married, but at the same time, you should maintain your own individual autonomy. You should change "privacy" to "secretive" in your title because there's no synonymity with being private and being secretive. 1 Like |
Re: Can Two Become One When The Other Needs Privacy? by Olunmercy56(f): 2:52am On May 01, 2020 |
Amos 3:3.. there most be a solid agreement with love. |
Re: Can Two Become One When The Other Needs Privacy? by Nobody: 8:56am On May 01, 2020 |
I can't deal with someone that claims to love me yet don't want to involve me in their lives. Opening up helps with the bond too. |
Re: Can Two Become One When The Other Needs Privacy? by Nobody: 12:59pm On May 01, 2020 |
privacy might be a boundary. so, dont over-exaggerate |
Re: Can Two Become One When The Other Needs Privacy? by Nobody: 2:59pm On May 01, 2020 |
I nor get secret, I tell my wife everything including income inflow, ATM pins and all internet banking logins and investments. Some people have advised against such openness but I know who I married. Study your partner and know if he or she deserves to know everything about you. Some partners will ruin you if you are that open. To each his own. If privacy means occasional alone time, then yes. Everyone needs that space from time to time. |
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