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Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by BabaD94(m): 10:36pm On Apr 30, 2020
Eulalia:
At least, six months. So that the vaginal walls that expanded during delivery can can contract back to normal. My mum taught me this and during their time, it was 1 year before they resume. Resuming almost immediately weakens the walls and getting them back together is usually difficult cos it was not given enough time to heal. And that is why mother's of today after one or two children have slack VJ and Begin to run to us for vagina tightening. That was why during our mothers time you hardly find women looking for vagina tightening remedy.

So 6 months to 1 year is fine. It will also help mother and child to stay healthy.
Do you hear yourself when reading it to you? Does it make sense?
I should wait for one year before I nack my property? �

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Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by Poorboy41: 10:36pm On Apr 30, 2020
But why?
Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by Dameland: 10:36pm On Apr 30, 2020
Eulalia:
At least, six months. So that the vaginal walls that expanded during delivery can can contract back to normal. My mum taught me this and during their time, it was 1 year before they resume. Resuming almost immediately weakens the walls and getting them back together is usually difficult cos it was not given enough time to heal. And that is why mother's of today after one or two children have slack VJ and Begin to run to us for vagina tightening. That was why during our mothers time you hardly find women looking for vagina tightening remedy.

So 6 months to 1 year is fine. It will also help mother and child to stay healthy.



3 - 6 weeks after normal childbirth is a good time to start 're-initiating sexual intercourse . What will the couple be doing for 6 months? Staring at each other and just touching?

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Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by buzorcharles(m): 10:36pm On Apr 30, 2020
Tpave:

While there's no required waiting period before you can have sex again, many health care providers recommend waiting to have sex until four to six weeks after delivery, regardless of the delivery method. The risk of having a complication after delivery is highest during the first two weeks after delivery.


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Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by Dirpetaner: 10:36pm On Apr 30, 2020
Eulalia:


A disciplined man will wait. Besides penetration is not the only way of relieving/satisfying sextual desires. The woman can help with other methods to relieve the hubby. So many ways.

You are a woman. You don't have balls. You can never understand us. Abi who understand why male fowl runs after female fowl with no payments involved. It's called balls. Monogamy is a scam. There is nothing like discipline men. We all have testosterone-producing inside our blood. We need woman we don't care sometimes who the girl is. Our nature is not monogamy. Women don't worth the stress with all the problems you people dump on us. If not for sexual urge and procreation we won't go into the black market. Now, that we have crazy libido it puts you in advantageous position. Don't misuse it. Give what belong to caesar to caesar.

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Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by zedegit: 10:36pm On Apr 30, 2020
QueeenKKfire:
I need an urgent answer please.

1 month.
Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by watchindelta(m): 10:36pm On Apr 30, 2020
Eulalia:


Why use mouth. Not hygienic.
yes not hygiene after birth, but the wife can gv the husband head to calm things.

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Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by merits(m): 10:37pm On Apr 30, 2020
After 24hours oponu lasan ladan.
Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by bjtinz: 10:38pm On Apr 30, 2020
Babythicksme17:
Depends on your body and your partner.My boo even told me to wait till three month,so i can heal very well.If your man need to cum,give am better mouth gig. grin

Betaaaa pikin!! cool
Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by Ebifa85(m): 10:38pm On Apr 30, 2020
I think 10yrs is ok.

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Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by Nobody: 10:38pm On Apr 30, 2020
Dameland:




3 - 6 weeks after normal childbirth is a good time to start 're-initiating sexual intercourse . What will the couple be doing for 6 months? Staring at each other and just touching?

Ok.
Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by olabrinks(f): 10:39pm On Apr 30, 2020
Eulalia:
At least, six months. So that the vaginal walls that expanded during delivery can can contract back to normal. My mum taught me this and during their time, it was 1 year before they resume. Resuming almost immediately weakens the walls and getting them back together is usually difficult cos it was not given enough time to heal. And that is why mother's of today after one or two children have slack VJ and Begin to run to us for vagina tightening. That was why during our mothers time you hardly find women looking for vagina tightening remedy.

So 6 months to 1 year is fine. It will also help mother and child to stay healthy.
I don’t know why you’re spreading lies here please. Who is going to be tight will be tight regardless of how long you wait. It all depends on the individual, age, elasticity and hiw much the vagina expanded during delivery. Same way some women go right back into shape after delivery, some women remain fat for years. If you like stay away from sex for a year, if your elasticity is poor and your vagina expanded significantly with tears, it will leave some permanent damage that only surgery can treat. The only reason why olden day women didn’t use tightening creams, is simply because they didn’t have access to it.

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Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by buzorcharles(m): 10:40pm On Apr 30, 2020
Eulalia:
At least, six months. So that the vaginal walls that expanded during delivery can can contract back to normal. My mum taught me this and during their time, it was 1 year before they resume. Resuming almost immediately weakens the walls and getting them back together is usually difficult cos it was not given enough time to heal. And that is why mother's of today after one or two children have slack VJ and Begin to run to us for vagina tightening. That was why during our mothers time you hardly find women looking for vagina tightening remedy.

So 6 months to 1 year is fine. It will also help mother and child to stay healthy.


U for kuku say u hate sex. Abeg think abt ur husband for once. 6 month without sex= unstable marriage

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Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by Eduude(m): 10:40pm On Apr 30, 2020
six weeks, approximately 48 days which is the last post natal visit.

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Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by blessedinnoma(m): 10:40pm On Apr 30, 2020
Dpharisee:
A lady I know got pregnant during her first sex less than 2 months after delivery, the lack of child spacing created a big problem in the home and the husband left her to catch his fun, coming home late, grooving around town and putting all the blames on her while she struggled with a new baby and pregnancy cheesy
Women be careful with sex after delivery, take all precautions
Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by jamesjohn2010: 10:40pm On Apr 30, 2020
frozen70:


Normally, for vaginal births, it takes up to three months so that the left over clotted bloods would have gone out and the womb would have set in properly and her body system getting back to normal

For those with CS, it may take longer due to the fact that her stomach stitches can be bruised and that's not a good one to withness

In all, a woman should know when she is set but giving then time up to that minimum of three months, helps to erase any issues health wise

Am not a doctor but am talking from my own experience


Individual inclination varies, if this works for you fine. Clotted blood/ discharge(lochia) clears 10-14 days for uncomplicated delivery (cs or svd). A few delay till 6 week ( puerperium). If the woman stops having pain and discharge and comfortable ( even at 2 week postpartum -post- delivery-) she is good to go. If these persist, coitus may have to be delayed, until she is treated or gets well.

#It is individualized.

Check those I have quoted already as fine.

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Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by Nobody: 10:40pm On Apr 30, 2020
Dirpetaner:


You are a woman. You don't have balls. You can never understand us. Abi who understand why male fowl runs after female fowl with no payments involved. It's called balls. Monogamy is a scam. There is nothing like discipline men. We all have testosterone-producing inside our blood. We need woman we don't care sometimes who the girl is. Our nature is not monogamy. Women don't worth the stress with all the problems you people dump on us. If not for sexual urge and procreation we won't go into the black market. Now, that we have crazy libido it puts you in advantageous position. Don't misuse it. Give what belong to caesar to caesar.


Ok.
Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by bjtinz: 10:40pm On Apr 30, 2020
Dameland:




3 - 6 weeks after normal childbirth is a good time to start 're-initiating sexual intercourse . What will the couple be doing for 6 months? Staring at each other and just touching?

Cuddling, handjob, thighjob, and if she is comfortable, mouth. .
Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by Tomilola360: 10:41pm On Apr 30, 2020
missimelda01:
I assume it would hurt down there for a while after childbirth, why not wait until the pain is gone and it's a bit tight

You fine ooo �
Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by sureheaven(m): 10:43pm On Apr 30, 2020
My wife and I started yanking after three weeks

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Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by fotadmowmend(m): 10:43pm On Apr 30, 2020
The next day
... Wetin dey worry all u small pikins gan
Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by wiseone28: 10:44pm On Apr 30, 2020
Amozever12:

Bros, that's more dangerous.U want kill the @woman, except u be sex pervert
nah i was just making fun..
Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by ridbell01(m): 10:44pm On Apr 30, 2020
Eulalia:
At least, six months. So that the vaginal walls that expanded during delivery can can contract back to normal. My mum taught me this and during their time, it was 1 year before they resume. Resuming almost immediately weakens the walls and getting them back together is usually difficult cos it was not given enough time to heal. And that is why mother's of today after one or two children have slack VJ and Begin to run to us for vagina tightening. That was why during our mothers time you hardly find women looking for vagina tightening remedy.

So 6 months to 1 year is fine. It will also help mother and child to stay healthy.
my sis don't try that now because before that 6 months your husband is a gooner
Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by Nobody: 10:44pm On Apr 30, 2020
Kubernetes:


Please what is the meaning of PAYG girls?
Pay as you go girls?
yea

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Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by zedegit: 10:45pm On Apr 30, 2020
Eulalia:


A disciplined man will wait. Besides penetration is not the only way of relieving/satisfying sextual desires. The woman can help with other methods to relieve the hubby. So many ways.


Mention other methods to help your fellow women save their marriage.
Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by pek(m): 10:46pm On Apr 30, 2020
Eulalia:
At least, six months. So that the vaginal walls that expanded during delivery can can contract back to normal. My mum taught me this and during their time, it was 1 year before they resume. Resuming almost immediately weakens the walls and getting them back together is usually difficult cos it was not given enough time to heal. And that is why mother's of today after one or two children have slack VJ and Begin to run to us for vagina tightening. That was why during our mothers time you hardly find women looking for vagina tightening remedy.

So 6 months to 1 year is fine. It will also help mother and child to stay healthy.
Either this is false or your mum was one of many wives. So your mum told you that the ideal time was one year and you believed her? A man who is not impotent will wait one year? Don't try this with your husband (when you get married).

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Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by Nobody: 10:46pm On Apr 30, 2020
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Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by Mellowrush: 10:47pm On Apr 30, 2020
Don't know of others but mine is 3months and 1week

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Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by dapaiks: 10:47pm On Apr 30, 2020
40 days according to islam. This is to enable the after birth blood stop flowing completely and to also enable the elastic muscular canal heal and regain back its elasticity properties.

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Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by jamesbridget13(f): 10:47pm On Apr 30, 2020
Minimum 6 weeks
Maximum 3 months

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Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by Fearcom(m): 10:48pm On Apr 30, 2020
Eulalia:


Buahahahahaaaa.. this your meme eh? I don laugh taya.
Well, like I said, there are other ways you can help relieve ogar without him necessarily penetrating. I mean ... It for your own good. As for me, that's what I'll do when I get married. Because after listening to complains of Young mothers who after child birth could not get their hooha back to size, I resolved within me to observe the full waiting period. Our mothers know better.

Hubby will have to chilax o because if anything goes wrong, they'll jump on the next available mhm.. Lol


Let me tell you the GOSPEL TRUTH!

Marriage is about compromises.

Unless your intended fully agrees freely (YOU HAVE TO DISCUSS IT WITH HIM AND ALSO SEEK SPIRITUAL COUNSEL)and you ask him to be patient, then you will have no issues rather than saying that's what I WILL DO.

You can't make rigid decisions for the two of you so as not to create a precedent where your spouse will also make a rigid decision involving the two of you in another issue.

One full year because you gave birth A birth without complications

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Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by merit455(m): 10:49pm On Apr 30, 2020
Tboy1419:
. Only a small cock complain of big vagina, so you expect me to wait till 6month before strafing my wife or girlfriend after child birth, then what's the purpose of marriage, is it not all about sex and giving birth.
so the purpose of marriage is about sex,small boy

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