GreatResearcher1:
that 4th means 4 x 40

Nawaoo, she said so and I believe

Jgoldie:
F.cck her till her gamgambila swells and starts pulsating like Madt

Do this morning and night for 3 days

She will never disturb you for s.ex

Na wa for you o!

Odingo1:

Nawaoo, she said so and I believe

take her word at ur own peril

Odingo1:
I am really tired of the situation, always get angry if I ask her about her daily activities or her movement, lie most of the time and always said she is sex starved. We don’t live in the same state but have met 1 month ago(That is after visiting her for 3 days and leave, not upto 1 month she will be complaining bitterly of been in need of sex).Always bug about sex. I will tell her that this sex of thing is even a sin that she should be more into church issue then we will begin to quarrel about that. Hardly go to church or pray, Any advice on way forward or for me to jakpaa. She is 23 and I am 29. The relationship is 9 months but so deep that parents of both side know each other.

Honestly bro
Wife to be?
Both parents are aware?

The way she's saying that she's sex staved, sometime other people will help her out, she's just telling you that, since you know she love sex, but if am in your shoes I won't dare to marry such lady, she don't attend church often, she don't pray often, she gets angry easily, she's a nymphomaniac well bro Japa cause such women hardly keeps home !

Give her my number

gaius01:



Honestly bro
Wife to be?
Both parents are aware?

The way she's saying that she's sex staved, sometime other people will help her out, she's just telling you that, since you know she love sex, but if am in your shoes I won't dare to marry such lady, she don't attend church often, she don't pray often, she gets angry easily, she's a nymphomaniac well bro Japa cause such women hardly keeps home !

Thanks, considering, have try to change her to be attending church but no result

Odingo1:

Thanks, considering, have try to change her to be attending church but no result

But if you are truly convince you guy can fit, just pray for her and watch

gaius01:



But if you are truly convince you guy can fit, just pray for her and watch

I am considering postponing the marriage till further notice to check if we I can continue.

Odingo1:

I am considering postponing the marriage till further notice to check if we I can continue.

I concur with that idea, study her, talk her tru and tell her your condition to marry her, so that after marriage she woñt go to church, you will be the one carry the children to church and most important tell boths parents about this so that you won't be bleam, probably you guys split of which am not praying for

Odingo1:
She is not olosho. I am his 4th body count

Forget that thing...Na format

Odingo1:

Yes when we started she was nice but 9 months down the line things have changed a lot. She keep on changing and coming up with strange things

Whatever you see in courtship will double after marriage. Good luck

Odingo1:


I think I explain much;

1. we don’t live in the same State, we use to meet and have sex every 1 or 2 months but she complain of been Hot or starved if leave and return to my base. I will tell about chastity and moving close to prayer na quarrel.She is still in school.

2. Always angry is try to inquire or ask her about her daily activities

3. Lie easily

4. I am tired but stuck with her do to relatives and girl parents.

Who relatives or girl parents help na Dem wan marry her for u.... My guy lemme just tell u, u her not the only guy in her life so my advice for u is to just jakpaa and by d way u said she is still in school hmmm �.... Just jakpaa and go and find ur ribs of ur ribs

Odingo1:
I am really tired of the situation, always get angry if I ask her about her daily activities or her movement, lie most of the time and always said she is sex starved. We don’t live in the same state but have met 1 month ago(That is after visiting her for 3 days and leave, not upto 1 month she will be complaining bitterly of been in need of sex).Always bug about sex. I will tell her that this sex of thing is even a sin that she should be more into church issue then we will begin to quarrel about that. Hardly go to church or pray, Any advice on way forward or for me to jakpaa. She is 23 and I am 29. The relationship is 9 months but so deep that parents of both side know each other.

i will tell you to back off. She's still young and want to explore. So you might end up with emotional trauma. Don't be too late to do that.

4. I am tired but stuck with her do to relatives and girl parents I cant believe I read this Op, you get luck say I don bake I no get strength. But you are seriously without brains in this century.. Beta start smoking ondo weed make your head open because you are seeing with your nostrils and sneezing with your eye balls at your age.

Odingo1:
I am really tired of the situation, always get angry if I ask her about her daily activities or her movement, lie most of the time and always said she is sex starved. We don’t live in the same state but have met 1 month ago(That is after visiting her for 3 days and leave, not upto 1 month she will be complaining bitterly of been in need of sex).Always bug about sex. I will tell her that this sex of thing is even a sin that she should be more into church issue then we will begin to quarrel about that. Hardly go to church or pray, Any advice on way forward or for me to jakpaa. She is 23 and I am 29. The relationship is 9 months but so deep that parents of both side know each other.

Interstate dating is a waste of time.

Openbusiness:

Interstate dating is a waste of time.

But what of people that live abroad and their wife is in Nigeria

At least she's being honest with you.

Should I tell him?

Perfect recipe for BDSM. Turn your lemons to lemonade

OP please ask yourself truthfully, can you cope with her attitude for life? Because from confirm research, people hardly change and don't change your ways for her either. If you like go ahead with the relationship, experience is always the best teacher.

U re nt 100% sure and you are her 4th boyfriends do u knw why the 1st 3 left her or what??u better let her be b4 u kill urself because of her

Odingo1:

She seems to be faithful but not 100% sure

Odingo1:

But what of people that live abroad and their wife is in Nigeria

It never ends well. Unless we want to be deceiving ourselves. Either the woman will cheat or the man will cheat or both of them will be cheating. But you see a man can cheat without his emotions, and he can readjust and cut off quick but once a woman starts to cheat, it is over, there is always emotional attachment, she might stop seeing the person, but a part of her midn and heart will always be there and if situations align properly again in future, she can still kickstart old flames with an old lover, not to mention she will still find another new lover to fill the space the old lover left inside her emotional storage. The husband should just forget it, she is gone. He can never have her too himself emotionally again. She will be cheating in secret even if the settle the matter. Women are more EXPERT in cheating in SECRET than men!

Jgoldie:
F.cck her till her gamgambila swells and starts pulsating like Madt

Do this morning and night for 3 days

She will never disturb you for s.ex

you dis geh! ayam susspekteeen you!√

This is the disadvantage of having olosho as girlfriend

Odingo1:

Yes when we started she was nice but 9 months down the line things have changed a lot. She keep on changing and coming up with strange things

I'd say u put the marriage plans on hold... Make u no go hear story that touches the heart...

Odingo1:

But we are not living in the same state and not yet married. But we meet every month or in two months in rare occasions.

if u can't make the trip, send her transport money so that u get to see ever every 2 weeks and give her all the sex you can. Otherwise she is definitely going to cheat on you

Odingo1:
I am really tired of the situation, always get angry if I ask her about...The relationship is 9 months but so deep that parents of both side know each other.

So a girl your older than by a whole 6 years is ordering you around all in the name of relationship?

Her anger issues alone are already a red flag!

What you're seeing now is just 10%, when you marry her if you're foolish enough to do so you'll see the whole 100%!

You guys are clearly not compatible and the marriage shouldn’t hold.
Reasons: 1. She has a high urge for sex which you cannot match. Forget the lies ppl tell you. Sex is a major factor in marriage after money.

2. She has anger issues judging by what you put up here and you don’t seem ready or capable to condone it

If you like go ahead, I pray you won’t be back to open another thread after the marriage asking for advice

Oga run for your life , when u get married you will see worst attitudes if she can't cubb this ones now then imagine when the bombshell attitudes drop cos na when she don turn comfortable for your house na him the super attitudes go comot hmmmmm ,make hay while the Sunshine's, no use ur money go buy hbp and trouble oh ,Naija problem alone fit kill talk more of woman wey no fit give u peace ,use your brain ooo.

James4bright:
You can't even elaborate well, what's going on in your relationship and you expect incisive advice. Nobody is a magician here.

you deserve a beer

It's called, nympho. She's a nympho. Check out the meaning, you need to bail asap. They're never satisfied

Odingo1:
I am really tired of the situation, always get angry if I ask her about her daily activities or her movement, lie most of the time and always said she is sex starved. We don’t live in the same state but have met 1 month ago(That is after visiting her for 3 days and leave, not upto 1 month she will be complaining bitterly of been in need of sex).Always bug about sex. I will tell her that this sex of thing is even a sin that she should be more into church issue then we will begin to quarrel about that. Hardly go to church or pray, Any advice on way forward or for me to jakpaa. She is 23 and I am 29. The relationship is 9 months but so deep that parents of both side know each other.

From the look of your story I think you guys lack trust for each other. She can be lying about somethings how did you know? Most couples do omit certain truths to cut the discussion short or some other silly excuses that might sprout from their head in a relationship. She might have other sexual partners or you might have other sexual partners and both of you sense it but are too afraid to tell each other the truth. If you know she is the one for you I think you guys should see a therapist but Bleep it I don't think there is time for that or still you will turn down the advice but there is no harm in talking deeply with her. Relationship is all about patience and understanding!
Just thinking out loud though