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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 8:37pm On Jul 27, 2021
khia:


You can't love and respect people while lying on them. You should say that about the women you have been with because all BA women aren't the same.
Apologies...didn't mean to rub off that way...i like a woman with good libido, I mean it in a good way.
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by khia: 8:46pm On Jul 27, 2021
Naijaibo:

Apologies...didn't mean to rub off that way...i like a woman with good libido, I mean it in a good way.

You can find that in any race/nationality of women including your Nigerian women.
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 8:47pm On Jul 27, 2021
khia:


You can find that in any race/nationality of women including your Nigerian women.
Variety is life wink

I like something different, opposites attract, I like one that love Africa though, cos I love the weather and food here.
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by khia: 8:49pm On Jul 27, 2021
Naijaibo:

Variety is life wink

I like something different, opposites attract, I like one that love Africa though, cos I love the weather and food here.

Fine, just don't make it seem like BA women are on the prowl searching for dick.
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 8:50pm On Jul 27, 2021
khia:


Fine, just don't make it seem like BA women are on the prowl searching for dick.
Okay I get...I didn't mean it that way, you are kind of insinuating now grin
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by khia: 8:54pm On Jul 27, 2021
Naijaibo:

Okay I get...I didn't mean it that way, you are kind of insinuating now grin

I'm quoting you " They love DICK for sure" how am I insinuating anything?
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 9:04pm On Jul 27, 2021
khia:


I'm quoting you " They love DICK for sure" how am I insinuating anything?
Apologies...you seem cool, can I message you, email...
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by khia: 9:07pm On Jul 27, 2021
Naijaibo:

Apologies
Accepted! smiley
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 9:08pm On Jul 27, 2021
khia:

Accepted! smiley
smiley
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by khia: 9:09pm On Jul 27, 2021
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 9:15pm On Jul 27, 2021
khia:
wink
Check your email smiley
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Firefyta: 10:00pm On Dec 11, 2021
Should i backoff now?

Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Ishilove: 10:07pm On Dec 11, 2021
Firefyta:
Should i backoff now?
Guy abort and look for another way to get your green card. No way there

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Albertone(m): 11:28pm On Dec 11, 2021
Firefyta:
Should i backoff now?

Where una dey see these akatas na? cry
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by 2buffagain(m): 3:38am On Dec 12, 2021
Firefyta:
Should i backoff now?

Abort mission. Find the next maga.
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by khiaa(f): 12:16pm On Dec 12, 2021
2buffagain:


Abort mission. Find the next maga.

Buffy, you know you're wrong for this. angry
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Firefyta: 12:19pm On Dec 12, 2021
2buffagain:


Abort mission. Find the next maga.
I'm not reasoning in your context
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by dazzlingd(m): 9:08pm On Dec 28, 2022
Next tip: African American women are very insecure. So don't cheat on them.

African American women are very possessive. And I mean that. Once they see you are a good Nigerian guy with money, prospects, potentials, money, a nice job, your own house or apartment, etc, they will cling to you like super glue to fingers. They know you are the best they have ever had and will ever have. You are a complete opposite of what they have been with all their lives. So they will begin to do EVERYTHING IN THEIR POWER TO KEEP YOU. At this point in the relationship, everything is sweet. She will research YouTube for how to cook Nigerian meals. She will research on Nigerian culture, attire, pidgin English, etc. She will also begin to watch YouTube videos on Nigerian weddings and she will begin to listen to Nigerian songs. She will invest all her time, effort, money, and her everything on you.

She will also begin to imagine herself as the bride in those grand Nigerian weddings that are on YouTube where the bridesmaids and groomsmen are dancing Davido and Burna Boy songs. At this point she is building her dreams and seeing herself like your wife already.

Because of all these lofty dreams she's having, please do not cheat on her. Cheating on her means those dreams won't come true eventually. She might just end your life if you destroy those dreams. grin

One of the best lines I’ve read on nairaland grin

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Sladem05: 2:17am On Apr 07
2buffagain:


Say all this to the black american women who get instantly wet as soon as they meet a Nigerian brother out here. I know this because I get this reaction all the time from AA. They know we take care of our women and provide for them with pride.

As opposed to their Tyrone who can usually be seen flexing with their woman's car and comfortable being financially dependent on her for his livelihood. Her words, not mine. Those are normal aspects of your culture we do not ascribe to.

And I don't know why you are repeating me. I already told you that there is huge wealth disparity in Nigeria. You're either balling or you're not... And this is why when we as a group get to a place with opportunities... We don't dull like you do.

Yes you will see the poor young boys and girls in Nigeria working hard to make money to afford those school fees... Because they know the value of education and how it will change their life.
Yet your school fees are even free till college, yet some of you drop out of even FREE school, yet blaming everyone else. Your people don't take advantage of opportunities. You rather complain.

It is not about the poverty, it is about the heart. And a good percentage of you have the heart of lazy complainers. You would not survive the Nigerian hussle if you ever had to. And that is why when we get to the land you keep complaining about, we become the most educated and most accomplished group of people in your country. Also it is ignorant to think Nigerians are on the same level as other immigrants. We don't play when it comes to the level up and we are well known for that.

Go read facts.
But you know this already. It's why you are here, to look for a Nigerian man to save you from your wretched loneliness. We don't want you. undecided

You’re spitting facts, Though obviously Black America is far better off whether that be in terms standard of living or education compared to Africans. However For developed standards, They perform terribly. They lag behind other ethnic groups in the US significantly in all walks of life whether that is education, income, life expectancy and so on.

BA just fares better than Africans because they are in a highly advanced country. But it is fair to say that BA is a group of overprivellged brats that don’t realise how good they have it. If you put Africans and BA in the same environment. Africans will outperform them because Africans are tougher psychologically and mentally. If you survive in Africa, you have survived in the worst part of the world. There is no worse than Africa. If you survive in the jungle. You can survive anywhere on this planet. That’s why Africans succeed so much in the diaspora. Other than income and cultural influence, Black America is a joke compared to all the other Africans in the diaspora (except Africa offcourse) Blacks in Europe outperform African Americans.

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by 2buffagain(m): 7:46am On Apr 07
2buffagain:


Babe who said anything about republican or democrat?
I could care less about Trump.

I'm talking about black conservatives.
Black Conservatives will always be conservatives, no matter whether they side with the rats or the pubes on the political stage. grin
Trump is openly racist. Biden is undercover racist. It makes no difference. All that matters is what you build for your family and your community, not what the government will give you.

The Martin Luther King you guys talk about, was a conservative minded person.
He wanted a world where his blackness did not stop him from having the sole power to create the life we want, and the result of that struggle is the freedom BA have today. There were actual challenges those days.

Unfortunately with the fatherlessness of many BA families (due to racist police activities) and other oppressions (Jim crow, etc), the result so far has been a weakened demographic (by no fault of their own)...severely handicapped. You will never hear me say these things did not happen; they did and it sucked. But what you will always hear me say is to echo what the Spirit of God is also saying on that matter: "For how long will you continue to circle this mountain?". The years the locust and the cankerworms have eaten will be restored, IF you give yourself to self-reflection and set aside limiting beliefs of dependency and a false sense of right-to-misbehave.

In today's America, a conservative minded person is truly free and has done away with the unhelpful mind of a slave. This person believes that only they can create the life they want and that they have the sole power to do so.
This is true today. And because they also believe it, this is what manifests in their life. NOBODY gets anything in this life unless they believe it.
Many have become so comfortable with the victim mentality that they cannot even see themselves as victors and act accordingly. And then ofcourse next comes the hatred of those who look like them but DON'T act like victims because this invalidates the logic behind their chosen form of existence...Viz-a-viz the general hatred of the black conservative within the BA community.

A black conservative person does not care about skin color. We see white people as our equals, not superiors you have to constantly ask something from. If you want something now, create it. There is not a white man on earth that can stop me from achieving what I want to achieve in life. There is more than enough for everybody. We don't do scarcity mindset. No "The man" holding us back. That mindset is a relic of the past best cast aside to move forward. Which is why I think ALL black people (not just BA) need therapy.

As conservatives, Racism is wrong so we stand against it, no matter the skin color.
Degenerate behavior is wrong, so we speak against it, no matter the skin color.
Deliberate acts of stupidity are wrong, and we are sincere and non-nepotic enough to call them out for what they are, no matter the skin color.

Is that not the goal ? The world everyone says they want to live in? So let's simply live it, hold people accountable for their actions, and build forward.
We WILL NOT give you a pass to misbehave just because you are black. Never gonna happen. cheesy Grow up from this perpetual adolescence and understand that actions in life have consequences.
This general BA misbehavior is why even the creator of BLM, as soon as she collected money from the movement, it is inside a peaceful white neighbourhood she went to go and buy multiple houses. Even she knows whats up. Dem no need tell person! cheesy

MLK would be rolling in his grave today at what is going on.
Your forefathers fought for human rights.
You are here fighting for the right for a black girl to KILL another black girl, in broad daylight, while her father is there egging her on (who strangely enough BA ignore), in front of police....and expecting the police to not intervene.
How far the branches have fallen from the tree.

Now comes the question I ask every un-straight-forward BA regarding that event: if it was your daughter or family member who was about to be stabbed by that girl, what would be your stance on how it played out? DO NOT continue to hype up that event in your backward creeds until you answer that question in a straight and non-snakey manner.

Also, what is the alternative to capitalism? Socialism? I don't want to have that argument here.
But all I can say is, what is currently going on in the US with people not wanting to work because the government is giving them money, is but a taste of what happens when socialism runs rampant across the land. Hyperinflation is next, BET $300!
Socialism has been the fall of many civilizations since the beginning of time. Some people do not read, nor do they know the history of past civilizations, nor do they have a basic understanding of macro economics. They just want to open their freshly-smoked-weed-stinking mouth and join every bandwagon without thinking...because "activity".

But that one is another thread entirely.

@khiaa
Somebody owes me $300 on account of the hyper-inflation I called out. grin

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