a friend's fiance wants to abort her pregnancy because the church wants to conduct a pregnancy test on her before they could join them as a husband & a wife,but as it stands she does not want to be lift behind therefore ,wants to indulge into abortion as the last resort, pls landers your kind views are welcome.

In order to save her face from the church she wants to commit murder cos that is exactly what it is.

The husband to be is okay with it i presumme, she has already committed one sin and want to committ another one to cover it up. She will be surprised when she gets married and she cant have kids and will regret not keeping this one, by then they might not be going to that same church.

If that church will not join them many many churches will and i am sure if the tell the pastor he will not tell them to abort the child and worst he will say he will not join them(then the pastor must have no sin hence he is casting stones)

Most pastors will just tell them to go for delieverance and forgiveness prayers. I know which I will chose; if not bone church and get married. religion is your relationship with your God not face service

. my man don talk am finish, he say na blessing. so make she leave am i beg

depends

@ omolola depends on what abeg

depends on the two parties involved

As long as they have decided to get married. if they were so religious they shouldnt have had se.x then think about killing an innocent child haba.

Depend indeed! when it is not that the man says he doesnt want. Sometime people in the church can be such hypocrate.

So she will have an abortion and people will think she is a virgin does she not know she is not and have the murder of her child hanging on her as well.

Better still if she wants to keep up this sharade let someone else take the test for her. it is not enough to kill a child. If she is prepared for murder trust me lying wont be her problem.

That is the reason i said it depends on the two

It amazes me how people think. Wanting to use sin to cover another sin. Do these people think with their buttock?

P.s have all the courts been closed that they can't walk in there and get wedded?

Why didnt Joseph tell Mary to abort the child. (in the bible). atleast they werent married.

That's a gud one! well, the pregnancy Mary had was a divine one! it didnt come about thru s.ex btw both of 'em

Your friend and the church are mad together!

kmt- is that the only place they can get married? even if she wasn't pregnant i wouldn't encourage anybody to encourage these cult-like churches with their tests! kmt

ebonyvibe:

Why didnt Joseph tell Mary to abort the child. (in the bible). atleast they werent married.

He wanted to leave her, but an angel appeared to him in a dream. Even if it was his I doubt there were any laws at the time that will have affected them??

How ever the pregnancy came about the fact is she was pregnant before marriage and her husband to be didnt say she should abort it.

I know the big one for most men would be they pregnancy is not his and not going into that today. if it was he would still have married her if he could accept someone elses that is my point and trust me the leaders of those days were worse

@Topic, that's the normal thng a church do,the church never joins a pregnant woman. . .they culd av a court wedding

I dont know what church you go to but i have seen a church marry a woman with two kids for another man to a man. I have seen churched marry divorces to another partner.

JUANITA BYNUM got married in church, Joyce Meyer was previously divorced that is all bull where in the bible does it say not to join a pregnant woman in holy matrimony.

So is the sin getting pregnant or having sex then any one that has sex before marriage should not get married in church. We would see how many weddings are conducted

Omolola1:

@Topic, that's the normal thng a church do,the church never joins a pregnant woman. . .they culd av a court wedding

no, they want to have a wedding album with the lady wearing white wedding gown in them.

she could also wear a white gown in a court nd luk splendid plus a court wedding is more legal

Muslims wear white, she can wear her white it doesnt have to be in church.

My friend got married on a beach in Australia and she wore white. no probs.

At the end of the day it is their life no one is going to live it for them when they can have kids the church can only pray for them not have the daily heartache

Its either she wants one with a pastor or a priest conducting the joining or she could want to be at par with her friends who wedded in the church.

Omolola1:

she could also wear a white gown in a court nd luk splendid plus a court wedding is more legal

.oh yea !how i wish she is viewing.

yea, your gurl?

alagha:

a friend's fiance wants to abort her pregnancy because the church wants to conduct a pregnancy test on her before they could join them as a husband & a wife,but as it stands she does not want to be lift behind therefore ,wants to indulge into abortion as the last resort, pls landers your kind views are welcome.

what a church!!!!!! so your friend is telling you all this, some people dont know what should be kept within the house or relationship

I most definitely won't be joining that CHURCH! That preposterous!

I am not in her shoe dammit! She don't need to abort that damn baby! She should have kept her mofo legs closed! These kinda mofo piss me off when they go play and won't take care of the mess they made afterward. She knew her church do pregnancy test before marriage why would you go get pregnant knowing you getting married in a church that conduct pregnancy test?

What else that church do? Conduct DNA test to see if you fucking human? This is sickening! Some of yall some STRANGE MOFOS!

2 wrongs definitely don't make a right.
She already got pregnant outside marriage and then aborting it in the name of saving face? . . . .Big mistake. They might as well do a court and traditional marriage and get it over with.

I hate abortion with my blood.i rather do court and trad.

f**k church wedding. Wat kinda church b dat? Mscheww.
@ poster: tel ur frend 2 make do wit traditional and court wedding. Afta all my lil knowledge of a lotta 9ja cultures, traditional is even more important dan church, court is used 2 legalize d mata b4 d land. I rest my case.

f**k church wedding. Wat kinda church b dat? Mscheww.
@ poster: tel ur frend 2 make do wit traditional and court wedding. Afta all my lil knowledge of a lotta 9ja cultures, traditional is even more important dan church, court is used 2 legalize d mata b4 d land. I rest my case.

ZIM DRILL:

what a church!!!!!! so your friend is telling you all this, some people dont know what should be kept within the house or relationship

oh yes! level of challenges involved.

if u cannot do church marriage just becos u are pregnant i think d church marriage should be for vigin alone just becos someone is not pregnant before marriage dose not mean she has not be sex with d man dont let us decieving ourself pls dont abort it there are alot of couple out there dat hav got married for years without fruit of d womb if u can do d wedding in d church go and do it in d court best of luck