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Ladies And Entitlement Mentality by Nobody: 6:40pm On May 05, 2020
I am not even understanding again.. Does my mine belongs to my GF? Hell no, God forbid. Is she mad? Just bcox of pussy, u jink u can turn me to a slave... I rebuke such.. I give u when I deem it fit to give u but the day a lady called GF tells me dt my Money is her money, she will cease to exist.

Rubbish and nonsense
Liliantalks, don't encourage ladies to be lazy. No wonder u guys go into prostitution just to earn change.. Is ur pussy for business?



I know some guys Wil still call me broke guy but I don't care...

I am not stingy but claiming my money is ur money all bcox of ur pussy is a big No..

Don't even think of such with me...
Make money

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Re: Ladies And Entitlement Mentality by Tozic: 6:45pm On May 05, 2020
I THANK THE FOUNDER OF FORUM. IF NOT HIM I WOULDN'T HAVE KNOWN WHAT LINGERS IN THE MIND OF OUR NIGERIAN WOMEN.

The way women broke_shame men here is as though they have achieved something extraordinary in life and thus want a rich man to preserve their precious fortune for them.
It shows that what they are really after isn't LOVE but MONEY which can potentially cause chaos in marriage. I can't marry someone that only spends and open legs. it can't last!

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Re: Ladies And Entitlement Mentality by Genoa(m): 6:46pm On May 05, 2020
I will have to agree with you that lillianbr or whatever is mad.


Why should I waste my hard earned money because of a mere pvssy when I can just visit an adult website, the number of standard adult videos on my phone is enough to start a porn website.

Sex is no different from masturbation, it's just the same feeling.

Apart from the bragging right : I fvcked her, that girl can scream, Her pvssy is clean yada yada yada

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Re: Ladies And Entitlement Mentality by Offpoint: 6:48pm On May 05, 2020
The rich lavish their money on women and the world is silent, the poor spent their penny and the the world will not be at ease.

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Re: Ladies And Entitlement Mentality by phelonrays: 7:09pm On May 05, 2020
Genoa:



Why should I waste my hard earned money because of a mere pvssy when I can just visit an adult website, the number of standard adult videos on my phone is enough to start a porn website.

Re: Ladies And Entitlement Mentality by MrBrownJay1(m): 7:55pm On May 05, 2020
Offpoint:
The rich lavish their money on women and the world is silent, the poor spent their penny and the the world will not be at ease.

these rich men pay for these women's rent so poor men should do too? what about school fees and upkeep money nko? ARRANT NONSENSE!

let these broke begging good for nothing women go sell themselves to these rich men na... end of discussion.

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Re: Ladies And Entitlement Mentality by Offpoint: 8:00pm On May 05, 2020
MrBrownJay1:


these rich men pay for these women's rent so poor men should do too? what about school fees and upkeep money nko? ARRANT NONSENSE!

let these broke begging good for nothing women go sell themselves to these rich men na... end of discussion.

They never forced themselves on you, you asked them out in the first place. If you can't afford relationship stay out of it.
Stop ranting over a problem you brought upon yourself.

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Re: Ladies And Entitlement Mentality by MrBrownJay1(m): 8:06pm On May 05, 2020
Offpoint:

They never forced themselves on you, you asked them out in the first place. If you can't afford relationship stay out of it.

so asking a babe out means you become her guardians? asking a babe out means her life becomes your responsibility? asking a babe out means that whatever financial needs she has, you must fulfill them?! what kind of deluded good for nothing wh0res are these women you are talking about, OR BETTER YET, what type of donkeys do you think men are?!?!

its the same old age BS that have these undercover wh0res believe that the minute they date someone, he should pay for her every need....

***spit on floor***

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Re: Ladies And Entitlement Mentality by Offpoint: 8:09pm On May 05, 2020
MrBrownJay1:


so asking a babe out means you become her guardians? asking a babe out means her life becomes your responsibility? asking a babe out means that whatever financial needs she has, you must fulfill them?! what kind of deluded good for nothing wh0res are these women you are talking about, OR BETTER YET, what type of donkeys do you think men are?!?!

its the same old age BS that have these undercover wh0res believe that the minute they date someone, he should pay for her every need....

***spit on floor***
Rant on, rant on dear...
That's how those with less 500k in their account rant

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Re: Ladies And Entitlement Mentality by CAPSLOCKED: 8:12pm On May 05, 2020
NO WOMAN EVER BEGS YOU TO DATE HER, AND THEN PULL OUT THE BILLS.


YOU STAND ON THE QUEUE WITH MANY OTHER MEN LIKE YOU. SOME EVEN SEND MONEY AND AIRTIME JUST TO GET HER ATTENTION FIRST, BECAUSE AFTER ALL, "MAKE MONEY FIRST, NA WOMEN GO DE RUSH YOU". THEN SHE AGREES TO A RELATIONSHIP AND MAKES THE MOVE TO CLAIM THE MONEY... THEN YOU SAY SHE'S ENTITLED? LOL.

YOUNG MEN, IF YOU LEAVE WOMEN ALONE YOU WON'T DIE.

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Re: Ladies And Entitlement Mentality by MrBrownJay1(m): 8:18pm On May 05, 2020
Offpoint:

Rant on, rant on dear...
That's how those with less 500k in their account rant

its called "common sense"!!! if all men start paying for all the financial needs of the women they date, then these women will just date men for the money they receive (aka undercover oloshoism) and certainly wouldnt care who you are. so i dont know about you, but if money is the reason women want to date you then you are nothing more than a maga getting played (aka a customer with a prostitute).

the same way a babe paid her rent before she met you, is the same way she should continue pay her rent... same with school fees, Brazilian hair, phones, food etc

if a babe chooses to date you based on what you can offer her than you are her "CUSTOMER" and she is a pay as you go OLOSHO...the minute you stop paying, is the minute she will disappear from your life.... aka the Oxford dictionary definition of UNDERCOVER OLOSHOISM

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Re: Ladies And Entitlement Mentality by Galactico4ever(m): 8:22pm On May 05, 2020
MrBrownJay1:


so asking a babe out means you become her guardians? asking a babe out means her life becomes your responsibility? asking a babe out means that whatever financial needs she has, you must fulfill them?! what kind of deluded good for nothing wh0res are these women you are talking about, OR BETTER YET, what type of donkeys do you think men are?!?!

its the same old age BS that have these undercover wh0res believe that the minute they date someone, he should pay for her every need....

***spit on floor***
I think the mindset of 90% of 9ja guys is money=women. thats why the girls treat them that way...hey,clean that floor Btw

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Re: Ladies And Entitlement Mentality by MrBrownJay1(m): 8:34pm On May 05, 2020
Galactico4ever:
I think the mindset of 90% of 9ja guys is money=women. thats why the girls treat them that way...hey,clean that floor Btw

sadly, thats the failed mindset that most have.... "make money and women will flock", no wonder so many women expect all men to become their guardians when foolish men think in such a foul way.

if a babe didnt value you when you were poor then she has NO BUSINESS being in your life if/when you suddenly make money.
Re: Ladies And Entitlement Mentality by Sixfeetbelle: 8:36pm On May 05, 2020
Galactico4ever:
I think the mindset of 90% of 9ja guys is money=women. thats why the girls treat them that way...hey,clean that floor Btw

Thank you for pointing it out to him. Truth is men do the most in relationships to assert their ego using money. They really hate women spending on them as they feel it emasculates them.

On one hand, you have married men who feel they're helping broke girls by sponsoring them with whatever they need in exchange for sex. On the other hand, you have young guys being challenged by their fellow guys to hustle and make money whenever they complain about relationships problems and they understand it to mean more money=more women or more money=submissive girlfriend. And frankly, that's all they believe they need.

Mindset is the problem and until it changes, people will still come online to rant just like Op.

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Re: Ladies And Entitlement Mentality by IAmSkinny: 8:38pm On May 05, 2020
Lemme book space and advertise my hustle later jor
Re: Ladies And Entitlement Mentality by Allaboutkatiee(f): 9:01pm On May 05, 2020
ProfDview1:
I am not even understanding again.. Does my mine belongs to my GF? Hell no, God forbid. Is she mad? Just bcox of pussy, u jink u can turn me to a slave... I rebuke such.. I give u when I deem it fit to give u but the day a lady called GF tells me dt my Money is her money, she will cease to exist.

Rubbish and nonsense
Liliantalks, don't encourage ladies to be lazy. No wonder u guys go into prostitution just to earn change.. Is ur pussy for business?



I know some guys Wil still call me broke guy but I don't care...

I am not stingy but claiming my money is ur money all bcox of ur pussy is a big No..

Don't even think of such with me...
Make money

You again tongue
Re: Ladies And Entitlement Mentality by Genoa(m): 9:09pm On May 05, 2020
Offpoint:
The rich lavish their money on women and the world is silent, the poor spent their penny and the the world will not be at ease.
if I tell that you're a piece of shit, am afraid mods will ban me.

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Re: Ladies And Entitlement Mentality by Galactico4ever(m): 9:11pm On May 05, 2020
MrBrownJay1:

if a babe didnt value you when you were poor then she has NO BUSINESS being in your life if/when you suddenly make money.
That's how it should be. but then I know a gee whose GF left him for a yahoo guy. He was so heartbroken and devastated that he couldn't bear seeing the girl cos they live in d same hood.Dude migrated to switzerland,came back late last year and the same girl came running back. Guess what? he married the girl and they are currently living 2geda in zurich...so maybe girls might inspire or motivate a niggar to increase his bank balance
Re: Ladies And Entitlement Mentality by Premiumwriter: 9:12pm On May 05, 2020
The problem we as men are facing is the false sense of scarcity women have created.

Even with stats showing that there are more women than men, a lot of men still think there is a shortage of women.

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Re: Ladies And Entitlement Mentality by MrBrownJay1(m): 9:15pm On May 05, 2020
Galactico4ever:
That's how it should be. but then I know a gee whose GF left him for a yahoo guy. He was so heartbroken and devastated that he couldn't bear seeing the girl cos they live in d same hood.Dude migrated to switzerland,came back late last year and the same girl came running back. Guess what? he married the girl and they are currently living 2geda in zurich...so maybe girls might inspire or motivate a niggar to increase his bank balance

bro, just because the guy married her does NOT mean she deserves the dude... i know men who marry women who are confirmed prostitutes, other marry women who are confirmed cheater... low self esteem and insecurity have men acting a damn fool all over the world.

now here is a simple clue: if he was living in Idi Oro instead of Zurich, she probably wouldnt give him the time of day...

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Re: Ladies And Entitlement Mentality by CAPSLOCKED: 9:17pm On May 05, 2020
Galactico4ever:
That's how it should be. but then I know a gee whose GF left him for a yahoo guy. He was so heartbroken and devastated that he couldn't bear seeing the girl cos they live in d same hood.Dude migrated to switzerland,came back late last year and the same girl came running back. Guess what? he married the girl and they are currently living 2geda in zurich...so maybe girls might inspire or motivate a niggar to increase his bank balance

YOUR GUY NA BIG FOOL.

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Re: Ladies And Entitlement Mentality by Tango123: 9:18pm On May 05, 2020
Sixfeetbelle:


Thank you for pointing it out to him. Truth is men do the most in relationships to assert their ego using money. They really hate women spending on them as they feel it emasculates them.

On one hand, you have married men who feel they're helping broke girls by sponsoring them with whatever they need in exchange for sex. On the other hand, you have young guys being challenged by their fellow guys to hustle and make money whenever they complain about relationships problems and they understand it to mean more money=more women or more money=submissive girlfriend. And frankly, that's all they believe they need.

Mindset is the problem and until it changes, people will still come online to rant just like Op.

But here is an OP who is a man who is changing or has changed his mindset. So what is your problem then.

In this post, you clearly identified and agreed that cultural expectations are the problem. U suggested that things can change.

OP and other men u say are ranting are stating their new found belief. They have discovered that the culture that held them down is a socially constructed reality, and is not true in and of itself. Hence, they are beginning to create a new reality for themselves.

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Re: Ladies And Entitlement Mentality by Nobody: 9:23pm On May 05, 2020
Galactico4ever:
That's how it should be. but then I know a gee whose GF left him for a yahoo guy. He was so heartbroken and devastated that he couldn't bear seeing the girl cos they live in d same hood.Dude migrated to switzerland,came back late last year and the same girl came running back. Guess what? he married the girl and they are currently living 2geda in zurich...so maybe girls might inspire or motivate a niggar to increase his bank balance
she will still dump him for a richer guy in that zurich or she is already cheating on him there sef

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Re: Ladies And Entitlement Mentality by Sixfeetbelle: 10:33pm On May 05, 2020
Tango123:


But here is an OP who is a man who is changing or has changed his mindset. So what is your problem then.

In this post, you clearly identified and agreed that cultural expectations are the problem. U suggested that things can change.

OP and other men u say are ranting are stating their new found belief. They have discovered that the culture that held them down is a socially constructed reality, and is not true in and of itself. Hence, they are beginning to create a new reality for themselves.

Okay

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Re: Ladies And Entitlement Mentality by Offpoint: 10:38pm On May 05, 2020
MrBrownJay1:


its called "common sense"!!! if all men start paying for all the financial needs of the women they date, then these women will just date men for the money they receive (aka undercover oloshoism) and certainly wouldnt care who you are. so i dont know about you, but if money is the reason women want to date you then you are nothing more than a maga getting played (aka a customer with a prostitute).

the same way a babe paid her rent before she met you, is the same way she should continue pay her rent... same with school fees, Brazilian hair, phones, food etc

if a babe chooses to date you based on what you can offer her than you are her "CUSTOMER" and she is a pay as you go OLOSHO...the minute you stop paying, is the minute she will disappear from your life.... aka the Oxford dictionary definition of UNDERCOVER OLOSHOISM
They simply "ASKED* they didn't *FORCED*....
What's the rants all about?

Asked yesterday, I said I don't have...
Ask today, I don't have...
Move on and I move on, simple...

What's the rants all about?

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Re: Ladies And Entitlement Mentality by MrBrownJay1(m): 10:45pm On May 05, 2020
Offpoint:

They simply "ASKED* they didn't *FORCED*....
What's the rants all about?

when people are writing things that make very little sense online, then i have to throw in my opinion....see as you were quick to compare "normal" men with rich men, lol! the day Nigeria is filled with rich men, thats when you can expect Nigerians to copy what rich men are doing, until then, let us be realistic here.

IMHO it is foolish to compare apples with cement (aka completely irrelevant). whats next? rich Nigerian men buy Bentleys and private jets so thats what all Nigerians should do?!?!?

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Re: Ladies And Entitlement Mentality by Offpoint: 10:51pm On May 05, 2020
MrBrownJay1:


when people are writing things that make very little sense online, then i have to throw in my opinion....see as you were quick to compare "normal" men with rich men, lol! the day Nigeria is filled with rich men, thats when you can expect Nigerians to copy what rich men are doing, until then, let us be realistic here.

IMHO it is foolish to compare apples with cement (aka completely irrelevant). whats next? rich Nigerian men buy Bentleys and private jets so thats what all Nigerians should do?!?!?
No one is forcing anyone to buy anything...
Buy pencil if you can afford...
Buy Benz if you can afford...
Buy nothing if you don't want to...

The rant is what I hate

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Re: Ladies And Entitlement Mentality by MrBrownJay1(m): 11:01pm On May 05, 2020
Offpoint:

No one is forcing anyone to buy anything...
Buy pencil if you can afford...
Buy Benz if you can afford...
Buy nothing if you don't want to...

The rant is what I hate

what men who can afford Benz do with their money is not the issue here, it is when you expect EVERYONE to buy Benz (because rich men do) that is the problem.... you were the one quick to look down on the OP because he didnt do what the rich are doing... as written below:

Offpoint:
The rich lavish their money on women and the world is silent, the poor spent their penny and the the world will not be at ease.

furthermore, you had the audacity (below) to write that A) if poor man doesnt lavish these undercover oloshos then he shouldnt be in a r/ship and B) when these same men say no to paying for being in a r/ship with an undercover olosho and make a post out of it, you call it a rant, instead of calling it exactly what it is: their humble opinion about NOT wanting to date undercover oloshos.

Offpoint:

They never forced themselves on you, you asked them out in the first place. If you can't afford relationship stay out of it.
Stop ranting over a problem you brought upon yourself.

if you want to pay for pay as you go UNDERCOVER OLOSHOS, then great....but dont automatically look down on normal men who dont.
Re: Ladies And Entitlement Mentality by Offpoint: 11:06pm On May 05, 2020
MrBrownJay1:


what men who can afford Benz do with their money is not the issue here, it is when you expect EVERYONE to buy Benz (because rich men do) that is the problem.... you were the one quick to look down on the OP because he didnt do what the rich are doing... as written below:



furthermore, you had the audacity (below) to write that A) if poor man doesnt lavish these undercover oloshos then he shouldnt be in a r/ship and B) when these same men say no to paying for being in a r/ship with an undercover olosho and make a post out of it, you call it a rant, instead of calling it exactly what it is: their humble opinion about NOT wanting to date undercover oloshos.



if you want to pay for pay as you go UNDERCOVER OLOSHOS, then great....but dont automatically look down on normal men who dont.

They men who don't should stop ranting than those who did.... That's my point.
Re: Ladies And Entitlement Mentality by MrBrownJay1(m): 11:12pm On May 05, 2020
Offpoint:
They men who don't should stop ranting than those who did.... That's my point.

bro, its an opinion from humble Nigerian men that certainly CANNOT/SHOULDNT try to copy what rich men do... the problem here is NOT these Nigerian humble men, the problem is really these undercover oloshos who expect humble Nigerian men to act like these rich men. thus the rant!

even if you are rich, what sense there is to pay for toto, like rental car?!?!
Re: Ladies And Entitlement Mentality by Nobody: 11:21pm On May 05, 2020
CAPSLOCKED:


YOUR GUY NA BIG FOOL.


No, he was born as a FOOL.

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Re: Ladies And Entitlement Mentality by Offpoint: 11:25pm On May 05, 2020
MrBrownJay1:


bro, its an opinion from humble Nigerian men that certainly CANNOT/SHOULDNT try to copy what rich men do... the problem here is NOT these Nigerian humble men, the problem is really these undercover oloshos who expect humble Nigerian men to act like these rich men. thus the rant!

even if you are rich, what sense there is to pay for toto, like rental car?!?!
We are in circle repeating the same thing over and over again...

Let those who can afford to pay let them pay...
Let those who can not, let them be.

Let those who cannot stop insulting those who can and let those who can stop insulting those who cannot..

Relationship is not by force, if you can't keep a girlfriend... Stay single or visit brothel or masturbate.

I hate rants on something you aren't force into doing.

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