Our parents got married without Courtship, without Seminar and their marriage lasted more than marriages of this Generation.
Why?

Prudent200:
Our parents got married without Courtship, without Seminar and their marriage lasted more than marriages of this Generation.
Why?

We have lazy_entitled women nowadays that rant on social media.

Tozic:


We have lazy_entitled women nowadays that rant on social media.

Hmmmm True shaaa especially feminist they won't open this thread

cc:Sexylassie2

The women are the problem


Men didn't change, women did

The Women were just ready to keep up with bullshit and save face

If they tell you what many of those women are passing through in their marriage, you will cry for them

Now we are saying enough is enough, we wont suffer what our mothers suffered, the men are angry they dont want to change with time.

Our mothers were good because they were slaves to their husband

They lived in fear and trembling....

They were brainwashed to worship their husbands

They were told to endure all manners of ill behavior from their husbands ..

They were in a bondage, but couldn't set them themselves free...
Ask them.... They will tell you how unhappy they were in their marriage...

Perhaps the people who keep claiming that women passed through hell in their marriages but only kept quiet to save face, ought to just admit to us what their own mothers and grandmothers passed through so we can actually take these claims serious.

If you know your mother/grandmother was or is the suffering & smiling slave-kind of woman who had/has it very tough in marriage to your father, please identify yourself.

We need to test out these claims by using Nairaland as our study group.

They don't argue/ have misunderstanding and rushed to Social media.. They settle whatever difference between them there and then...

Divorce was a taboo.. For better or worse kind of marriage...they simply wanna die trying to salvage the little ' love' left or for the sake of the children.

One person compromises to be submissive for the sake of peace / harmony... Some times its the man who doesn't like talking, just allows the lady to take over.. some times it'sthe woman who feels that talking to her unreasonable husband will not bear much fruit, So for the sake of peace let's just ignore him..

Home wreckers were not much those days... only few town gossips.. and they were always warned to stay away from them.. but nowadays they are all over.. Teaching men how they are not man enough to take charge.. teaching women that if he doesn't have $200,000 in his bank account what are u doing there.. leave him...

No lie dictator test machine then that could confirm when a couple was cheating if asked for a polygraph test... So technology contributed a lot to failed marriages today.. Though it's not as if there was no cheating but tools to dictate it was not available so some spouse gets away with it....

so persin wey dey beg 2 b babymama report my acant. she say she no dey fear me bt rush report 2 ha mod

Prudent200:
Our parents got married without Courtship, without Seminar and their marriage lasted more than marriages of this Generation.
Why?

times are changing. The world is now a global village and we are adapting other people's style of living which has made our expectations different.

Also our parents fathers and mothers were able to find out more about the intending spouse unlike now... Where you only know more about your spouse based on her instagram likes and know less about his/her upbringing