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Re: My Son Behaves Like Someone With A Low IQ by HarunaWest(m): 9:31pm On May 11, 2020 |
tyup:I grew up amongst the baddest of the baddest guyz..Buh I turned out well..Atimes it's choice |
Re: My Son Behaves Like Someone With A Low IQ by Heloct(f): 10:59pm On May 11, 2020 |
There was a time my mom told me she had a dream where she saw my 13 year old brother then crawling like a baby. I was so teary that day cos this boy was too stubborn and dumb. But now, you'd beg for his talents and intelligence. You see op, let your boy grow out of it. But try and give him confidence.. if any boy his age torment him, tell him to face him back and stop being a baby to his mate. If younger boy does, please scold him very well. But you will be amazed at how he will grow and you will whine him with this later in the future. |
Re: My Son Behaves Like Someone With A Low IQ by cricifixo: 11:21pm On May 11, 2020 |
Just allow the boy to grow. Always appreciate or commend every little thing he does openly. Make sure he knows he is loved so much & don't you ever talk down on him or make him feel less appreciated. Just make urself ur kids' best friend so that they will always feel comfortable telling u about their day and open their feelings up to you. Though i didn't get all these from my dad, i just had to figure things out myself Netochi: |
Re: My Son Behaves Like Someone With A Low IQ by jeff1607(m): 3:56am On May 12, 2020 |
Takotsubo: OP take this advice, works like a charm, self defense classes would help, if your husband has the time, he should also be more involved with him. Dealing with other kids would become a past time infact na u go tire. |
Re: My Son Behaves Like Someone With A Low IQ by Eberechi24(f): 4:09am On May 12, 2020 |
Netochi: Teach him how to have his own mind. Make him understand he has a choice and a voice. He should utilized it. Since you always monitor him, I suggest you help him out. Each time he wants to back out or down from conversation with his peers, or being threatened by any of them. Make him stand up to them. Don't pet his feeble mind. I could remember as a child, my elder brother will always come home crying because he was beaten by his agemate. My mum could not tolerate that nonsense from him. Whenever he comes crying, mum will send him back to retaliate. "So you are crying because of your mate? I am ashamed of you. Go back and beat him and make sure you do, if you don't do, then there will be no food" mum always tell My brother. With the mention of no food for food, being a food lover, my brother will dash out to complete that mission. My little brother at a time suffered the same fate, mum used same method. This time she told my little bro anytime he sees his opponent, he should start beating him. Whether he is going to school, market anyway at all.( the boy look for his trouble and his mum came to his defense) Mind you, my mum don't indulge them when they look for troubles ooo. They always have their piece of cake when they looked for trouble. One mistake you will make is fighting for him or standing up for him. That's his duty and fight. All you need do is encouraging him and he should not look for people's troubles o Also, engage in children's activities. Every opportunity to get him exposed should be utilized. Children debates, Children's football etc. Any activities to get him in children's group. It will help him build his confidence and face crowd. He doesn't need to be perfect but to be involved, with time he will be get your motives and find his purpose. No time is too early to fix your child's deficiency, if you let it be, you might not correct it again. Remember care and support with love will help him define his identity. No time is to late correct a child's deficiency. |
Re: My Son Behaves Like Someone With A Low IQ by frozen70(f): 5:41pm On May 12, 2020 |
Netochi: Your child is just trying to be a gentle man but he needs to step up Seat him down and let him know that he is too quiet Tell him never to allow his mates to bully him Tell him that he is the first child and must stand strong to defend his siblings Then any day he gets frightened by his junior beat him very well before his juniors or mates for being stupid Give him a challenging task at home that will keep him busy Enrol him in a boarding home where he will learn to start a life of challenging himself with others as you won't be there to speak or fight for him Boarding home schools, gives you the power to stand on your own and prepare you for the future Military school might make him to be rugged and am sure you don't need such |
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