Hi friends, hope we are all good in this season, there is something I noticed in our girls and it's kind of annoying at times , they won't message you until I message even for 6 months they will just be on contact , except they need your help , even if you decide to message them that's when some will ask you for help or advertise their items what if I decided not to send a message too , can I call that a pride , because I don't think that is what friendship is all about . Pls ladies in the house no offense , I'm just expressing my mind .

It's called forming.

Ladies can form for you till they will die. When I say die, I mean till sand will be packed on top them.

Smiles but it's funny sha ,they don't need to , it's a free world .

bendaniel1616:
Hi friends, hope we are all good in this season, There is something I noticed in our girls and it's kind of annoying at times , they won't message you until I message even for 6 months they will just be on contact , except they need your help , even if you decide to message them that's when some will ask you for help or advertise their items what if I decided not to send a message too , can I call that a pride , because I don't think that is what friendship is all about . Pls ladies in the house no offense , I'm just expressing my mind.

All I can say Is A lot Shiithole Men & Women, Una fit Una selves.....Blockheads...

its called see finish... once they are done with you or you are not turning up as supposed they move to the next maga.... My afvice : don't bother about them just flow with the flow. E get Y

Why boss , I love to learn more .

It's not funny but rather annoying. If u feel like not checking up on ur friends, then do well not to contact them when u need help. That's how one female friend with whom I normally exchange calls,chats and text with, suddenly changed. Only to remember me one day with "pls recharge for me nau". I made her understand I was not happy wit her for not reaching out again but still recharged for her anyways for friendship sake. Her attitude didn't change either. She locked up afterwards only to remember me few days to her birthday with a text ending with her birthday reminder. I shaa bone and ignored. Met me online and was like "did u see my text?" I said yes. On her birthday I just wrote on her wall and packed. She hasn't reacted ever since while on my part I'm waiting for any wrong move make I drop it like it's hot! And I know the silence won't take long.

Let me share mine with you
I message one black American
Around Last year December 16
And she replied March 7 this year
And the funniest part she's always updating insta story
So what's my points before I message her
Her profile picture was clean not showing her full body and the account is private she accepted my request and I went through some of her pictures
Omo elephant wey don use 40 yrs for forest no reach her
She's very fat like fatty acid
So I was like you no dey attractive and you dey form
I honestly don't know girls problem Walai

There was this gal i once asked out, she like me o, but she wan form small. So I just forgot abt her and saw another gal , I ve began to date. One faithful day, this gal saw me and my babe, on the road side; she just passed us, we act like we didn't see her.

Weeks later, one of my guys came and told me that he saw the gal wey fey form for me. I was like , "okay".

The next tin he told me was that,
" guy, that gal, dey vex say she see u with another gal o, she dey tell me say, e no reach one week, wey u ask am out, and now she don see u wit another babe " .....I was like , why will she be annoyed.??
This my guy then said to me that,
" the gal talk say, she like u, but she dey test u"...


Mehn I was surprise and annoyed, at the same time. So u like me , but u kept on forming. ...
Bro gals are majorly the reasons guys break their hearts".

Lol , were Lawon omo yen, majority of them no gbadun at all, their madness is natural, then no need smoke to behaves funny, you have to be extremely patient to maintain a girl friend or wife even with your money, that's why we have single mothers everywhere, may God see us through .

Are you guys not tired of opening threads because of Nigerian girls? Everyday Nigerian girls Nigerian girls that. Una no se tire?
Ironically, these girls no even send una. They're just living their lives like you guys don't even exist.
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Abeg peep at this jare
https://www.nairaland.com/5660603/professional-photographer-heres-mini-portfolio

Na wa oo, God is able shey person no go come marry ni .

sometimes when i get a message in chat i might not be opportuned to reply the person instantly.one girl sent me a message and it took me a week to reply and she was angry.i told her i wasnt opportuned to reply her instantly..why? she asked and i replied cos i was held up doing other things.I cant siddon for 5 hours just chatting with someone..that shows u jobless or u have nothing doing.maybe those girls who dont reply u instantly are busy with sumpting else.
If as a guy u would spend the whole day venting and angry cos a girl does not reply u in chat instantly ol boy u must be jobless

ZINIBANKS:
Let me share mine with you
I message one black American
Around Last year December 16
And she replied March 7 this year
And the funniest part she's always updating insta story
So what's my points before I message her
Her profile picture was clean not showing her full body and the account is private she accepted my request and I went through some of her pictures
Omo elephant wey don use 40 yrs for forest no reach her
She's very fat like fatty acid
So I was like you no dey attractive and you dey form
I honestly don't know girls problem Walai

me i dont instantly reply girls on chat some get angry as well.but then when i have something doing i cant siddon in chat talking to someone for 6 to 7 hrs.Imagine na library i dey and someone send me message and i no reply why should she get mad at me? i owe her anything? make una cut some slack for these ladies.a lady in the US probably busy with 4 jobs wont have that time chatting away with a random stranger she met on the net.

bendaniel1616:
Hi friends, hope we are all good in this season, there is something I noticed in our girls and it's kind of annoying at times , they won't message you until I message even for 6 months they will just be on contact , except they need your help , even if you decide to message them that's when some will ask you for help or advertise their items what if I decided not to send a message too , can I call that a pride , because I don't think that is what friendship is all about . Pls ladies in the house no offense , I'm just expressing my mind .

It depends on your relationship with her

If it's on part-time then the call won't be regular

If it's on full time, the you you guys will keep a check on each other

It's like the relationship is not a constant one

lefulefu:
me i dont instantly reply girls on chat some get angry as well.but then when i have something doing i cant siddon in chat talking to someone for 6 to 7 hrs.Imagine na library i dey and someone send me message and i no reply why should she get mad at me? i owe her anything? make una cut some slack for these ladies.a lady in the US probably busy with 4 jobs wont have that time chatting away with a random stranger she met on the net.

But she's not busy to update insta story
I agree with you though
Cause have chat with some before and they replied
Immediately am even surprised
But our girls here make I no just talk

ZINIBANKS:

But she's not busy to update insta story
I agree with you though
Cause have chat with some before and they replied
Immediately am even surprised
But our girls here make I no just talk

maybe someone she fancies more is chatting with her.sometimes it aint worth sitting down and moping and waiting hoping they will reply ur chat.If the person hardly replies u just unfriend him or her and forget about the person.keeping such ppl as friends is waste of space on chatpage.