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Have You Ever Been Ghosted Or Have You Ever Ghosted Someone by Luv9jawomen: 2:59pm On May 15, 2020
To ghost someone means to just disappear from the person's life without notice; the ghoster stops picking calls or responding to messages and ends all forms of communication with the person.

You can be ghosted by a lover, someone you feel you've developed an emotion connection with, a Bleep buddy or a very close friend.

If you've ever been ghosted how did it feel? Did you try communicating with the person, and when did you just stop trying to reach the person? If you've ever ghosted someone why did you ghost them?

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Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted Or Have You Ever Ghosted Someone by Enoch07: 3:02pm On May 15, 2020
d reverse is d case for LOL
Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted Or Have You Ever Ghosted Someone by Nobody: 3:08pm On May 15, 2020
It is cruel, I prefer closure. The Ghoster may feel they are doing the best thing by not hurting the Ghostee's feelings. As a Ghostee, it hurts and he/she will wonder what went wrong.

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Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted Or Have You Ever Ghosted Someone by Ningen(m): 3:13pm On May 15, 2020
I've been ghosted once by my crush.

She changed school. She didn't even tell me. I spend the holiday planning & rehearsing how to confess to her. Imagine my pain on resumption.
Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted Or Have You Ever Ghosted Someone by Nobody: 3:26pm On May 15, 2020
That’s my trademark

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Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted Or Have You Ever Ghosted Someone by Sixfeetbelle: 3:45pm On May 15, 2020
Both has happened to me. I mostly ghost people I find a tad bit boring but I've been ghosted by people who find me unfeeling. It's a two-way street cheesy

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Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted Or Have You Ever Ghosted Someone by PureGoldh(m): 3:46pm On May 15, 2020
I have been ghosted but If am to say eeeh...Na me dey ghost people pass sha
Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted Or Have You Ever Ghosted Someone by purplecoco(f): 3:48pm On May 15, 2020
I ghost people all the time. I’ll probably forget you like I never met you.
Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted Or Have You Ever Ghosted Someone by Starz825(m): 3:49pm On May 15, 2020
MelaninSkinGirl:
It is cruel, I prefer closure. The Ghoster may feel they are doing the best thing by not hurting the Ghostee's feelings. As a Ghostee, it hurts and he/she will wonder what went wrong.
This exactly what I did to my current girl...
I no even dey pick her call again....

I wan focus on my life abeg....I need my own attention...

But to be honest, the reason I didn't say anything to her (Abt me excommunicating myself from her) is to ensure my coming back to her ..I can cook up any story about my absence ( that's if another man no wa take her oo)....

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Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted Or Have You Ever Ghosted Someone by DanDeeBoss(m): 3:51pm On May 15, 2020
I ghost you especially if I don't feel that vibe again
I have been ghosted before too

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Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted Or Have You Ever Ghosted Someone by Nobody: 3:56pm On May 15, 2020
Starz825:

This exactly what I did to my current girl...
I no even dey pick her call again....

I wan focus on my life abeg....I need my own attention...

But to be honest, the reason I didn't say anything to her (Abt me excommunicating myself from her) is to ensure my coming back to her ..I can cook up any story about my absence ( that's if another man no wa take her oo)....

Do you love her? Do you intend going back to her? No contact will make her loose any feelings towards you and she will move on sharpish, unless that is what you want. Please just end it and let her receive closure.

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Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted Or Have You Ever Ghosted Someone by Nobody: 3:57pm On May 15, 2020
Luv9jawomen:
To ghost someone means to just disappear from the person's life without notice; the ghoster stops picking calls or responding to messages and ends all forms of communication with the person.

You can be ghosted by a lover, someone you feel you've developed an emotion connection with, a Bleep buddy or a very close friend.

If you've ever been ghosted how did it feel? Did you try communicating with the person, and when did you just stop trying to reach the person? If you've ever ghosted someone why did you ghost them?

I ghost people a lot so when people ghost me I just take it as karma.

Ghosting is necessary you know, once someone has outlived their usefulness in your life, just ghost them. If you don't you start getting irritated by them and end up making enemies.
If you ghost them, you might probably still need each other in future and still hookup as friends

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Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted Or Have You Ever Ghosted Someone by TheLioness: 4:03pm On May 15, 2020
I do it a lot, unintentionally though. I really don't like it and I'm trying to stop.
Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted Or Have You Ever Ghosted Someone by Starz825(m): 4:07pm On May 15, 2020
MelaninSkinGirl:


Do you love her? Do you intend going back to her? No contact will make her looae any feelings towards you and she will move on, unless that is what you want. Please just end it and let her receive closure.
I get ur point, I love her but i feel she doesn't love herself enough..she is just too ambitious about her life, she want to make it and all...I mean she overthink things alot...and I will be like calm down...you will definitely make it... everybody wants to...
She is just afraid she might nt reach her potentials in life ... hence the boring relationship...
So me self I get plans and I can't be wasting my time carrying on for now...
Na money sure pass...
But I go back to her soon Sha...she still like me...
Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted Or Have You Ever Ghosted Someone by Nobody: 4:11pm On May 15, 2020
Starz825:

I get ur point, I love her but i feel she doesn't love herself enough..she is just too ambitious about her life, she want to make it and all...I mean she overthink things alot...and I will be like calm down...you will definitely make it... everybody wants to...
She is just afraid she might nt reach her potentials in life ... hence the boring relationship...
So me self I get plans and I can't be wasting my time carrying on for now...
Na money sure pass...

So she is ambitious and a go getter, that is not a bad thing, that is a positive. With your ambition and her ambition you will both be success stories. You guys complain when the girl has a bird brain and has no goals in life yet you are letting go of this ambitious woman? Has she contacted you?

If you truly value her, you will not let her go. So my conclusion is you dont really care and thats fine. Just end it with her.

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Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted Or Have You Ever Ghosted Someone by Randy100: 4:12pm On May 15, 2020
I chop, clean mouth and ghost on ladies. I don't ghost on my guys, come rain come sunshine, we are brothers from different mothers.

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Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted Or Have You Ever Ghosted Someone by Myhusband(m): 4:17pm On May 15, 2020
it started in 2018 when I realized that poverty won kill me and send me beyond


all my useless friends I ghost them and those broke girls I ghost them. to burst your bubble I ghost one lady last week when I realized she know worth 25k



I will continue ghosting any poor people around me till I worth at least 10million



thanks for your understanding

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Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted Or Have You Ever Ghosted Someone by Nobody: 4:42pm On May 15, 2020
Myhusband:
it started in 2018 when I realized that poverty won kill me and send me beyond


all my useless friends I ghost them and those broke girls I ghost them. to burst your bubble I ghost one lady last week when I realized she know worth 25k



I will continue ghosting any poor people around me till I worth at least 10million



thanks for your understanding

My nigga cheesy

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Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted Or Have You Ever Ghosted Someone by tobby20: 5:49pm On May 15, 2020
Myhusband:
it started in 2018 when I realized that poverty won kill me and send me beyond


all my useless friends I ghost them and those broke girls I ghost them. to burst your bubble I ghost one lady last week when I realized she know worth 25k
Aje


I will continue ghosting any poor people around me till I worth at least 10million



thanks for your understanding
Ajeh na the vibe b that

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Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted Or Have You Ever Ghosted Someone by babathunde432(m): 6:17pm On May 15, 2020
Starz825:

This exactly what I did to my current girl...
I no even dey pick her call again....

I wan focus on my life abeg....I need my own attention...

But to be honest, the reason I didn't say anything to her (Abt me excommunicating myself from her) is to ensure my coming back to her ..I can cook up any story about my absence ( that's if another man no wa take her oo)....

wao... this is exactly what I did to my gf..... (or let me say 'am doing')
I intend going back to her too with a well designed cook story. I just need a break right now and don't want to loose her

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Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted Or Have You Ever Ghosted Someone by Dominicane(m): 6:55pm On May 15, 2020
I ghost for a living.

Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted Or Have You Ever Ghosted Someone by Starz825(m): 7:45pm On May 15, 2020
MelaninSkinGirl:


So she is ambitious and a go getter, that is not a bad thing, that is a positive. With your ambition and her ambition you will both be success stories. You guys complain when the girl has a bird brain and has no goals in life yet you are letting go of this ambitious woman? Has she contacted you?

If you truly value her, you will not let her go. So my conclusion is you dont really care and thats fine. Just end it with her.
....i care about her...thanks for ur input...I appreciate.
Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted Or Have You Ever Ghosted Someone by elpochas: 7:51pm On May 15, 2020
Ya have Ghosted a lot of people when i was much younger.i still regret some till today.miss F pls were ever you are pls forgive me for ghosting you then.jst wish i could turn back the hand of time.
Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted Or Have You Ever Ghosted Someone by Nobody: 8:02pm On May 15, 2020
;DThe way I ghost like my life depends on it ehn....

It ain't my fault tho,there is this type of feeling I have about life that no matter how close or good someone is to you,the relationship will still go from 100% checks to 0% checks....that's when they end up using the door.

So instead of being on the losing side i.e being ghosted,I will completely ghost you before hand!!!


I've also being ghosted a lot of times too...so I've had my own share of the game
Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted Or Have You Ever Ghosted Someone by missimelda01(f): 9:19pm On May 15, 2020
Yes I've been ghosted, we used to talk, video call and chat frequently.. suddenly it stopped, his number wasn't even going through anymore, he was a Yoruba demon.. I won't be surprised if he was married and lied, maybe his wife found out about me grin
Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted Or Have You Ever Ghosted Someone by NeeKlaus: 9:32pm On May 15, 2020
Yup. Currently ghosting someone now sef. I got tired of her bullshi.t jare. Moreover, the issue that made me ghost her was entirely her fault and she was even giving me attitude ontop. Refused to even apologize.

I don't like nonsense. Life is too short to be stressed so much by one person.

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Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted Or Have You Ever Ghosted Someone by Nobody: 10:06pm On May 15, 2020
I don't give a flying fvck if I get ghosted, how does that put money in my account
Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted Or Have You Ever Ghosted Someone by Degrezhaa: 10:07pm On May 15, 2020
I have never ghosted anyone sha..

bt i have been Ghosted before.... it was not nice at all
Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted Or Have You Ever Ghosted Someone by Reex12(m): 10:10pm On May 15, 2020
was ghosted by my crush in uni cus she new I liked ha,it hurt sha the following yr she got dumped by ha ex nd came to cry on my shoulder for support,I bleeped d shit outta ha(literary) nd ghosted ha, didn't feel bad bout it,nw wen I see ha I pretend lyk I dnt even no ha

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Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted Or Have You Ever Ghosted Someone by paulolee(m): 10:38pm On May 15, 2020
sure na...bk den na me de do some gals bt now na dm de do me bcox m broke n gat notin to offer...some even de block n delete meself n wen i call with anoda number n say its me ur friend paulo, de wud reply"d same paulo wey i bin delete block?? guy leave me alone naa...abi na u my village people send to me??
Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted Or Have You Ever Ghosted Someone by Chenko001(m): 11:09pm On May 15, 2020
As a GHOST that specialises on the craftsmanship of GHOSTERY, I hereby.......

I don forget wetin I wan talk self, but seriously leaving people without notice is not advisable, it's cool when you do it but karma may think otherwise
Re: Have You Ever Been Ghosted Or Have You Ever Ghosted Someone by finalboss(m): 11:17pm On May 15, 2020
Ghosted by someone here, Still looking for her. If you reading this seriously I have changed. It's crazy nd annoying

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