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Put Yourself In A Woman's Position And Respond To This Poser Below: by mrfree(m): 9:40pm On May 16, 2020

Make una come out

You are married for 20 years, you and hubby only have three beautiful girls. His family are the type that believe a male child is more important and a must have. So you feel terrible that you haven't given your husband a male child. He assures you that he is okay without a male child...
Hubby falls ill and critically requires a kidney transplant or he will die and you turn out to be a match, because you love him you decide you will donate your other kidney to him. One day in preparation to go to the hospital for surgery you where getting all paperwork sorted out. You come across your husband Will and you go through it and you find out that your husband has 3 boys with one woman like that and he left 90% of his wealth for those boys and their mother and only leaving 10% for your own girls and you.

- What will you do??
- Would you still give him your kidney??
- How will you handle the whole situation??

Re: Put Yourself In A Woman's Position And Respond To This Poser Below: by incogni2o: 9:42pm On May 16, 2020

mrfree:

Make una come out

You are married for 20 years, you and hubby only have three beautiful girls. His family are the type that believe a male child is more important and a must have. So you feel terrible that you haven't given your husband a male child. He assures you that he is okay without a male child...
Hubby falls ill and critically requires a kidney transplant or he will die and you turn out to be a match, because you love him you decide you will donate your other kidney to him. One day in preparation to go to the hospital for surgery you where getting all paperwork sorted out. You come across your husband Will and you go through it and you find out that your husband has 3 boys with one woman like that and he left 90% of his wealth for those boys and their mother and only leaving 10% for your own girls and you.

- What will you do??
- Would you still give him your kidney??
- How will you handle the whole situation??

Typically people would say No.

But I will go on and give the kidney.

But make sure my girls are so succesful, The Fathers wealth becomes trash. I will also have to let the girls know about thier Father's deeds.

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Re: Put Yourself In A Woman's Position And Respond To This Poser Below: by haywire07(m): 9:44pm On May 16, 2020

If she insists on donating, I'll advice my doctor not to collect the kidney from her cheesy

Women can keep you alive just to kill you properly cheesy

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Re: Put Yourself In A Woman's Position And Respond To This Poser Below: by meetme01: 9:49pm On May 16, 2020

haywire07:
If she insists on donating, I'll advice my doctor not to collect the kidney from her :

Women can keep you alive just to kill you properly

Eleyi gidi

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Re: Put Yourself In A Woman's Position And Respond To This Poser Below: by vickydankal(f): 9:54pm On May 16, 2020

See there are some atrocities that immediate death will not pacify. I will advice the wife to Go ahead to donate the kidney when he is ok they can talk. That’s after ransacking the whole house for all property documents.

Re: Put Yourself In A Woman's Position And Respond To This Poser Below: by nolywe(m): 9:55pm On May 16, 2020

10% of 30 billion naira na something oo

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Re: Put Yourself In A Woman's Position And Respond To This Poser Below: by Oluromantic: 10:00pm On May 16, 2020

Me in her shoes would donate the kidney and save his life. But while he's in the hospital I would get a copy of the will and get separated.

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Re: Put Yourself In A Woman's Position And Respond To This Poser Below: by Pavore9: 10:56pm On May 16, 2020

Death will be cheaper for him, so I will donate the kidney so he would be alive to face the music as I will gain more if he is alive to face divorce proceedings being the legally recognized wife (presuming a registry marriage). cheesy

The second option is to re-write it before donating it or he go get the other woman to donate hers at least that should be her contribution.

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Re: Put Yourself In A Woman's Position And Respond To This Poser Below: by Hathor5(f): 11:01pm On May 16, 2020

He will re-write the will before he gets my kidney. I won't say more.

But how is it possible to hide another family for so many years? I have never understood it. undecided

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Re: Put Yourself In A Woman's Position And Respond To This Poser Below: by Hathor5(f): 11:02pm On May 16, 2020

vickydankal:
See there are some atrocities that immediate death will not pacify. I will advice the wife to Go ahead to donate the kidney when he is ok they can talk. That’s after ransacking the whole house for all property documents.

Do you understand what it means to have your kidney removed? People talk about it like it is a haircut.

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Re: Put Yourself In A Woman's Position And Respond To This Poser Below: by Donald3d(m): 11:18pm On May 16, 2020

Easy solution
If he is concious make him change the will before donating the kidney.
Ensure that it's shared equally, because the 3 boys and their mother are not responsible for the man's foolishness.

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Re: Put Yourself In A Woman's Position And Respond To This Poser Below: by yomi007k(m): 11:30pm On May 16, 2020

Hathor5:
He will re-write the will before he gets my kidney. I won't say more.

But how is it possible to hide another family for so many years? I have never understood it.

Very possible. Women are women's worst enemy.

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Re: Put Yourself In A Woman's Position And Respond To This Poser Below: by piroux(f): 11:45pm On May 16, 2020

Its not only kidney!! Why not give him heart and hands too...

I know this is very hypothetical. Nonetheless, after such damning information, I'd go back to the hospital, call his family members as well, tell them what I found out, especially if they are aware and then ask them to invite his other "wife" to help out. Shikena.

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Re: Put Yourself In A Woman's Position And Respond To This Poser Below: by dominique(f): 6:20am On May 17, 2020

We're too property obsessed in part of the world. A lot of men have grown up to be useless and irresponsible because of their parents property. A lot of people have killed and been killed because of property. Property you did not work for you want to die on top. The only property I can fight over is the one that came from my sweat.

@topic. I can only give you my kidney if I love you unconditionally, property or no property.

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Re: Put Yourself In A Woman's Position And Respond To This Poser Below: by cococandy(f): 7:06am On May 17, 2020

Hathor5:
He will re-write the will before he gets my kidney. I won't say more.But how is it possible to hide another family for so many years? I have never understood it.

More like it. He may not even get the kidney after that. Nonsense and ingredients

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Re: Put Yourself In A Woman's Position And Respond To This Poser Below: by cococandy(f): 7:07am On May 17, 2020

Hathor5:

Do you understand what it means to have your kidney removed? People talk about it like it is a haircut.

Like they are donating their hair grin

Donating a kidney means basically risking your own life. For who? For someone who had no regard for you. Unreal

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Re: Put Yourself In A Woman's Position And Respond To This Poser Below: by SirMichael1: 8:31am On May 17, 2020

piroux:
Its not only kidney!! Why not give him heart and hands too...

I know this is very hypothetical. Nonetheless, after such damning information, I'd go back to the hospital, call his family members as well, tell them what I found out, especially if they are aware and then ask them to invite his other "wife" to help out. Shikena.

They won't do anything to his ailement, instead, they'll come up with stories about how you aided his death and come kick you and your daughters out.

Re: Put Yourself In A Woman's Position And Respond To This Poser Below: by SirMichael1: 8:45am On May 17, 2020

dominique:
We're too property obsessed in part of the world. A lot of men have grown up to be useless and irresponsible because of their parents property. A lot of people have killed and been killed because of property. Property you did not work for you want to die on top. The only property I can fight over is the one that came from my sweat.

@topic. I can only give you my kidney if I love you unconditionally, property or no property.

You talk of giving out your kidney like it's self regenerating like the liver. What happened to the fact that we're married and everything we're able to garner is ours? We're all humans and added to the fact that I don't believe in unconditional love, I'll say that you'll have to go to the ends of the earth and back to meet a person who'll give out his kidney after such magnitude of betrayal. If I do that, it will be because I've calculated my risk, my profit and juxtaposed it with my loss. If it turns out risk worthy, I'll take it but not on the condition of some baseless illogical emotion.

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Re: Put Yourself In A Woman's Position And Respond To This Poser Below: by SirMichael1: 8:49am On May 17, 2020

cococandy:

More like it. He may not even get the kidney after that. Nonsense and ingredients

Nah, not if you didn't sign a pact, cause you'll have to part with it.

Re: Put Yourself In A Woman's Position And Respond To This Poser Below: by Hathor5(f): 11:07am On May 17, 2020

yomi007k:

Very possible. Women are women's worst enemy.

Are you ok?

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Re: Put Yourself In A Woman's Position And Respond To This Poser Below: by ibkayee(f): 11:08am On May 17, 2020

He isn't getting the kidney to be honest, if I ask him to change the will he can change it back once he's back on his feet

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Re: Put Yourself In A Woman's Position And Respond To This Poser Below: by Hathor5(f): 11:09am On May 17, 2020

cococandy:

Like they are donating their hair

Donating a kidney means basically risking your own life. For who? For someone who had no regard for you. Unreal

cococandy:

More like it. He may not even get the kidney after that. Nonsense and ingredients

I tense up whenever a nurse wants to take a blood sample and almost faint when I cut my finger. grin

Re: Put Yourself In A Woman's Position And Respond To This Poser Below: by Ishilove: 11:15am On May 17, 2020

This is a no brainer. He should go and collect kidney from his other woman

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Re: Put Yourself In A Woman's Position And Respond To This Poser Below: by cococandy(f): 11:33am On May 17, 2020

That’s all he understood from the OP

The woman’s husband is not her enemy. It’s other women cheesy

Hathor5:

Are you ok?

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Re: Put Yourself In A Woman's Position And Respond To This Poser Below: by sisisioge: 11:42am On May 17, 2020

This is easy....NO!

Re: Put Yourself In A Woman's Position And Respond To This Poser Below: by spiritedtete: 12:03pm On May 17, 2020

Pavore9:
Death will be cheaper for him, so I will donate the kidney so he would be alive to face the music as I will gain more if he is alive to face divorce proceedings being the legally recognized wife (presuming a registry marriage).

The second option is to re-write it before donating it or he go get the other woman to donate hers at least that should be her contribution.

So you think sharing formula works in Divorce cases in Nigeria... please except you are strong mentally and spiritually if you meet an evill family you will be the one to even leave what you have worked for... what ever is obtainable outside Nigeria is not obtainable inside Nigeria most times.

Re: Put Yourself In A Woman's Position And Respond To This Poser Below: by Hathor5(f): 12:21pm On May 17, 2020

cococandy:
That’s all he understood from the OP

The woman’s husband is not her enemy. It’s other women

Unbelievable! undecided

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Re: Put Yourself In A Woman's Position And Respond To This Poser Below: by MummyIMadeIt: 12:22pm On May 17, 2020

The mothers and wives of the 90's will mostly react differently from the Mothers of this millennia.

Majority of the former will likely react this way..

Have a heart to heart talk wit their spouse before the operation telling him of her discoveries and nevertheless still willing to go under the table for him cos of their bond.

While Majority of the later as we can see from the comments above will not undertake such venture, and if they do, will do so for ulterior motives.

Be it as it may, the situation above can only be handled by a virtuous woman.

I still beg to know what really happened to the motherhood of this millennia... Times have changed for a fact.

God Bless the Mothers of the 90's.

Re: Put Yourself In A Woman's Position And Respond To This Poser Below: by cococandy(f): 12:23pm On May 17, 2020

MummyIMadeIt:
The mothers and wives of the 90's will mostly react differently from the Mothers of this millennia.

Majority of the former will likely react this way..

Have a heart to heart talk wit their spouse before the operation telling him of her discoveries and nevertheless still willing to go under the table for him cos of their bond.

While Majority of the later as we can see from the comments above will not undertakesuch venture, and if the do, will do so for ulterior motives.

Be it as it may, the situation above can only be handled by a virtuous woman.

I still beg to know what really happened to the motherhood of this millennia... Times have changed for a fact.

God Bless the Mothers of the 90's.

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Re: Put Yourself In A Woman's Position And Respond To This Poser Below: by MummyIMadeIt: 12:48pm On May 17, 2020

cococandy:

Shey you belong to the later group

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