Not every man is a husband material.
Some are friendzone materials. Some are boyfriend materials. Some are sex mate materials. Some are baby-papa materials. Some are husband materials. Some are father materials. Marry a man that is a Brother, Husband and Father.
Some of you, get into marriage with men who have no business being married. Marriage is not for everybody. Some men are not wired to function in matrimony. Don't allow marriage desperation or societal pressure to push you into the arms of a man who is not ready or suited for matrimony.
Look around you, most men get married just for the status. Those are the men that marry wives and keep for their mothers and fathers to look after. I have seen men who married wives and travelled out of the country for 5, 6 and even 7 years without coming home to see their wives. I mean what is that?
You shouldn't be theoretically married.
Marriage must be practical. Some men are very selfish. Take this from me, a selfish man can never be a good husband. Matrimony thrives on mutualism. It is a give-and-take situation.
* Don't marry a man because you are pregnant for him.
* Don't marry him because he deflowered you.
* Don't marry him because you are unemployed.
* Don't marry him because you've dated him for long.
* Don't marry him because you invested in him financially.
Marry him because you believe he is worthy of being called your Husband and the father of your unborn kids.
There are men everywhere but Husbands are scarce.
I pray for you who is yet to be married: you will not experience marriage bondage.
For those who feel that you've made a mistake, retrace your steps, and rededicate your marriage to God. He is faithful and ready to help you and He will help you out in Jesus name!
Note : if you are a man reading this post don't make it a gender war. And don't take it personal. This post is for men. I know there are un-wifable women but that's a post for another day.

Oh,,you are even a guy!!!...am in sifia pains..

You better write the female version now now..!!

Op , it seems u have seen it all , if person follow your advice . The person go wait tire !

Oh u are even a guy ?