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My Wife Does Not Know That I Know by chuksville(m): 1:29pm On May 19, 2020
Men what would you do?����

MY WIFE DOES NOT KNOW THAT I KNOW.
I have been married for 14 years "we" have 3kids(all boys) but none of them belongs to me. I know this for a fact but my wife does not know that I know. Let me explain.....
5years before I met my wife, I was involved in a car accident with two of my friends, our car skidded off the road. I was the only survivor of that accident,
I spent about 11months in the hospital and that left me with a condition that says I can't have children.
I gave my life to Jesus Christ and became a committed Christian after the incident.
In summary I became a pastor in a local church in my community 5years later and met my wife in the process. I did not tell her about my condition because I was hopeful that God will heal me. 6 years into our marriage my wife got pregnant and had ''our'' first child.
To be sure, I secretly went for a DNA n it was clear I wasn't the father. I repeated the test for all 3 children and they are all not mine. I have been living with this situation for the past 8 years and I am beginning to get irritated by both the children and my wife.
My wife pretends to be a good wife. She goes around preaching to young women in the church about the need to remain faithful to their partners but she has had 3 children by another man or men I don't know. I want to confront her, but I am confused as to how to go about this situation
I am just angry and irritated by everyone in my house lately. I feel like a total stranger in my own home.
What should I Do!?����

Please be Honest
Re: My Wife Does Not Know That I Know by obi4eze(m): 1:30pm On May 19, 2020
shocked


What did I just read?

Why didn't you tell her that you're impotent and what led to it? You're a deceptive man bro so you got to live with it.

Both of you have been living in hypocrisy 'forming' pastor and pastoress while living in deception. Well, na una sabi.

Anything built on deception and lies will never stand no matter how smart or spiritual you think you are.

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Re: My Wife Does Not Know That I Know by Bola146(f): 1:31pm On May 19, 2020
Old story, frame another one again

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Re: My Wife Does Not Know That I Know by Nobody: 1:36pm On May 19, 2020
Just tell her you know and keep doing your fatherly duty.
Re: My Wife Does Not Know That I Know by coolcharm(m): 1:39pm On May 19, 2020
You are as guilty as your wife

You withheld very vital information from her, one that would have had a huge influence on her decision to marry or not marry you.

So, please, repent and confess to your wife so that she can in turn confess to you too.

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Re: My Wife Does Not Know That I Know by IceLip: 1:40pm On May 19, 2020
Bola146:
Old story, frame another one again
why did yo comment my comment ??
Re: My Wife Does Not Know That I Know by yomi007k(m): 1:55pm On May 19, 2020
Mumu man.
Re: My Wife Does Not Know That I Know by Samade7: 2:04pm On May 19, 2020
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Re: My Wife Does Not Know That I Know by Samade7: 2:07pm On May 19, 2020
yomi007k:
Mumu man.

why did u comment my comment?
Re: My Wife Does Not Know That I Know by yomi007k(m): 2:17pm On May 19, 2020
Samade7:


why did u comment my comment?

No vex grin. Our spirit dey together.
Re: My Wife Does Not Know That I Know by donbachi(m): 2:20pm On May 19, 2020
Two of una know wetin una dey do.
Re: My Wife Does Not Know That I Know by Samade7: 2:29pm On May 19, 2020
yomi007k:


No vex grin. Our spirit dey together.


grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
Re: My Wife Does Not Know That I Know by Iamlawal(m): 2:33pm On May 19, 2020
Fear womens

Re: My Wife Does Not Know That I Know by illicit(m): 6:29pm On May 19, 2020
You are mad.
Thats all.

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