Humanoid01:


Na una type the want complicate matter, simple answer wey you go give you go the waka for bush.

Still on the matter.
Well as for me I'll do just that. Why? Because, we tend to find compatibility in a partner before heading into a relationship sef. You look their likes, hobbies etc.

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arthorjnr:


The dog won't plug all the holes.

Not to sound corny but every human being needs a sexual partner. The only exceptions to these are those that have a religious obligation.


But if you're cool with celibacy, its aii.

MelaninSkinGirl:


There is more to life than plugging holes. Someone who stimulates my brain is better than a hole plugger. Celibacy is the way forward in this era of shagging and dumping.

arthorjnr:


Definitely era of shagging and dumping.
I'm with you on that and the brain stimulant.
But, I don't mind having both the stimulant and the plug.

I can go celibate for awhile, heck I am right now. But a lifetime of it? Hell no! Lol.
My brain and body wants to get married. Lol.
Mostly my body honestly. But these days, marriage scares me.

MelaninSkinGirl:


Celibacy will save you alot of stress. Women can cope but men not so much. There are so many damaged people out there who have not healed and want to hurt other people. It is scary how sinister people are.

I would love to get married but the divorce rate is soaring and the married people I see are unhappy. Married men have asked me out, I have to remind them that they have wives at home. I belief in Karma and will never hurt another married woman.

arthorjnr:


Stick to your principles, do not let them sway you.
As much as there are sinister people out there, there are also good ones, great ones actually.

Work on yourself and grow, mingle, have fun, be happy, someone is always watching.

I don't know you but if you can make a married man want to SIN(lol), you definitely won't enjoy a life time of celibacy.

MandalorianCree:
No, I don't want to marry a psychopath.

MelaninSkinGirl:


I did use to have fun, I am trying to just enjoy life right now.

Mr Arthur, I didn't make married men sin o!!!! I am sure they were sinning before they met me, I just blocked them and rightly so, they should be getting their needs met at home.

I am enjoying Celibacy, my peace of mind trumps a roll in the hay.

arthorjnr:


Okay okay, Peace of mind coated with success is the goal.

The married men thing was a pun hun.
You're good in my books. You aii.