i've never had a relationship that lasted more than a year. all those guys that i've met are not my type of man but there are two guys whom i admire and love presently but have not asked me out. so, what do i do? i am not in any relationship now and am feeling lonely and unhappy whenever my friends nd family ask of the person am dating even now that am a graduate and even 24 years of age.

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my relationship dnt last more than a year becos d two guys i've ever dated love hanging around wit ladies of which i dont like and they were not straight forward. so,dis made me belief guys are the same.

You "believe" all men are not straightforward and same u "admire and love" 2 of them?concentrate on loving urself and having fun,luckily,u are working so u can afford to indulge and pamper urself.As for loneliness,No one wud notice or approach u if u build a wall ard urself or holed up inside ur house;go out once in a while.visit family and friends too.If u think those 2 guys rock,u can give them "leads" but before u do that be certain that u are emotionally alright to handle rejection. . .just incase it happens.

i want a man who is caring, trustworthy, honest, God fearing and focus.

thanks

jaykay001:

i want a man who is caring, trustworthy, honest, God fearing and focus.

. . .and are u all that?
You wud have better luck if u try the dating section.
Btwn,Look out for a certain user Dayokanu,he possess all the xters u want and more . . .

@ Poster

If i may ask please, what qualities do u look out for in a guy?

ifyalways:


Btwn,Look out for a certain user Dayokanu,he possess all the xters u want and more . . .

ifyalways:

. . .and are u all that?
You wud have better luck if u try the dating section.
Btwn,Look out for a certain user MR.Cork,he possess all the xters u want and more . . .

now dats much beta

^^^lmao

dave2:

@ Poster

If i may ask please, what qualities do u look out for in a guy?

You blind?Here:

jaykay001:

i want a man who is caring, trustworthy, honest, God fearing and focus.

Lol

jaykay001:

i want a man who is caring, trustworthy, honest, God fearing and focus.

Ok at 24 you want all of these? these are your requirements right?You know what?

By 28 your are going to take some things off that list and you'll have left : Caring,honest,trustworthy and God fearing.


Then by 32 what you will be asking for will be: Caring ,trustworthy and GOD FEARING

By 34 you will be left with caring and God fearing

Then by 38 your list will change from :caring and God fearing to . . . . . "I need  a man ,any man at all as long as he has got a diick in between his legs I don't mind"

jennykadry:

Ok at 24 you want all of these? these are your requirements right?You know what?

By 28 your are going to take some things off that list and you'll have left : Caring,honest,trustworthy and God fearing.


Then by 32 what you will be asking for will be: Caring ,trustworthy and GOD FEARING

By 34 you will be left with caring and God fearing

Then by 38 your list will change from :caring and God fearing to . . . . . "I need  a man ,any man at all as long as he has got a diick in between his legs I don't mind"

ROTFLMAO

^^^Lol But it is true, in a few years time she will be asking for any man at all even if his diick is 2 inches in length and size she will be willing to accomodate.

@Topic
I thought women have gone past this their :God fearing,honest, caring bla bla bla bla bla.

Go get yourself a man and watch him, you cannot just sit down there and ask for this and that even when you yourself have nothing to offer if not your bossom and azzets.

Don't even tell me you are intelligent because if you are you'll know that men are like trees with branches some branches(yes my favourite line) grow faster than the others, you need to be patient to see what the slow growing branch has got in stock for you but with your feminine intuition you don't have to wait for it to grow you can judge by  looking at the branches that have already sprung forth.

You cannot sit down there,not be in a relationship and expect to know if a man is caring, honest,God fearing and bla bla bla, you have got to tolerate a man before you can dive into his personality , you get to know a man when you are closer, you just can't know him from a distance

I hope you understand my words.

^^^nice, u make sense

jenny,
you no go kill me wit lafter

My dear, you need not be anxious over this. As a christian, learn to trust in God. Be friendly with any man you admire, study & get to know him, while you put the matter into prayers. God will certainly direct & help you meet your Mr. Right. If you lock yourself up at home, you can still meet your Mr. Right with prayers. But going out once in a while will expose you more to life & make you more knowledgeable. That is not to say you should move with the wrong crowd. Be careful & allow God direct you always. Good luck.

hi jennykadry, you dont have to be insultive about d matter.

@ Ifyalways

Common, did u have to insult me by asking if am blind?

@ Poster

Do u really think u can find such a man on nairaland or on the internet?
My fear is this; the devil himself could pretend to have all the qualities u mentioned just to have u for his selfish reasons and dump you when he is done.

So, u need to take extra care to avoid being a victim at the end.

pls., u guys should just stop being insultive. mind u, am not searching, am just assisting a friend wit d topic. pls, am not searching ooooooo (am engaged).

this poster is the exact reason why so many women get played day in and day out and then blame the whole "man species" for their sorry lives.
she is here telling us all what she wants in a man bla bla bla yet, she cannot discover if the guys she dates possess all these attributes or not. . . . . . . . .  if she did then she wouldnt have wasted her damn time with the 2 losers she dated.
and if the 2 losers she dated possessed the attributes she described earlier AND YET did her wrong, then we can all assume that what she is looking for is plain garbage as foundation/criteria for a lasting relationship. duh!!!

@poster
go out there and get to know people FOR REAL , not just listening to them telling you that they are this or that but actually showing it to you.
also, the one year mark is when people start getting tired of you. they finally know the real you, done you times and times again, flipped you like a pancake timelessly and know all the cracks in your body and (since you probably dont upgrade your game) they realise that you aint all that. . . . . . . .for them.

thinking that "finding the RIGHT one is easy" (or that anyone with your sought after attributes would be right for you) is what will have you fail on and on.

dave2:

@ Ifyalways

Common, did u have to insult me by asking if am blind?

A question is an insult in ur hamlet

@Jenny
I fell off the chair reading ur comment now see what you've done una wan kill persin with laff?

jaykay001:

pls., u guys should just stop being insultive. mind u, am not searching, am just assisting a friend wit d topic. pls, am not searching ooooooo (am engaged).

Story!!!! This is the excuse people use when they don't wanna receive insults

Abeg we know it's you jare, all these your excuses ain't for us.Nice try anyways

@OP

What have you got apart from puzzy and azz?

ifyalways:

. . .and are u all that?
You wud have better luck if u try the dating section.
Btwn,Look out for a certain user Dayokanu,he possess all the xters u want and more . . .

lol